Resolution "LOW-BUY" 2014! Who wants to play?

lilinah

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Quote: Originally Posted by ma146rina
it's funny she gave a poor rate to glamglow youthmud but it's actually the best mask i have ever used! (and i've used many,mostly all natural ones). i suppose it doesn't work for everyone...


Paula doesn't test them on herself. The reviews are based on an analysis of the ingredients a product contains, including information the manufacturer may give out, such as concentrations, pH levels, info on tests and studies, etc.

She points out that skin irritating ingredients often do damage without making the skin obviously red or sore at the time of use, damage that will add up and show up later. So a product might seem to be OK, but not be so great. There are usually other similar products that don't contain irritating ingredients, so one has options. Naturally everyone's skin is a little different, and some people's skin is more sensitive than others. Since i have rosacea, i prefer to avoid irritating ingredients. I don't need my cheeks, nose, or chin to be pinker / redder than they already are. And i don't need more dark spots on the sides of my jaw.

Some people claim she's down on natural ingredients, but her own products contain some, so clearly she isn't. She is down on ingredients that provide more irritating fragrance than skin care and that have scientific data to show that they are not so good for the skin, such as lavender. I have some background in using natural ingredients for healing, so i was surprised about the lavender. She has links to the scientific articles or abstracts of them that are not on her website, so anyone using her site can double check.

I have used products she rates poorly with no obvious problems. But i'd rather switch to those that don't have irritating perfumes and fragrance ingredients, and that have the right pH so that exfoliating acids can work properly. And i'd rather skip insanely expensive products that aren't any better than those that cost a fraction of the price.

As for the comment that some products have to be in jars, if a product contains antioxidants and you want those antioxidants to work, then a jar is not good. So much surface is exposed to the air every time the jar is opened and product used, so the antioxidants will oxidize. Most thick creams can be packaged in a tube. The main problem i have with tubes is that often there is still several days' (or even a week's) worth of product inside that can't get squeezed out. At that point i snip off the bottom strip - or even a lot of the tube, get the product out with my fingers, and put the now open tube in a ziploc baggie. Also, tubes don't look as pretty on the dressing table as colorful and shapely jars, but i'm for less vanity if it means more efficacy.

Is Beautypedia perfect? No. But i recommend reading the reviews before buying skin care products. You can always choose to ignore a review after you read it.

As for their makeup reviews, i will reiterate that i skip them. Paula's into neutral and matte for almost everything except highlighters. I love colors and like judicious sparkles. So i find the criticisms are usually not objective when it comes to these products. Wild colors and sparkle? Bring 'em on!
 

Yazmin

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All of you have inspired me to start looking over my collection and try to pare it down. I've actually known I've needed to do this for a while given the fact that I have two ALEX 9-drawers that are already full, and bags upon bags of new makeup and skincare products that I have yet to incorporate. Yep, I definitely have a problem. I'm going to start with pulling out all of my backups - I can already think of a few lipstick and gloss backups that I can part with. I also want to pull out all of my eyeshadows, including my palettes, and compare shades which are similar to determine which one I like better (texture, color payoff, etc) and get rid of the losing shades/palettes. I'm going to go through my brush collection as well. Now that I've started investing in Hakuhodo brushes, I'll be getting rid of most of my Sigma brushes and maybe even a few from MAC.
 

Starlight77

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Oh I belong here too. I'm trying so hard to cut back but than I see pretty packaging or another (the same shade) of pink lipstick and I have to have it. Most of the time I feel guilty buying afterward but once a new collection is posted I can't say no. Worse part is a have a 5 year old and a newborn at home and I am lucky if I get to put on a lip balm before leaving the house let alone a full face of makeup. My collection is no where near some of you but for me, 50 lipsticks when I wear 3 is bad.. And let's not get started on my ridiculous blush collection with all the same shades lol. I just wished i would actually wear everything but as soon as I get a new one I don't go back to the old :(
 

Glitteryvegas

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What a relief! I'm actually missing one thing right now, I noticed when I photographed all my collection at the weekend. My Colour Saturation CSG is nowhere to be found. It's probably hiding in the lining of a bag or something like that. I've been working on using it up, it's from the 2012 holiday set and I have a BU from the 2013 set so all is not lost, but I'll still be sad if it's really gone.

