gildedangel
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I wish that I had friends and family that were even remotely interested in makeup. The boyfriend is supportive of my obsession, but that's about it in my world!
Are you the only one into makeup and beauty?
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Boasorte
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I'm another person who is the ony makeup lover in my family. One of my aunt's wears makeup, but it's nothing special just brown shadow and blush *rolls eyes*
I know a couple of girls from high school, and they are just getting into makeup, but I'm sure it's not the love of it like us on this website have. I need a makeup friend too hahaha
I know a couple of girls from high school, and they are just getting into makeup, but I'm sure it's not the love of it like us on this website have. I need a makeup friend too hahaha
Boasorte
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Quote:
Preach on, my sister, preach on
SO FREAKING TRUE
Originally Posted by meika79
I really wish more WOC would at least give makeup a try. I'm tried of these non-makeup-wearing people telling me how black women can't or aren't supposed to wear blues and greens and purples. These are the same ones that will slap a rainbow quick weave in their head and DARE someone to tell them its not hot. SMH. |
Preach on, my sister, preach on
SO FREAKING TRUE
missah
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I am a self confessed makeup and nail polish addict. I just spent over $1000 on m/u and n/p and when the urban decay bos and mac bloggers and semi precious collections I'll be buying them><"
No-one in my family understands why I like m/u and n/p so much! My friends don't either! Its frustrating when they go "oh anna, you just wasted your money yet again. You're so crazy" But i do love my makeup and my nail polish.
my guy doesn't understand my m/u addiction though, he doesnt even like it when i wear makeup! he says it"makes you into a different person. Even with just eyeliner, it changes your eyes" I disagree with him and we sometimes end up fighting but luckily, he supports my n/p addiction. Some of my favourite colours were chosen by him!
Its also very annoying when my friends ask me to lend them my n/p and do their nails for them! I know its nice to share and whatnot, but the attitude they give me for buying n/p in the first place... gets me pissed off. I usually just joke around and say sure because they're my friends. But I hate it when they lecture me about spendding my money on m/u and n/p but in the end, they're leeching off me! Its so annoying!
My mum borrows my n/p but i borrow some of her HE makeup since I can't afford it myself so thats fine. But its really annoying when she lectures me about colourful eyeshadow! I love colour, thats probably why I like m/u and n/p and its frustrating for me.
Sigh. If only our families and friends understood. Its a decision that enriches our life. it does not make us fake and isn't a waste of money. Its an investment and they will all come to realise it one time or another.
No-one in my family understands why I like m/u and n/p so much! My friends don't either! Its frustrating when they go "oh anna, you just wasted your money yet again. You're so crazy" But i do love my makeup and my nail polish.
my guy doesn't understand my m/u addiction though, he doesnt even like it when i wear makeup! he says it"makes you into a different person. Even with just eyeliner, it changes your eyes" I disagree with him and we sometimes end up fighting but luckily, he supports my n/p addiction. Some of my favourite colours were chosen by him!
Its also very annoying when my friends ask me to lend them my n/p and do their nails for them! I know its nice to share and whatnot, but the attitude they give me for buying n/p in the first place... gets me pissed off. I usually just joke around and say sure because they're my friends. But I hate it when they lecture me about spendding my money on m/u and n/p but in the end, they're leeching off me! Its so annoying!
My mum borrows my n/p but i borrow some of her HE makeup since I can't afford it myself so thats fine. But its really annoying when she lectures me about colourful eyeshadow! I love colour, thats probably why I like m/u and n/p and its frustrating for me.
Sigh. If only our families and friends understood. Its a decision that enriches our life. it does not make us fake and isn't a waste of money. Its an investment and they will all come to realise it one time or another.
Rania88
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I don't think it has anything to do with skin tone. There is a lot of make up for dark skinned women. I think it has a lot to do with effort and making the time for make up. My mom always says to me I don't know how you find the time. And I usually spend only about 15 minutes on make up sometimes less. And my best friend who is south east Asian says she doesn't have time because she had kids and can't be bothered. And many of my co workers have the same sentiment. I think a lot of women think that women who make themselves up everyday have too much time on their hands.
