shimmyshimmyya
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Simply Elegant
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Honestly, if he's already causing this much trouble this early on, I don't think he's really worth all of the trouble. He can say he's busy all he wants, but it doesn't take much to return a call or send an email or something to show he cares. I wouldn't make him a priority if he can't make you one after you've put in your fair share of effort trying to communicate with him. I'm going through the same thing, and this is what I plan on doing.
pop violet
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Hey! I haven't been following your posts but after reading this it definitely sounds like this guy is a big jerk. The fact that he let you move to his town to be with him (if I'm following correctly) and then not calling you back and is too busy to see you says a lot. Sadly, it shows that he doesn't care about you. I hate to say it but it's true. Actions speak way louder than words. Time to move on (I know it's hard) but you need to because he is so not worth it. Trust me, in the future, whenever you think about this guy, you will be saying to yourself, "WTF was I thinking?"
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kaliraksha
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If he wanted to be with you, he'd be with you. Don't let him come back with lame excuses. Or, at least I wouldn't. Sorry he turned out to be such a flake =/
user79
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I think you answered your own question there but somehow you're denying it to yourself.
Forget this guy, stop contact and move on.
Originally Posted by shimmyshimmyya
You know, I get people are busy. I'm busy too. But I always make time for people I care about in my busy schedule. This shows me that he doesn't really care about me at all. I mean, if I'm someone that he want's to be with, don't you think he would have made every attempt to try to see me? |
I think you answered your own question there but somehow you're denying it to yourself.
Forget this guy, stop contact and move on.
X4biddenxLustX
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Just leave the guy and forget about him. If someone REALLY wanted to speak to someone else, they'd find the 2 seconds or 2 minutes to either text you, call you or message you or something! They wouldn't be telling you they'll call you back and blah blah blah and never doing so.
ashk36
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Re: The Exception and Rule Theory from "He's Just Not Than Into You"
I think sometimes it takes a big douchebag to teach us that we deserve so much better. Seriously, the douchebags are the ones you learn from. They're so worthless, but they make you see so much more clearly. It fuckin hurts feeling rejected when you know you should be the one doing the rejecting, but man...once you open your eyes a little way down the road, it all makes sense. For me, the one thing I wish I could turn back time to do would be to tell the douchebag I dealt with to go fuck himself when I had the chance, instead of acting as pathetic as I did. Can't dwell on it though. On the plus side, after being hurt like that, you can spot a douchebag from a mile away.
PS. Word of the day is douchebag.
I think sometimes it takes a big douchebag to teach us that we deserve so much better. Seriously, the douchebags are the ones you learn from. They're so worthless, but they make you see so much more clearly. It fuckin hurts feeling rejected when you know you should be the one doing the rejecting, but man...once you open your eyes a little way down the road, it all makes sense. For me, the one thing I wish I could turn back time to do would be to tell the douchebag I dealt with to go fuck himself when I had the chance, instead of acting as pathetic as I did. Can't dwell on it though. On the plus side, after being hurt like that, you can spot a douchebag from a mile away.
PS. Word of the day is douchebag.
X4biddenxLustX
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Re: The Exception and Rule Theory from "He's Just Not Than Into You"
I haven't seen the movie or read the book yet but yep the rule is true. My old therapist would always tell me this whenever the situation with me and this one guy would come up. It doesn't really take much to realize if a guy cares about you in that way or not. I'm glad you've gotten this sucker out of your life and can move on =]
I haven't seen the movie or read the book yet but yep the rule is true. My old therapist would always tell me this whenever the situation with me and this one guy would come up. It doesn't really take much to realize if a guy cares about you in that way or not. I'm glad you've gotten this sucker out of your life and can move on =]
FiestyFemme
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Re: The Exception and Rule Theory from "He's Just Not Than Into You"
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I couldn't agree more. Been there, done that... just makes you appreciate it when you finally have a good one.
Good luck with everything... I know it won't be easy but you can do it!
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| Originally Posted by ashk36
I think sometimes it takes a big douchebag to teach us that we deserve so much better. Seriously, the douchebags are the ones you learn from. They're so worthless, but they make you see so much more clearly. It fuckin hurts feeling rejected when you know you should be the one doing the rejecting, but man...once you open your eyes a little way down the road, it all makes sense. For me, the one thing I wish I could turn back time to do would be to tell the douchebag I dealt with to go fuck himself when I had the chance, instead of acting as pathetic as I did. Can't dwell on it though. On the plus side, after being hurt like that, you can spot a douchebag from a mile away. PS. Word of the day is douchebag. |
I couldn't agree more. Been there, done that... just makes you appreciate it when you finally have a good one.
Good luck with everything... I know it won't be easy but you can do it!
