NaomiH
Well-known member
*hugs* I'm glad you made it away from that party in one piece. I will never understand how people feel they have the right to abuse people in any way shape or form and even more so how some people will actually make excuses for the abuser. It is never okay to injure someone emotionally, sexually or physically and it's something that needs to be taken way more seriously than it is.
Just wanted to say that I feel for all the ladies who have been assaulted , I too am a vitctim. Not of sexual abuse but abuse period. I cant believe im sharing this but I was stabbed by a guy at a party in my right temple. I ran and called the cops but everyone at the party lied and said I hit my head on the table so he got away with it and I got stuck with a 6000 hospital bill, not to mention the emotional trauma as well as the physical that I endured afterwards. And people still try to say its my fault. I was assaulted at a Halloween party for refusing to dance with a masked man, and he physically assaulted me on the dance floor and they saw it and didn't even throw him out! I wasn't even rude about it I said I wanted to dance with my girlfriends. not to mention the abusive relationship that I was involved with. Too many people blame the victim for all sorts of these horrible things and it gets me outraged! I gave a presentation in one of my college courses, and I talked about violence against women ( includes others but mainly towards women) and this guy seriously said that women should be taught to cover up and learn not to be raped rather than teaching men that NO means NO!! I was so disgusted, but apparently I made him think with my response, because he decided to write his paper on my topic after my presentation. this topic gets me so upset!!! I am sick of people always blaming the victims!