EmbalmerBabe
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deleting all my personal shit thanks
Dumped...:(
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EmbalmerBabe
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Whoops I just realized I should of put this in the relationship section,sorry.
Thanks girls you guys are sweet.
Thanks girls you guys are sweet.
macslut
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I know how you feel. My last boyfriend broke up with me the night before my birthday over email. He had met someone else. He also asked that if it didn't work out with the new woman could be call me? The answer to that was no. All this happened two days after he was talking about "our summer plans".
I cried for about 2 weeks. You will have to get that part of it out. I know my friends were incredibly helpful in calling him a jerk and all. Call up the girls and have your ego boosted.
And I am so sorry that this happened. You are better than that and better than him. Go find someone who will appreciate you (when you are ready that is)
I cried for about 2 weeks. You will have to get that part of it out. I know my friends were incredibly helpful in calling him a jerk and all. Call up the girls and have your ego boosted.
And I am so sorry that this happened. You are better than that and better than him. Go find someone who will appreciate you (when you are ready that is)
Another Janice!
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Speak to you in one year? WTF?
You can speak to my ass...dickhead.
You can speak to my ass...dickhead.
User49
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You poor thing! I can imagine how confused and upset you are feeling. All these things take time to work out and even in time you are still going to be left with so many questions as to what happened. My advice is to spend as much time with some friends eating lots of ice cream and trying to take your mind off it. And also spend some time coming to terms with it listeing to some sad songs so you can really have a good old cry and let out your feelings. One of my fave sad songs: Iris by the Goo Goo Dolls. Keep a journal too! When I was going thru something similar it helped me make sense of my feelings and get it out of my system...
EmbalmerBabe
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MsCuppyCakes
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butterflydream
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Im sorry, thats awful. I know what your going through my Bf friend was sleeping around on me and I did not find out until I was 6 months pregnant. My friend sent me a pic of him with this girl kissing him(and she was ugly too, her make up was horrible). I was so hurt because I never expected that from him. He had always treated me well, and always said he loved me. I believed him too. well I confronted him and he said that he never loved me, and wasn't ready to settle down. So we split up. I was really hurt and stressed it was not as if I could just forget him because of the baby. Well to make a long story short I wound up getting so stressed I was hospitlied for PIH, and severe eclampsia. I had my baby twelve weeks early, and he only weighed two pounds. So in all I know it hurts but its not worth any amount of stress or tears, because in the long run if you continue to dwell on it you will just be hurt more.
EmbalmerBabe
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Butterfly Dream, I am sorry to hear you were treated this way.
Inconsiderate, uncaring individuals baffle me with their selfishness.
My sister was 7 months pregnant when she found out her boyfriend
was cheating on her. He was cheating on her with his best friends wife.
I hope you have found someone who treats you with the love and respect that you deserve.
Inconsiderate, uncaring individuals baffle me with their selfishness.
My sister was 7 months pregnant when she found out her boyfriend
was cheating on her. He was cheating on her with his best friends wife.
I hope you have found someone who treats you with the love and respect that you deserve.
Bernadette
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I am so sorry to hear about your ladies stories involving these a-holes, I know I have my own.
My first boyfriend totally ripped my heart out. I had waited until I was 20 to even date anyone, he was my first kiss, I lost my virginity to him, you name it. He filled me up with all the mumbo-jumbo guys are famous for "God sent us to each other." "You complete me." "I never knew I could lvoe someone so much." "I want to be with you forever." Blah blah blah and then out of nowhere was like "I think we're better as friends. I don't want to break up but I think we should take a break." and stopped calling me. I was jsut one in a series of f-ed up relationships that he's had. I was only with him for three months so I can only imagine how much harder it would be to be treated that way after years.
I had jsut as bad of luck with the next guy who it turned out was a total sociopath and has lived in six states in the last three years lying to and robbing people, mostly chicks. That's an exciting and shocking story that I won't even get into. But yea, he cheated on me and stole a lot of money from me.
The best advice I can give is just to give it time. Heartbreak is so overwhelming and difficult to get through. I realized that the best thing to do is to try to take control of your life, your feelings and who you are. Really work towards making yourself happy and being all of the things that you dream of being, regardless of what anyone else might expect or think. Lean on your friends and let them help you. Just really try to build up your confidence. Sometimes situations like this can really teach you to love yourself and help you become a better person than you ever were before.
Hang in there, you will be okay. Someday, probably when you least expect it, aren't looking for it and just don't even care, you will meet the right guy
.
My first boyfriend totally ripped my heart out. I had waited until I was 20 to even date anyone, he was my first kiss, I lost my virginity to him, you name it. He filled me up with all the mumbo-jumbo guys are famous for "God sent us to each other." "You complete me." "I never knew I could lvoe someone so much." "I want to be with you forever." Blah blah blah and then out of nowhere was like "I think we're better as friends. I don't want to break up but I think we should take a break." and stopped calling me. I was jsut one in a series of f-ed up relationships that he's had. I was only with him for three months so I can only imagine how much harder it would be to be treated that way after years.
I had jsut as bad of luck with the next guy who it turned out was a total sociopath and has lived in six states in the last three years lying to and robbing people, mostly chicks. That's an exciting and shocking story that I won't even get into. But yea, he cheated on me and stole a lot of money from me.
The best advice I can give is just to give it time. Heartbreak is so overwhelming and difficult to get through. I realized that the best thing to do is to try to take control of your life, your feelings and who you are. Really work towards making yourself happy and being all of the things that you dream of being, regardless of what anyone else might expect or think. Lean on your friends and let them help you. Just really try to build up your confidence. Sometimes situations like this can really teach you to love yourself and help you become a better person than you ever were before.
Hang in there, you will be okay. Someday, probably when you least expect it, aren't looking for it and just don't even care, you will meet the right guy
EmbalmerBabe
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Thankyou so much to all of you girls for your thoughts and kind words.
You guys make me feel better. All my close friends told me to leave him a long time ago. I guess I was just foolish thinking it was a good thing.
Bernadette~ your post is awesome,thankyou. My confidence is pretty well crushed right now. I am terribly depressed and my work life and family seem to add to this downward spiral. I am going to keep my head up. Once again,thanks girls.
You guys make me feel better. All my close friends told me to leave him a long time ago. I guess I was just foolish thinking it was a good thing.
Bernadette~ your post is awesome,thankyou. My confidence is pretty well crushed right now. I am terribly depressed and my work life and family seem to add to this downward spiral. I am going to keep my head up. Once again,thanks girls.
