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Old 06-25-2008, 12:35 PM   #1 (permalink)
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I love this this story, so true.


A Carrot, An Egg and a Cup of Coffee
A young woman went to her mother and told her about her life and how things were so hard for her. She did not know how she was going to make it and wanted to give up. She was tired of fighting and struggling. It seemed as one problem was solved, a new one arose.
Her mother took her to the kitchen. She filled three pots with water and placed each on a high fire. Soon the pots came to boil. In the first she placed carrots, in the second she placed eggs, and in the last she placed ground coffee beans. She let them sit and boil, without saying a word.
In about twenty minutes she turned off the burners.
She fished the carrots out and placed them in a bowl.
She pulled the eggs out and placed them in a bowl.
Then she ladled the coffee out and placed it in a bowl.

Turning to her daughter, she asked, "Tell me, what you see?"

"Carrots, eggs, and coffee," she replied. Her mother brought her closer and asked her to feel the carrots.
She did and noted that they were soft. The mother then asked the daughter to take an egg and break it.
After pulling off the shell, she observed the hard boiled egg. Finally, the mother asked the daughter to sip the coffee. The daughter smiled as she tasted its rich aroma. The daughter then asked, "What does it mean, mother?"
Her mother explained that each of these objects had faced the same adversity ... boiling water. Each reacted differently. The carrot went in strong, hard, and unrelenting. However, after being subjected to the boiling water, it softened and became weak. The egg had been fragile. Its thin outer shell had protected its liquid interior, but after sitting through the boiling water, its inside became hardened.
The ground coffee beans were unique, however. After they were in the boiling water, they had changed the water.
"Which are you?" she asked her daughter. "When adversity knocks on your door, how do you respond?
When the hour is the darkest and trials are their greatest, do you elevate yourself to another level? How do you handle adversity? Are you a carrot, an egg or a coffee bean?

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Old 06-25-2008, 12:45 PM   #2 (permalink)
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Re: Which are you?
awww i loved that, so sweet..but i'd say i'm all three lol

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Old 06-25-2008, 12:48 PM   #3 (permalink)
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Re: Which are you?
I liked that. I'd say I'm all 3 too.

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Old 06-25-2008, 12:53 PM   #4 (permalink)
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Re: Which are you?
Ive never heard that. I like it

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Old 06-25-2008, 02:26 PM   #5 (permalink)
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Re: Which are you?
I'm a coffee bean. I change things around me to make whatever is troubling me better.

Thanks for that! Very uplifting!!

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Old 06-26-2008, 01:53 AM   #6 (permalink)
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Re: Which are you?
thats a sweet story! Never heard of it Idk who i am, i think an egg, i wish i evoluate to a coffe bean 1 day. But damn, still sometimes i'm such a carrot! Damn

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Old 06-26-2008, 02:44 AM   #7 (permalink)
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Re: Which are you?
aww this was so sweet, thanks for sharing with us

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Old 06-26-2008, 11:40 PM   #8 (permalink)
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Re: Which are you?
The timing of that story couldn't have been better! I'm going off to college in the fall for the first time, and being a very introverted person, it scares me. So this story kind of helped me deal with the upcoming event.

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Old 06-26-2008, 11:43 PM   #9 (permalink)
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Re: Which are you?
I would say I go in like the egg and come out like the carrot...I'm very afraid of conflict (and proud of it) and I have no tolerance for adversity...I would rather run away than face fears.

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Re: Which are you?
What a great story! I totally think that I am a little bit of all three but I can really be an egg sometimes.

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Old 06-27-2008, 02:19 AM   #11 (permalink)
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Re: Which are you?
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The timing of that story couldn't have been better! I'm going off to college in the fall for the first time, and being a very introverted person, it scares me. So this story kind of helped me deal with the upcoming event.
You'll be fine sweetie. Leaving home for the first time can be scary, but college is such a wonderful time in your life. You'll love it. Just remember that everyone is there for the same reasons you are, personal growth and an education.

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Old 06-27-2008, 11:46 AM   #12 (permalink)
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Re: Which are you?
I'm all of them depending on the situation.

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Old 06-28-2008, 09:19 PM   #13 (permalink)
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i like that.

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Old 06-28-2008, 11:33 PM   #14 (permalink)
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Re: Which are you?
dammit i'm part carrot part coffee beani'm trying to get to full coffee ban status.

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