I will post photos of my whole stash over the next few days - can't do it all in one go as I took about 30 pics! Here's a few to start with:

1) Mac blushes



2) Non-Mac blushes



3) Highlighters etc



Nothing too crazy here. I need to use some of the non-Mac blushes to decide if they're worth keeping. For the rest some definitely get used more than others, but they all get their turn. Looks like cooler pink is the under-represented section of my blush collection (can't do orange), so I will bear that in mind when I think about buying.
ETA click on the pics for product names (in the photo comments) where I could remember! I'll add the missing ones when I get a chance
WOWIE! So pretty! Lots of variation there! :)
 

NewChick10

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Quote:Originally Posted by cucumbers

I've been going through my stash and using everything one at a time - I've found a lot of things that I just don't love anymore, and it feels nice to just move them on out instead of hoard them! I bought a couple Hourglass blushes, but I knew I would do that. I'm doing okay on my lower buy, but I want to do even better and continue working on clearing out my stash.



I think I want both of the new Hourglass blushes but I will have to search for a couple of blushes that are not worthy of staying before I can purchase another blush or two.
 

PixieDancer

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I've been going through my stash and using everything one at a time - I've found a lot of things that I just don't love anymore, and it feels nice to just move them on out instead of hoard them! I bought a couple Hourglass blushes, but I knew I would do that. I'm doing okay on my lower buy, but I want to do even better and continue working on clearing out my stash.



I think I want both of the new Hourglass blushes but I will have to search for a couple of blushes that are not worthy of staying before I can purchase another blush or two.
Which HG blushes are you looking at? Do you have similar/dupe shades already? Remember they are perm, so maybe you could start with one just to see how you like them first!? Letting old ones go before replacing them with the HG blushes is a very smart choice!
 

kanne

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I'm going to attempt a no-buy for February except for NARS Kauai when it's released here (23rd of Feb apparently) and Stereo Rose if it FOF comes out in Feb (I think it's going to be March though). That's it!!
 

IHughes

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I'm quite happy as I've behaved quite well. I only purchased NARSissist eyeshadow palette and I haven't received it yet! I'm pretty sure the order will be cancelled in the end as I think they're out of stock and my order still shows as IN PROGRESS. So I'm happy to have behaved quite well. I'm also pleased that there aren't any items I'm craving at the moment, not even the hourglass blushes, so that's a great thing. I'm sure there will be many exciting and incredible things being released so I'll be able to splurge then!
 

kerry-jane88

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aaaaaaand exhale!

well ladies i had a moment last night, i think i got a little overwhelmed.
today is payday, and i need to admit to myself that i see it as a waving flag to speed off and purchase some more.
i considered buying some muji drawers to sort my stash and i was convinced that i was going to end up buying the Dior Trianon Palette today.
i was feeling unsure about the muji drawers, i think i want some with handles instead,
and i hadn't seen the dior palette in person and it was a lot of money, not to mention i pretty much had dupes for all the colours in it...
i started feeling panicky and i realised that i didn't feel in control, like the decision had already been made and the money already spent.
so i thought, hang on, can i actually live without that stuff? and yes, it's pretty, or useful, but im sure there's about 100 other things i'm going to want this year.

im feeling very proud of myself for deciding to skip such big purchases.
i ordered a sleek palette for £7.99 instead to get my pistachio green e/s fix that would have cost me £59 had i bought the Dior Palette.

moving forward with my low buy, i think my goals are a little clearer.
i dont neccesarily mind spending money on products, using them for a bit and then selling them/giving them away,
as as much as that seems like a waste, i see SOME cosmetics as a seasonal accessory.

so i'm trying to get a rough 'one item in, one item out' system so im not adding too much to my stash.

i DO want to bring down the amount of money i spend on makeup though, which will mean tougher choices:

  • being honest with myself about the amount of use its going to get
  • do i have something similar, if so how much does that get used
  • is it going to suit me
  • if it's a 'fashion' type product, can i get a cheaper dupe
  • WHY do i want it, am i being influenced too much by advertising/youtube etc
and as for my proposed Feb No Buy, im going to give it my best shot,
not gunna lie, the amount of money ive spent on beauty in Jan is massive, 22 beauty buys, 16 of them makeup
so to be realistic i'll let myself get a max of 4 beauty items in feb
but the goal is 0!

gunna go listen to some Katy Perry for some Girl Power: you can do it Kerry! :)
 

veronikawithak

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I'm going to go through my brush collection as well. Now that I've started investing in Hakuhodo brushes, I'll be getting rid of most of my Sigma brushes and maybe even a few from MAC.
Welcome @Yazmin and @Starlight77! So excited to have you both!

