help!

[L1LMAMAJ]

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[Babylard]

aw, theres nothing you can really do until he moves out i suppose.

but think of it like this, if you are going to see your beloved, is it really a waste of gas?

 

[kaliraksha]

At least he has some sense. I get that there are wastes of gas, but I think that's a choice you make and have to live with when you don't live close to your significant other. It's like when people date and live in different countries, if they want to see each other they have to accept paying for a few airplane trips- there isn't much of a way around that. He's saving money by living with his parents and his parents should realize he could have moved out for freedom's sake.

Honestly, I would probably offer to split the price of gas when you guys visit each other... if you go he pays half... if he goes you pay half. It seems pretty fair since the visit is for both of you and I hope his mom can't complain about equality. Also, if this situation is going to get worse with you moving you guys might want to look into one of those gas reward credit cards... might as well save where you can.

 

[L1LMAMAJ]

thanks. i offered to pay for some of his gas since he comes to see me more often now. he said it was okay and that he'd handle it. i'm glad he is doing this for us and our relationship.

 

[iadoremac]

I'm sorry but i think its a load of crap the only reason in my opinion that his mom would say so is if she doesnt like you but as long as he is not taking money from her to buy gas or using her car such a comment should not even prevent him from coming to see you. I think you need to investigate because something isnt right

 

[mizuki~]

Aww what a sweet guy you have! Unfortunately, there's not much you can do but at least he's not the type that listens to every word his mama says. It can be way worse so just smile and be happy that you guys still get to see each other and he makes an effort to do so too!

 

[Khalia25]

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Originally Posted by L1LMAMAJ thanks. i offered to pay for some of his gas since he comes to see me more often now. he said it was okay and that he'd handle it. i'm glad he is doing this for us and our relationship.

Now that's what I'm talking about! That man is handling his bit'ness!

I'm glad it worked out!!

 

[L1LMAMAJ]

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Originally Posted by Khalia25 Now that's what I'm talking about! That man is handling his bit'ness! I'm glad it worked out!!

Haha thank you!!