how i face them

hzguang

New member
i met a boy in the PKgame club.
and i really adored him.
but he said i am not his type.
that's ok .
but what really maked me upset is many people
in the club know i like him..........

how can i face them ~~~~~cry ~~~~
 

jenii

Well-known member
I had a similar problem when I was in high school. I liked a guy who had all the same friends as me. Everyone knew I liked him, he said I wasn't his type.

I was never afraid to face our friends, though. They only felt bad that he didn't like me back, since none of them actually knew that. They honestly thought he did.

Really, you don't have anything to be embarassed about. You liked someone who didn't like you back. It happens all the time, and I guarantee you it's happened to all those people you don't want to face. So, don't worry. Nobody will think badly of you for liking someone!
 

Bre

Well-known member
When an individual is in a situation such as this they worry that other people are talking / thinking about what's happened constantly because that's what the individual is doing

But the truth is people really only focus on their own situations when it comes to things like this. And focus on who they think who's talking, thinking about it etc. But the thing is no one really is. So you see there is no point worrying and adding to the vicious cycle

If one of your friends was in your situation wouldn't you just think "That sux that he doesn't like her." You would care that she was upset and maybe embarrassed but then you wouldn't give it much more thought as you have your own stuff going on

Also don't worry about the rejection just dust yourself off, better to have loved and lost then never loved at all
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hzguang

New member
thx very much to jenli & bre.
you really gimme the courage to face it,
after all ,it's my life,
i can't care everyone's thought
 

sharyn

Well-known member
IMO by saying that you like him you showed a very personal side of yourself and in my eyes, thats very brave and a thing to look up to, not to be ashamed of. He might not love you back, but you have to know that you are still you (I'm sorry I dont know how to describe this any better) and that you're not less worth just because he doesnt like you... in my eyes being that honest and admiting you like him makes you cool so hold your head high girl
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Beauty Mark

Well-known member
You just do. IF they're mean about it, roll your eyes and move on. Embarrassing things happen to people daily; I guarantee someone else will be the focus soon enough
 

Janice

Well-known member
Quote:
Originally Posted by hzguang
thx very much to jenli & bre.
you really gimme the courage to face it,
after all ,it's my life,
i can't care everyone's thought


That's the spirit! You're a very smart girl.
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Raerae

Well-known member
Quote:
Originally Posted by Beauty Mark
You just do. IF they're mean about it, roll your eyes and move on. Embarrassing things happen to people daily; I guarantee someone else will be the focus soon enough

Daily? I do embarrassing things by the minute!
 

Raerae

Well-known member
Quote:
Originally Posted by hzguang
i met a boy in the PKgame club.
and i really adored him.
but he said i am not his type.
that's ok .
but what really maked me upset is many people
in the club know i like him..........

how can i face them ~~~~~cry ~~~~


It's not that big deal really. Liking someone isn't anything to be ashamed of. If the call you on it (and thats a big, BIG, if) just own up to it. Be proud of the fact your into someone.
 
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