This little group is growing day by day which I'm LOVING. I think a lot of us are realizing we have waaay more than we need or could ever use.. and it's not us who are winning.. it's the people our money goes to! The no-buy, low-buy, shop your stash, project pan, use it up, declutter, buy-less-enjoy-more movement is gaining so much momentum!
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I encourage anyone who is interested on the concept of why less is more to check out this TED talk. It's amaaaazing! http://www.ted.com/talks/barry_schwartz_on_the_paradox_of_choice.html
 

veronikawithak

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moving forward with my low buy, i think my goals are a little clearer.
i dont neccesarily mind spending money on products, using them for a bit and then selling them/giving them away,
as as much as that seems like a waste, i see SOME cosmetics as a seasonal accessory.

so i'm trying to get a rough 'one item in, one item out' system so im not adding too much to my stash.

i DO want to bring down the amount of money i spend on makeup though, which will mean tougher choices:

  • being honest with myself about the amount of use its going to get
  • do i have something similar, if so how much does that get used
  • is it going to suit me
  • if it's a 'fashion' type product, can i get a cheaper dupe
  • WHY do i want it, am i being influenced too much by advertising/youtube etc
and as for my proposed Feb No Buy, im going to give it my best shot,
not gunna lie, the amount of money ive spent on beauty in Jan is massive, 22 beauty buys, 16 of them makeup
so to be realistic i'll let myself get a max of 4 beauty items in feb
but the goal is 0!

gunna go listen to some Katy Perry for some Girl Power: you can do it Kerry! :)
I think you've made an amazing step already.. by really evaluating why you think you purchase. That is SO important. Is there anything else you can attribute to your buying habits other than that green light on available funds trigger? What makes you feel like you have to spend it right away? Do you feel like you have to "keep up" with beauty trends? Why do you feel that way? Could it be more fun and challenging to try and create this season's looks using things you already own? Or is it the one treat you give yourself when you normally spend money on others? Could you spend that money on something else that would make you feel good like a massage or another "experience-based" purchase rather than a material one? Could you put the money in savings and get positive feelings about watching the amount grow there? Whatever you feel like your reasons are, that's probably the best place to start! Figure out how you can get the same good feelings you get from buying makeup elsewhere. :)

Kudos to you for doing some self-reflection!! I think that's much much much more important than restricting. It's all about recognizing WHY and learning the triggers rather than trying to prevent the symptoms. I really hope you do well with your low-buy!! Be sure to let us know how you're doing and if we can do anything to help.
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Quote: Originally Posted by IHughes

I'm quite happy as I've behaved quite well. I only purchased NARSissist eyeshadow palette and I haven't received it yet! I'm pretty sure the order will be cancelled in the end as I think they're out of stock and my order still shows as IN PROGRESS.
So I'm happy to have behaved quite well. I'm also pleased that there aren't any items I'm craving at the moment, not even the hourglass blushes, so that's a great thing.
I'm sure there will be many exciting and incredible things being released so I'll be able to splurge then!
Great progress! So proud! I know you were feeling pretty stressed out earlier in the month so it's great that you've been able to turn it around. :)
 

ma146rina

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Welcome @Yazmin and @Starlight77! So excited to have you both!

This little group is growing day by day which I'm LOVING. I think a lot of us are realizing we have waaay more than we need or could ever use.. and it's not us who are winning.. it's the people our money goes to! The no-buy, low-buy, shop your stash, project pan, use it up, declutter, buy-less-enjoy-more movement is gaining so much momentum!
pompom.gif

I encourage anyone who is interested on the concept of why less is more to check out this TED talk. It's amaaaazing! http://www.ted.com/talks/barry_schwartz_on_the_paradox_of_choice.html
Amazing talk! very inspirational
 

Glitteryvegas

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Hi Ladies!

How's everyone going?! Things are going good over here! I inquired about a lippy in the clearance bin but then I decided I didn't need it. I'm going to let it go to a woman who will use and love that thing like it deserves!
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I've been looking at FOF and the Porenza (?) collections - thinking of one fluidline still and one or two blushes from the Porenza collection. For my 30th birthday next month I might let myself have 1-2 items guilt free and not counting towards my low buy. I was going to do 3 items but I told myself "Hey! NO!" We'll see how it goes - I might only get 1 item, but I will be visiting a CCO and we don't have these in Canada....I just have to tell myself "Practice restraint!" The last time I went to CCO I only bought 3 items which was pretty good actually (based on previous splurges). I'm thinking of checking out the HG Blushes but then if I want the Porenza blush too.....hmmm...do I need two blushes, esp. in such a short amount of time? Blushes take ages to go through, as discussed previously w/the posts about how long it takes to go through items. That was very eye opening!

So, yes, I had a rocky start but I think things will be only getting better from here!
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NaomiH

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Boy have I been there! And as much as I travel, I'm always worried something's going to get left behind! To the point where I have inventoried my makeup bag when I travel!
That's the ONE and ONLY reason I worry about purging backups! I don't think I'd necessarily go through a whole tube of lipstick (although I have on several occasions) but losing a lippie or having it stolen could make you VERY happy you had a reserve of a much loved lipstick! Especially if it's super unique and hard to dupe... like your Instigator!
SO glad you found her! It looks SO AWESOME on you!!
Thank you! I was so upset and was already looking in the clearance bin for a replacement.
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veronikawithak

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Hi Ladies!

