I like to do a pale peachy-beige shadow on the lid (MAC's Shroom or any of their neutrals, really), a silvery taupe in the crease (UD's Deluxe shadow in Underground is my absolute favorite in the crease with hot pink lips!), a very pale silver-white in the inner corner of the eye and browbone (I use the MAC mineralize duo in Family Silver that came out back in like, November or something but there's tons of pale silvers out there), and a black cat-eye liner.
HTH!