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Medgal07

Medgal07

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mel33t said:
Ok, I need to vent...

So over the summer I remember posting on here that I was thinking of cutting ties with a friend that I had been close with previously. We were just going downhill. I ended up cutting ties and it was a really good decision. Every once in a while I'd wonder what he was doing, but never heard from him so I didn't think about it long.

Well, tonight I was checking Facebook (which I'm rarely on) and one of his friends (who I guess I forgot to delete in this whole cutting ties thing) liked my profile picture. I, stupidly, went to his page and then started looking at my ex-friend (Tom's) page. I saw that he had cooked Thanksgiving for his girlfriend (no issues there) and someone who really hurt me in the past. I know I cut ties with him and honestly, I blame him for it. I can't tell him who he can and can't hang out with - but I guess the saying goes "the enemy of my enemy is my friend" ? It really bothered me that he was sitting down having a meal with someone that he knows hurt my feelings... someone that he really doesn't have any ties to except through me.

I just needed to get that off my chest. I get that I have no right saying who he can hang out with, especially since I completely cut ties. Either he never noticed or if he did he never said anything about it. I've never been good at letting things go and I always remember what happens or what was said. (On the flip side it means my memory is really good and that's why I'm good at accounting
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Okay... vent session over!!
Thanks for reading / listening / glancing over it <3
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This is from my column, ' "Meddy Says"
I totally understand how you feel hurt by this. Your feelings rest somewhere between friendship and loyalty, and
are totally justified. What you don't know can often hurt you. Shake it off and stay off of FaceBook.
Meddy's final words---YOU ARE FABULOUS DAWWWW--LING!!!!!
 
charismafulltv

charismafulltv

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I agree with Meddy to stay away from Facebook. Lol. I just use it for my family if they send me messages or greetings. But a lot of my circles post are just for attention or war between families. Too much drama. IG is my fave social media!
 
Vandekamp

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charismafulltv said:
I agree with Meddy to stay away from Facebook. Lol. I just use it for my family if they send me messages or greetings. But a lot of my circles post are just for attention or war between families. Too much drama. IG is my fave social media!
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I prefer IG too. I do not have a FB page. Lol.
 
Medgal07

Medgal07

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charismafulltv said:
I agree with Meddy to stay away from Facebook. Lol. I just use it for my family if they send me messages or greetings. But a lot of my circles post are just for attention or war between families. Too much drama. IG is my fave social media!
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I don't even have a FB acct---no bueno!!!
 
Shars

Shars

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mel33t said:
Ok, I need to vent...

So over the summer I remember posting on here that I was thinking of cutting ties with a friend that I had been close with previously. We were just going downhill. I ended up cutting ties and it was a really good decision. Every once in a while I'd wonder what he was doing, but never heard from him so I didn't think about it long.

Well, tonight I was checking Facebook (which I'm rarely on) and one of his friends (who I guess I forgot to delete in this whole cutting ties thing) liked my profile picture. I, stupidly, went to his page and then started looking at my ex-friend (Tom's) page. I saw that he had cooked Thanksgiving for his girlfriend (no issues there) and someone who really hurt me in the past. I know I cut ties with him and honestly, I blame him for it. I can't tell him who he can and can't hang out with - but I guess the saying goes "the enemy of my enemy is my friend" ? It really bothered me that he was sitting down having a meal with someone that he knows hurt my feelings... someone that he really doesn't have any ties to except through me.

I just needed to get that off my chest. I get that I have no right saying who he can hang out with, especially since I completely cut ties. Either he never noticed or if he did he never said anything about it. I've never been good at letting things go and I always remember what happens or what was said. (On the flip side it means my memory is really good and that's why I'm good at accounting
hatsoff.gif
)


Okay... vent session over!!
Thanks for reading / listening / glancing over it <3
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Aww Mel. It's natural to feel some kind of way especially if you were the loyal friend but you know what, you made the right decision for you. It's okay to be curious but if you feel yourself slipping, cut those ties again.

Your last line made me laugh out loud!
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walkingdead

walkingdead

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mel33t said:
Ok, I need to vent... So over the summer I remember posting on here that I was thinking of cutting ties with a friend that I had been close with previously. We were just going downhill. I ended up cutting ties and it was a really good decision. Every once in a while I'd wonder what he was doing, but never heard from him so I didn't think about it long.  Well, tonight I was checking Facebook (which I'm rarely on) and one of his friends (who I guess I forgot to delete in this whole cutting ties thing) liked my profile picture. I, stupidly, went to his page and then started looking at my ex-friend (Tom's) page. I saw that he had cooked Thanksgiving for his girlfriend (no issues there) and someone who really hurt me in the past. I know I cut ties with him and honestly, I blame him for it. I can't tell him who he can and can't hang out with - but I guess the saying goes "the enemy of my enemy is my friend" ? It really bothered me that he was sitting down having a meal with someone that he knows hurt my feelings... someone that he really doesn't have any ties to except through me.  I just needed to get that off my chest. I get that I have no right saying who he can hang out with, especially since I completely cut ties. Either he never noticed or if he did he never said anything about it. I've never been good at letting things go and I always remember what happens or what was said. (On the flip side it means my memory is really good and that's why I'm good at accounting :tip: ) Okay... vent session over!!  Thanks for reading / listening / glancing over it
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mel33t

mel33t

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Shars said:
Aww Mel. It's natural to feel some kind of way especially if you were the loyal friend but you know what, you made the right decision for you. It's okay to be curious but if you feel yourself slipping, cut those ties again.  Your last line made me laugh out loud! :lmao:
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Hey, you gotta stay positive right?! Thanks :hug:
walkingdead said:
Mel-- I remember this guy. I would of felt the same way even thought tied were cut but it still hurts. I deleted my FB account a along time ago. Too much information on people I really didn't care about. Don't think about him and enjoy the holiday season with the people you love.
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charismafulltv

charismafulltv

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NaomiH said:
Philip Treacy might be a good one, but I've learned over the last year that getting too excited about a new MAC collection usually leads to more disappointment than excitement so I'll remain skeptical. Lol
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The lipstick on the 3rd pic looks interesting. I hope it's matte.
 
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