kimmy
Well-known member
so i'm back for more advice.
there's this guy, whom i've posted about before (last time i was here for advice, it was on him then, too haha) and we were talking about a relationship. i really wanted (and still do want) it. only problem is, we've been talking about it for 4 months and i still haven't seen him. he won't make time...i guess maybe he tries but he never does actually make time to spend with me.
basically, i told him today that he probably shouldn't expect me to answer the phone for a while because waiting is killing me. he cried. and hung up on me. then i called him back and we talked for like 2 hours. i had to go finish my chores, so pretty much that should have been the last time we talked for quite some time.
and hour later, he texted me to tell me he misses me. when i got home like an hour after that, he instant messaged me to tell me the same thing.
i'm talking to him on instant messenger right now. but i think if he were to call me, i'd have to refrain from answering it. i'm working under the theory that if you love something, you should let it go and if it comes back it was meant to be; if it's doesn't then it wasn't...because that's what my mam taught me.
i plan tomorrow to quit talking altogether, instant messenger or otherwise...am i doing the right thing?
there's this guy, whom i've posted about before (last time i was here for advice, it was on him then, too haha) and we were talking about a relationship. i really wanted (and still do want) it. only problem is, we've been talking about it for 4 months and i still haven't seen him. he won't make time...i guess maybe he tries but he never does actually make time to spend with me.
basically, i told him today that he probably shouldn't expect me to answer the phone for a while because waiting is killing me. he cried. and hung up on me. then i called him back and we talked for like 2 hours. i had to go finish my chores, so pretty much that should have been the last time we talked for quite some time.
and hour later, he texted me to tell me he misses me. when i got home like an hour after that, he instant messaged me to tell me the same thing.
i'm talking to him on instant messenger right now. but i think if he were to call me, i'd have to refrain from answering it. i'm working under the theory that if you love something, you should let it go and if it comes back it was meant to be; if it's doesn't then it wasn't...because that's what my mam taught me.
i plan tomorrow to quit talking altogether, instant messenger or otherwise...am i doing the right thing?