I am embarrasses and need advice ... don't laugh at me ! UGH

chynegal

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trust me it take alot of workkkkk.....i find that guys who jerk off alot take a longer to orgasm. have you tried maybe jerking them off first before you go down
 

Mabelle

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ive stopped giving oral to my bf.... welll, thats not true, but ive stopped trying to get him off with oral alone. It takes ages and ages and my jaw cramps up!
so i start with oral and move on.
 

Simply Elegant

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Use your hand on what your mouth can't take.
Keep it wet.
SLip your tongue out and lick when you're sucking.
Suck hard.
Suck their balls and rub just behind their balls.
Look up at him.
Massage his inner thighs too.
Lick fast and slow.
 

Goat Goat Etc.

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Quote:
Originally Posted by Simply Elegant
Use your hand on what your mouth can't take.
Keep it wet.
SLip your tongue out and lick when you're sucking.
Suck hard.
Suck their balls and rub just behind their balls.
Look up at him.
Massage his inner thighs too.
Lick fast and slow.


So graphic but probably on the dot-lmao
I can't believe your screenname is Simply Elegant and you posted this-ROFLMAO
 

Ode to Joy

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I had a website with REALLY great instructions (not the usual stuff you find in magazines) bookmarked but I can't seem to find it.
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Machinegun_Cali

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lol at the lockjaw comment...I doubt he would want you getting lock jaw anywhere near his wang either.

I can usually get them right up to that point too but need the hands 2 finish it off. I get tired and I dont like jizz in my mouth so if I finish him off with my hands then I dont have to put it in my mouth. yuck

I dont like jizz period really...I love sex but I dont really even like it inside of me. Maybe theres some deep subconscious Freudian thing that freaks me out about it..idk
 

LoveMakeup4Real

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Maybe you're just not completely comfortable with the guy you're blowing. Sometimes you think you're comfortable but you're just not. Is he really someone you want to have in your mouth? Hmmm.
 

BeccalovesMAC

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I completely agree with Love Makeup4Real. I used to do that to my bf when we first started dating. Now that I don't feel embarrassed about having his johnson in my mouth, I got better. I still can never swallow tho. That shit grosses me. Have fun. trust me it will get better. And sometimes guys have some weird intimacy probs too. Like me. I can get off when my man or any man goes down on me. It feels weird to me.
 

iaisha26

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It totally depends on the guy, some require more work than others.

Simply Elegant is graphic, but so true.

Chynegal isn't lying, I once had to do it so hard & so long, I busted my lips...byt my hubby is always so satisfied.
 

MAG0TS0UUL

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Agree w/ simply elegant.

but my tip is to use a lot of spit. i mean, it doesnt sound great, and it may not look attractive, but it'll give him more of that p*ssy feel. (yeah, i know. not a great word for it, but im comfortable with the P word.) anywayssss, the sloppier, the better. dont worry about drool that might slip out. most likely, he doesn't mind. i mean, he is getting is d*ick sucked ..
 

hello_my_apple

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i agree with the feeling comfortable comment, if youre going into feeling self conscience youre not going to be good at it. also if you actually dont like giving blowjobs then chances are it's going to show 99 percent of the time. i love giving my fiance' head, it makes me incontrol he's like puddy in my hands at the moment. you should think of it that way enjoy being the one in the drivers seat, trust me you get him going the sex will be even better for you!
 

VeXedPiNk

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Quote:
Originally Posted by Simply Elegant
Use your hand on what your mouth can't take.
Keep it wet.
SLip your tongue out and lick when you're sucking.
Suck hard.
Suck their balls and rub just behind their balls.
Look up at him.
Massage his inner thighs too.
Lick fast and slow.


Well that pretty much summed up everything I was gonna say!!

My fella goes nuts when I give his balls a little attention. And the tip of the penis is the most sensitive spot, so make sure you give it plenty of attention too.

And guys are simple - if they really seem to REALLY like something and are close to cumming, don't stop or change it up. Just keep doing what you're doing, as long as it's working. Been told that by a couple boyfriends
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greengoesmoo

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I can't vouch for every man, but I think my BF would like one of simply elegant's!

I am currently off the blowjobs due to health reasons. lol

My advice would be try and get into it, enjoy the smell of his manlyness (Musk would sound.. a bit like a rhino)

The more into it you are the better is is for him too. Spit, drool, and if you're feeling dirty, try slapping your cheeks a little with it. (My Bf seems to like that bit, but I don't know the science behind why)

Also, don't be afraid to use a little bit of teeth, don't bite, but grazing GENTLY with yor teeth can get a good reaction.

Focus on the helmut with your mouth, shaft with a hand.

With you free hand, either play with his balls, or show yourself some love while you're at it.
 

LMD84

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sometimes my hubby takes an age to come through oral! so i tend to start off with my hands and then after some build up give him oral so he is nearer to climax!
 

Boasorte

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relax ur jaw, try to deep throat.... when he's "right there" go faster! I can't stress that enough.....
and yea I can't believe I'm posting "how to give head " tips on Specktra! LOL
 

kimmy

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Quote:
Originally Posted by Machinegun_Cali
I dont like jizz period really...I love sex but I dont really even like it inside of me. Maybe theres some deep subconscious Freudian thing that freaks me out about it..idk

glad i'm not the only one. bodily fluids of any kind gross me out..
 
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