Yeah mattes e/s are more appropriate, the thing is frost or lustre e/s tend to bring out wrinkles and lines. But it depends on how much makeup you put on!
I'd recommend you Expresso (Matte) which is a beautiful deep brown (this is one of my must-haves), Mulch (frost), Brun (satin) or Coquette (satin) which is a soft nice taupe colour.