How's everyone going?! Things are going good over here! I inquired about a lippy in the clearance bin but then I decided I didn't need it. I'm going to let it go to a woman who will use and love that thing like it deserves!
pompom.gif


I've been looking at FOF and the Porenza (?) collections - thinking of one fluidline still and one or two blushes from the Porenza collection. For my 30th birthday next month I might let myself have 1-2 items guilt free and not counting towards my low buy. I was going to do 3 items but I told myself "Hey! NO!" We'll see how it goes - I might only get 1 item, but I will be visiting a CCO and we don't have these in Canada....I just have to tell myself "Practice restraint!" The last time I went to CCO I only bought 3 items which was pretty good actually (based on previous splurges). I'm thinking of checking out the HG Blushes but then if I want the Porenza blush too.....hmmm...do I need two blushes, esp. in such a short amount of time? Blushes take ages to go through, as discussed previously w/the posts about how long it takes to go through items. That was very eye opening!

So, yes, I had a rocky start but I think things will be only getting better from here!
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YAY for you on letting go of that clearance bin lippie! The more that you say no to things, the easier it will be!! Ask yourself if you'll love the new item more than most of the products you already have.. like top 5 of that category for example. If it's not gonna be one of the best things you have, why get it at all?
 

kerry-jane88

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I think you've made an amazing step already.. by really evaluating why you think you purchase. That is SO important. Is there anything else you can attribute to your buying habits other than that green light on available funds trigger? What makes you feel like you have to spend it right away? Do you feel like you have to "keep up" with beauty trends? Why do you feel that way? Could it be more fun and challenging to try and create this season's looks using things you already own? Or is it the one treat you give yourself when you normally spend money on others? Could you spend that money on something else that would make you feel good like a massage or another "experience-based" purchase rather than a material one? Could you put the money in savings and get positive feelings about watching the amount grow there? Whatever you feel like your reasons are, that's probably the best place to start! Figure out how you can get the same good feelings you get from buying makeup elsewhere. :)

Kudos to you for doing some self-reflection!! I think that's much much much more important than restricting. It's all about recognizing WHY and learning the triggers rather than trying to prevent the symptoms. I really hope you do well with your low-buy!! Be sure to let us know how you're doing and if we can do anything to help.
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thank you very much.
now youve mentioned it i think i know the point where my spending habits went out of control, and im glad ive made that realisation now.
im certainly not the person i was 5 years ago, so im trying to figure out where i am now with it, but im not too sure, so for now i know if im feeling unsure about a purchase i should close the phone/laptop down and walk away.

someone mentioned to 'spend your money on memories' and thats a goal of mine this year.
i think feb no buy will be a good place to find my kicks elsewhere,
throw myself into more yoga, try more baking, read etc :)

this thread is good for the soul!
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NaomiH

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Yay! It looks like the FOF blushes are real frosty which make them a total skip, I'm not a huge fan of lustres, so the lippies will probably be skipped unless I get blown away at the counter. Stereo Rose looks pretty, but I'm still pretty torn on it. Looks like all I might get is Perfect Topping!
 

lyseD

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I am not purging, I think I have a good amount of make up and just need to make better choices in the future so I don't end up with too many dupes.

I was curious though, are any of you worried that your new, smaller stash could encourage more buying?
 

veronikawithak

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thank you very much.
now youve mentioned it i think i know the point where my spending habits went out of control, and im glad ive made that realisation now.
im certainly not the person i was 5 years ago, so im trying to figure out where i am now with it, but im not too sure, so for now i know if im feeling unsure about a purchase i should close the phone/laptop down and walk away.

someone mentioned to 'spend your money on memories' and thats a goal of mine this year.
i think feb no buy will be a good place to find my kicks elsewhere,
throw myself into more yoga, try more baking, read etc :)

this thread is good for the soul!
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I think that's amazing progress! Congrats on coming so far with it already, I just know this year is going to change your life!

I got a lot more into reading last year and I loved it. I borrow almost all of my books from the public library and use Goodreads to track which ones I've read. Adding a book to my list fills part of that need to accomplish something without adding any clutter or cost to my life. I recommend it if you're into reading and struggle with the same things. :)

Spending your money on memories is one of the best transitions. One blog I've mentioned before that I love so much is theminimalists.com. Two guys in the corporate/american dream lifestyle quit their jobs and got rid of the majority of their possessions. Now they both do what they love and are so much happier than they ever were! It's a little extreme but an amazing story. They're doing a free tour and I can't wait to go see them this summer!
 
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