LatteQueen
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i know one thing if there were a major sale of a hairweave/lacefronts or makeup(all brands) 50% OFF OF BOTH..but one had to choose .....guess which one would win hands down? yep the first one. it"s a shame cause we as black women try so much to have "that hair" but don't want to complete the look to look good all the way with the makeup. I see it all of the time in Philly. Those women can plop that lopsided LF on but the rest is ,well,err,just whatever.
[quote name="LatteQueen" url="/forum/thread/115205/are-you-the-only-one-into-makeup-and-beauty/60#post_2140899"]i know one thing if there were a major sale of a hairweave/lacefronts or makeup(all brands) 50% OFF OF BOTH..but one had to choose .....guess which one would win hands down? yep the first one. it"s a shame cause we as black women try so much to have "that hair" but don't want to complete the look to look good all the way with the makeup. I see it all of the time in Philly. Those women can plop that lopsided LF on but the rest is ,well,err,just whatever.
[/quote] I agree. I'm tired of being looked at like I'm crazy for spending what I do on makeup when the same person will drop $500 on Virgin Indian Hair and more just to get it put in. There are many ways to make yourself up other than just a hairstyle. To me if you can spend that on hair you can do the same for your makeup, skincare or what have you.
[/quote] I agree. I'm tired of being looked at like I'm crazy for spending what I do on makeup when the same person will drop $500 on Virgin Indian Hair and more just to get it put in. There are many ways to make yourself up other than just a hairstyle. To me if you can spend that on hair you can do the same for your makeup, skincare or what have you.
agolds5682
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Well said!! I total believe that!! That rolled out of bed look is not hot!!~
jaylilee
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My mom loves makeup, and often indulges me and buys me some (cause i'm a poor college student, yo)... but for her, it was always about knowing that looking good also makes a person feel good. She worked as a secretary full time at a major clinic while also getting her own med degree, and so it was more about looking presentable. Nowadays she explores more with color, which is great! but she's also dilligent about taking care of her body and her skin. woman looks like she's 25 even though she's 45. if I age half as nicely, I'll die happy.
For a long time, being the rebel kid I was, everything my mom stood for, I stood against. So I never bothered with my hair, hated makeup, and despised getting dressed up lol...now i'm 23 and totally seeing where she's coming from. When she heard I was into makeup, she was totally excited and took me out shopping, haha. My first mac blush and urban decay eyeshadow were gifts from her.
Everyone else in my family is very much like "eh" about makeup, though. even my fiance will give me the "we're just going out to do this and this." when im putting on makeup. I tell him "why would i get if if i'm not going to wear it?" and that usually puts him at peace xD
For a long time, being the rebel kid I was, everything my mom stood for, I stood against. So I never bothered with my hair, hated makeup, and despised getting dressed up lol...now i'm 23 and totally seeing where she's coming from. When she heard I was into makeup, she was totally excited and took me out shopping, haha. My first mac blush and urban decay eyeshadow were gifts from her.
Everyone else in my family is very much like "eh" about makeup, though. even my fiance will give me the "we're just going out to do this and this." when im putting on makeup. I tell him "why would i get if if i'm not going to wear it?" and that usually puts him at peace xD
MAChostage
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For the first time in my life I am with a guy who loves for me to "get prettied up", as he calls it. I knew he was a keeper the day we were going out to run errands and the only color I was wearing on my face was lipgloss. He said (in the sweetest little disappointed tone), "aw, where's your eye stuff? I like to see what you'll come up with next, it's pretty." He's also very much into polished fingers and toes, which I have always done and am never without. I love it!
