Do you have a MAC counter near you? If you do, I'd recommend going to one. It really depends on your skin tone and what you consider to be "every day." I tend to wear a lot of eyeshadow on a daily basis but a lot of people don't. Some of my favorites are Satin Taupe (brown/grey taupe), Trax (purple with pink shimmer), Sumptuous Olive (green/gold), but I'm pretty pale (NC15) and I have dark hair and eyes.
MAC blushes are some of the best I've used. For a soft look, Blooming from the Cult of Cherry collection is really pretty, and I also like Pinch of Peach, I think it's called, but again, it depends on what looks good on you.
If you can, I'd highly recommend the brushes. They really do make a difference. The Holiday gift sets make good starter kits.