Falling for the same guy again...

MzEmo

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theres this guy that i really liked and was into cus we used to always flirt, mess with each other, and secretly look at each other in class. i was going to tell him how i felt until we had a fight so i stopped talking to him thinking that my feelings would just go away over time, but it hasnt. so recently he asked me to prom and made me confused about our relationship. he also payed for the ticket if it makes any difference. lately all of my feelings have been coming back unexpectedly and i can tell hes also nervous when he flirts and messes with me. one of my buddies told me that he liked me b4 the whole fight thing from a reliable source. but i heard from so many ppl that they could tell we liked each other even though we rlly dont know the truth. i dont know if i should tell him how i feel b4 prom or after because its been killing me all year. but i do have too tell him soon or else its gonna eat me up. what do u think i should do. sorry if it makes no sense :/
 

MAC is love

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he probably felt bad about the fight you guys had and feels stupid that you guys had to 'start over' or whatever. i would go to prom with him, [unless it was a bad fight, like he did something really bad to you or something] & tell him how you feel BEFORE you go. if not, he might think you're leading him on =/ which i don't think would be a good thing. good luck!
 

Taj

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If you are young enough, just do what yr heart tells you to do. No second thought needed ! ! ! Don't let yourself regret !
 

tropical_smiles

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I'll say go for it...'cause trust me..you might regret it and start thinking about why you didn't go in for the kill when you had the opportunity. I'm only telling you this because 5 years after this guy and i got into a fight about me not dating him...We still talk but now he's in the UK finishing up his grad and i'm working in Canada. After awhile I started to really miss him and now i wish i had given him the chance and i didn't. five years later I'm still wondering what it could of been
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MzEmo

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Originally Posted by MAC is love
he probably felt bad about the fight you guys had and feels stupid that you guys had to 'start over' or whatever. i would go to prom with him, [unless it was a bad fight, like he did something really bad to you or something] & tell him how you feel BEFORE you go. if not, he might think you're leading him on =/ which i don't think would be a good thing. good luck!

Our fight was bad but not that bad to keep it a grudge and stuff. we both let it pass already. i'm positive about going to prom with him. the problem is that ive been trying to tell for a year already and its almost graduation in 3 weeks. im not sure what to do anymore
 

Beauty Mark

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Tell him! Even if you are about to graduate, I knew couples who got together right at the end. Some stayed together for a long time; one is even getting married this June.
 
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