BeckyBenett
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Oh that sucks!That's so sweet! You're a lucky girl! Me & my bf fight about makeup at least twice a week
My family thinks I spend too much money on makeup but since its my money, it is hardly an issue. But I dont really get to share my love for makeup with anyone unfortunately. My friends do wear makeup but they are not as into it as I am. I love trying out new products and colourful eyeshadows! My bf is very understanding though. He lets me spend my money the way I want to, as long as I save a little and don't incur debt. He is fine with me, with and without makeup too. Days when I dress up a little more, he will always comment that I look pretty. not that he does not say it when I dont wear makeup, cause that will be mean! =p
thatssojessy
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Yes, I am the only person in my family that is really into makeup. They make fun of me, yet when it's time for a big event, they always ask for "that powder that makes the shine go away"
A Gurl Can Mac
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Preach on sisters my hubby hate mac and he hates me wearing makeup . My fam don't get it they wear cheap wigs and tacky weaves but get on my case because I want to look presentable *gives sideeye* I just be smdh at them.
banana1234
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sometimes i think its quite nice to be the only one doing the whole make up thing, it makes you individual.. ive never had anyone tell me i look stupid
maybe a lot of older family members of the african american community (like your mums etc) might not be all into make up cos when they were our age, there wasnt a whole heap available for their skin tone, its only recently there has been a boom in brands for WOC, i can imagine if they never really got into it when they were younger, its hard to start getting more adventurous when you are older and more comfortable with your make up routine
maybe a lot of older family members of the african american community (like your mums etc) might not be all into make up cos when they were our age, there wasnt a whole heap available for their skin tone, its only recently there has been a boom in brands for WOC, i can imagine if they never really got into it when they were younger, its hard to start getting more adventurous when you are older and more comfortable with your make up routine
aroseisarose
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I'm the only one in my family who's into makeup. My mum will wear it on nights out or something similar but never just day to day. I only started wearing makeup a few years ago and before that I just didn't get the whole makeup thing. Now I can't leave the house without the basics of my primers, msfn, concealer and mascara. Which could sound to some like I hide behind my makeup but honestly I just want to look my best. Nothing wrong with that.
None of my friends are into makeup either which is kinda sad because I would love nothing more than to spend the entire day chatting and browsing makeup counters.
None of my friends are into makeup either which is kinda sad because I would love nothing more than to spend the entire day chatting and browsing makeup counters.
karengirl1988
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I love to look at other's make up, but not very much into make up myself.
I actually got a question, I have a wedding coming up, i really have no idea what make up I should take?
This is small wedding, tradition, only family and friends, so I don't have big budget and I don't have no idea how to look beauty.
I read others answer, and think this is the right place I asked this question, pls help me.
We got dinner after wedding, and I will change another dress, not too formal, but cute ( wedding dress is a little dull)
I need opinions on the following two dress, i really need ideas.
1. Rose short dress (I love the color)
http://www.anntaylor.com/ann/product/AT-Weddings-%26-Events/ANN-Bridesmaid-Dresses/Tiered-A-Line-Dress/264082?colorExplode=false&skuId=89852989&catid=cata000012&productPageType=fullPriceProducts&defaultColor=5000
2. sexy dress ( friends recommend me the karen millen brand)
http://www.karenmillendressesuk.com/karen-millen-jewelled-dress-p-443.html
All the wedding preparation stress me out, I still got a lot of question, seems your guys know a lot this stuff, much thanks for your help.
I actually got a question, I have a wedding coming up, i really have no idea what make up I should take?
This is small wedding, tradition, only family and friends, so I don't have big budget and I don't have no idea how to look beauty.
I read others answer, and think this is the right place I asked this question, pls help me.
We got dinner after wedding, and I will change another dress, not too formal, but cute ( wedding dress is a little dull)
I need opinions on the following two dress, i really need ideas.
1. Rose short dress (I love the color)
http://www.anntaylor.com/ann/product/AT-Weddings-%26-Events/ANN-Bridesmaid-Dresses/Tiered-A-Line-Dress/264082?colorExplode=false&skuId=89852989&catid=cata000012&productPageType=fullPriceProducts&defaultColor=5000
2. sexy dress ( friends recommend me the karen millen brand)
http://www.karenmillendressesuk.com/karen-millen-jewelled-dress-p-443.html
All the wedding preparation stress me out, I still got a lot of question, seems your guys know a lot this stuff, much thanks for your help.
tuttifrutti
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I am the only one in the family who does makeup...My husband is totally supportive of me..He actually likes it..He wants me to get all dolled up before he comes home from work..cuz he says that it takes all the worries and stress of the day away when he sees me looking so nice..(isnt he sweet)
