haha funny dream :D

[Sanne]

I had a dream the other day where my boyfriend prooposed...with the ugliest ring ever!!! it was copper with an orange stone it it, in the ugliest way possible

my bf and I talked about things before and he wanted to propose to me with a really expensive ring, and that one would also be my wedding ring. so the first thing I said after I woke up: I wanna choose my own wedding ring, you can pick the engagement ring when you're going to propose to me one day!!!

glad that's not going to happen IRL, dreams are great warnings

 

[melozburngr]

Oh Gosh, this is my BIGGEST fear. My bf doesnt understand my taste in jewelry, or maybe he just has REALLY bad taste.

Anyway.. I'm scared to death that he is going to propose to me and I'm going to HATE the ring.

What would I do?! lol

 

[Sanne]

the same as I, haha make sure you are the one who's poing to pick the weddingring, that's the one you'll be wearing for the rest of your life!!!

 

[bluegrassbabe]

It happened to me, lol. Well, it wasn't horrible, just not what I really wanted. I knew he was going to propose, because we share a computer, and I saw all the jewelry websites in the history page. He forgot to delete them. So (I'm totally evil) I logged onto his account and looked at all of his bookmarks. There were 2 I really liked, and a few that were ok. My most important want was for a princess, emerald, or cushion cut stone, and he was looking at a few princess cuts, I was happy.
When he propose, I opened the box, and it was so different than any of those. It was a three stone, with all round diamonds. Not a bad ring by any means, but not what I would have chosen for myself.
It took me until three months after we were married to say anything. I wanted to exhange it when we went to the jeweler to get it sized, but I said nothing. I wanted to trade it in when we were picking out bands to go with it, but I couldn't bring myself to say it. So like a year and a half later, we were looking at my newly engaged friends ring. It was exactly what I wanted, and I was so jealous. In the car on the way home I just blurted out "I hate this ring and I want to trade it in". He started laughing at me and asked why I never said anything before. I felt really stupid. I thought saying something would hurt his feelings and come off very shallow. After all, he picked it for me and had the best of intentions. Anyway, he told me to go in anytime and pick out a new one to trade it for. That was about 6 months ago, and I still can't pick a favorite, so I'm still wearing the original ring. I'll get a new one eventually.