Dreaming about an ex....often

[Hilly]

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[MACATTAK]

I dream about exes all the time & 9 times out of 10 they are sexual. I never talk to my exes & I still have the dreams. I'm sure it's normal & you can't control it, so you really shouldn't feel guilty. You are not doing anything wrong

 

[jenii]

Oh hell, that's normal. I even get dreams like that about exes who weren't even GOOD in bed. I would like nothing more than to never have one again, but people have very little control over their dreams.

Luckily I am usually a lucid dreamer, so I at least KNOW that I'm in a dream, but that doesn't make it suck any less! XD

 

[Hilly]

Thatnks for the input girls. Yea...the dream really turned me on . I thought about it more and then I got on the bf lol..he eneded up benefitting.

 

[anaaliyahfan03]

i did at the beginning of me and my man's relationship but it was on that "testing the waters" kinda thing, just to make sure i was making the right decision in starting a new relationship and making sure i was over my ex...it turned out that i was ready to be with my current boyfriend, but the fact is i have dreamed many times about my ex sexually (i can honestly say that i dont anymore though..i dream of certain celeb men now..

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[glam8babe]

ive been with my new boyfriend since october 2006 [the same time i broke up with my ex] and i have had occasional dreams about my ex probably 1 sexual and the rest just with him appearing in my dreams and yeh i do feel guilty when i wake up especially if my boyfriend is sleeping with me incase i said my ex's name in my sleep or something but thats never happened. Now i dream about my current boyfriend, i hate my ex hes such an A hole and the fact he has a new gf doesnt make me jealous mainly because she looks like a man and has no style but whatever when i was with my ex i did have strong feeling for him, we were together for around 18 months which was my first proper relationship - we thought we were in love but now that im in a better relationship i regret even accepting to go out with my ex because i realise that it wasnt love or anything but yeh... so dont feel guilty, i mean dreams are dreams! you've moved on anyway and engaged right so you must be happy with your current partner so dont let the dreams get to you or make you feel guilty

 

[Beauty Mark]

Dreams can often be symbolic. They don't mean anything a lot of the time, though.

I wouldn't talk to him about sexual dreams you have about him, unless the boundaries are very firm. It could be misconstrued as you trying to hit on him