Hot for Teacher? Dx

[GirlyDork]

Hey, I was wondering if anyone has any advice?

My high school has two psychologists: one for freshmen & seniors, another for sophomores & juniors. I have a huge crush on the psychologist for my grade (I’m going into junior year, and I’ve had a crush on him since sophomore year). Let’s call him Dr. S.

I have a problem of subconsciously making excuses to talk to Dr. S. By “subconsciously making excuses”, I mean that I’m often not aware of whether I talk to him about serious problems or if it’s just because I want to talk to him (if that makes sense). A session with a school psychologist is typically about 15 minutes long, or 1/4 of a class period. Obviously, it cuts into my class time to keep going to Dr. S to talk about petty things, just for the sake of spending time with him.

What’s your advice on avoiding sessions with Dr. S when I don’t really need to talk to him? I really appreciate any input!!!
I'd also like to know how to avoid blurting out that I really like him? And if it does happen, then what do I do??? Arrrgghhhh. And the thing is, he knows me really well, and he might know already from the way I act around him. I've already mentioned that I like talking to him a lot, and that have a goal to talk to him less and work out problems on my own.

Anyway, I'd really like some help on this. Thanks!!!

 

[Shimmer]

I'd probably find someone else to talk to, if I were you.

 

[Boasorte]

Stop while you're ahead, honey. No, no , no.

Find someone else to talk to. You can jeopardize his job if anything happens.

Wait until you're in college for that sort of thing

 

[Folie]

You should focus on your studies while you're in high school. How can you keep good grades if you're always missing classes to talk to him? You don't want to ruin your future over a guy you'll most likely never be with. A person who has established themself in a school would never openly date a student. Also, you're 16-15? I'm assuming from your grade. He has to at least be in mid 20s. Giving at least a ten year age gap. Leave him alone. If he doesn't know what's going, i.e you have a crush, you might end up being seen as the girl who has issues since you're always there.

 

[LMD84]

yup - gotta be blunt and say just stop seeing him! go cold turkey. he most likely knows that perhaps you see him more than you should do and you wouldn't want to risk his job at all because of this. just stay away hun and when you least expect it i'm sure you'll find a nice guy nearer your own age

 

[makeba]

pump the brakes. matter of fact hit the brakes full on!! You could cost this Dr his job and an ugly mess for yourself please!

 

[kaliraksha]

I find the easiest way to keep myself from seeing someone I want to see is plain ol' distraction.... find something or someone else to keep your mind off him.