boy advice please..!!!

[MACreation]

Ok..so I've been seeing this guy for 3 weeks ( YES...same guy that was afraid to kiss me in my last post) and he was over last night. He was drinking before he got here so I couldn't tell much if he was drunk, or just buzzed at that point, since he was over for like 2 hours. Anyways, we were watching tv and talking, and he leaned in to kiss me, and looked at me for a little bit gave me a hug and asked, "hey.what's up with us, what are we?"...shyly..and I began to say something like "huh.." and he said "cuz i wanna know, would you be my girlfriend?" and i was pissed, i got mad, i just said whatever and looked away. (I'VE NEVER BEEN ASKED THAT BEFORE...heloo!! I'm 24 yrs. old!! so it scared me) then he got a little sad and said, "huh..i'm serious, i want that". And i told him, to ask me when he wasn't bent. Then he said no he's straight, and asked bc he wanted it, so I said yes. Later that night he said we'd go out to breakfast next morning so I was like, ok cool, call me when you get up. Well he didn't call me today morning till 2pm (his best friend is my sis's bf, and he slept over last night, so they had to get the car out of here, and get him snowtires) and he had gotten up probably in a haze, after being drinking the night b4, had helped his friend..and he forgot our plans. I felt too stupid to ask him if he remembered that question he asked me.....

so this is my delay, i have NO idea what to do now. He was over tonight, and I just felt dumb to ask. Things were the usuall, so I dunno

Please help girlies!! I am beyond confused with this!

 

[eeyorebb]

i think you should just ask him straight out...i'd imagine its nerve wracking..but if he's the type to like get drunk and forget...then he's not worht your time because problems will arise later..

but maybe if you point it out to him...the two of you can work something out together?

just a suggestion...:happy:

cos maybe he sincerely doesnt remember clearly...some guys DO forget to call...but i dont think he would forget he asked you out!

 

[MACreation]

NOPE! I aked him today if he remembers what he was telling me that night and he said do you? i hope you remember because it was something important. lol! So I was like, OMG you were seriosu aww sweetie...lol..it was sweet, but yeah, the drinking thing is on check

Thanks girlie

 

[eeyorebb]

hahaha..i guess that happens...my boy has what we decided is a 'three second goldfish memory'..he honestly forgets stuff that happens/said too! ah wells! GUYS~!!!