I have a sex question

[NicksWifey]

Oook so this question has been on my mind for a really long time now, but I really have no one else to talk about it with.

"From behind" is one of my favorite positions, but goodness, I always feel like I have this STRONG urge to pee really, really bad and I usually try and potty before boom-boom time. I've also heard of women having a strong urge to pee when they're about to experience a g-spot orgasm.

So forgive me if this sounds stupid, but because of the penetration like that, is it hitting my g-spot? Anyone else ever have that feeling?

Thanks in advance

 

[Simply Elegant]

Yeah he's hitting your g-spot. Just try to go past that having to go feeling and it'll be amazing. You can probably feel it yourself actually. If you feel around and push your fingers to the front you should feel a small kind of hard spongey bump and that's your g-spot.

 

[NicksWifey]

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Originally Posted by Simply Elegant Yeah he's hitting your g-spot. Just try to go past that having to go feeling and it'll be amazing. You can probably feel it yourself actually. If you feel around and push your fingers to the front you should feel a small kind of hard spongey bump and that's your g-spot.

Thanks! I've felt it before, one of my previous partners was totally into g-spot orgasm-ing, but I could never do it and I usually got annoyed after 10 minutes.

 

[hhunt2]

"Squirting" would be the result of the peeing feeling.

"Squirting" is a female form of (male) ejaculation-- so its not pee that comes out. In porn vids, it looks really crazy. I know some gals that are really embarresed that they have this ability. Sometimesit can be messy ("shooting" far or a "low stream") but sometimes nothing will be released.

What I've learned growing up... Explore your body!
Dont' worry about that pee feeling, its a good thing. But "burning" pee feeling, thats not good sometimes.

 

[SkylarV217]

The female body is crazy sometimes

 

[CantAffordMAC]

Okay this is gonna sound dumb and its detailed. But here goes.

I always got that feeling to pee when I was having sex, but it never felt good, it just felt like I had to pee. So my bf was always telling me to go before we had sex. So i did. But I would still get that feeling. And I would die if I peed on my boyfriend so I always held it back.

But recently I used a vibrator on myself right, so I peed before hand like a lot of times to make sure. And when i felt the urge to pee when i was using my vibrator I just ignored it and let go, and I never peed at all and I actually orgasmed like...great. lmaooo

Moral of the story: don't be afraid to pee on ur boyfriend.

I wish I could bring myself to just let go but I just can't imagine...the what ifs, you know?

And yes. I think its ur g spot. Unless u haven't peed first lmao. Lets count how many times I said "peed" in this post, hmm?

(its 9...I counted)

 

[CantAffordMAC]

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Originally Posted by hhunt2 "Squirting" would be the result of the peeing feeling. "Squirting" is a female form of (male) ejaculation-- so its not pee that comes out. In porn vids, it looks really crazy. I know some gals that are really embarresed that they have this ability. Sometimesit can be messy ("shooting" far or a "low stream") but sometimes nothing will be released. What I've learned growing up... Explore your body! Dont' worry about that pee feeling, its a good thing. But "burning" pee feeling, thats not good sometimes.

so just cuz u are having a g spot orgasm doesn't mean you have to squirt? I wish I had that ability

Okay ladies time for bed lol I am being bad now

 

[NutMeg]

I get that feeling too, but usually when I'm on my own. I've talked about it with my boyfriend, and I think he'd be ok if the next time I get the urge with him I just let it happen. I'm curious.

I've done it on my own... But it could be way hotter with him. (and just so you all don't get confused I'm talking about "squirting")

 

[Obreathemykiss]

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Originally Posted by CantAffordMAC Okay this is gonna sound dumb and its detailed. But here goes. I always got that feeling to pee when I was having sex, but it never felt good, it just felt like I had to pee. So my bf was always telling me to go before we had sex. So i did. But I would still get that feeling. And I would die if I peed on my boyfriend so I always held it back. But recently I used a vibrator on myself right, so I peed before hand like a lot of times to make sure. And when i felt the urge to pee when i was using my vibrator I just ignored it and let go, and I never peed at all and I actually orgasmed like...great. lmaooo Moral of the story: don't be afraid to pee on ur boyfriend. I wish I could bring myself to just let go but I just can't imagine...the what ifs, you know? And yes. I think its ur g spot. Unless u haven't peed first lmao. Lets count how many times I said "peed" in this post, hmm? (its 9...I counted)

LMAO! Your explanations of things are too much sometimes! Thanks for the laugh and I'll make sure to follow your advice!

 

[M.A.C. head.]

The other ladies are correct.

Just let it...flow...I guess...LOL

 

[CoConutNwuT]

i have the ability to do the squirt thing..... my boyfriend loves it!!!!!! and man can he hit the g-spot good!!!! LOL!!! i was scared at first thinking i didnt want to pee on him then i started researching what was going on and it was right it sure is not pee!!! but its the best feeling in the world!

 

[tiffanykei]

Mwaha!

Yes! It is your g-spot. Weird how it has to feel like you have to pee though isn't it?

 

[mad dog marissa]

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Originally Posted by CantAffordMAC Okay this is gonna sound dumb and its detailed. But here goes. I always got that feeling to pee when I was having sex, but it never felt good, it just felt like I had to pee. So my bf was always telling me to go before we had sex. So i did. But I would still get that feeling. And I would die if I peed on my boyfriend so I always held it back. But recently I used a vibrator on myself right, so I peed before hand like a lot of times to make sure. And when i felt the urge to pee when i was using my vibrator I just ignored it and let go, and I never peed at all and I actually orgasmed like...great. lmaooo Moral of the story: don't be afraid to pee on ur boyfriend. I wish I could bring myself to just let go but I just can't imagine...the what ifs, you know? And yes. I think its ur g spot. Unless u haven't peed first lmao. Lets count how many times I said "peed" in this post, hmm? (its 9...I counted)

I counted nine times you say pee. but seriously i laughed out loud when you said dont be afraid to pee on your boyfriend! youre so cute hahah

 

[soulstar]

I've felt this feeling too! I'm always like, "OH NO I HAVE TO PEE. OK STOP BABE" hahahahahahha Thanks girlies... I'll let goooooo next time ahhaha!

 

[Sexya(TM)?Princess]

ive heard its actually impossible to pee during an orgasm and that its okay to just let go thru that feeling. im not sure if its true or not but idid read that b4.

 

[Paramnesia]

I've heard about the pee sensation when touching the g-spot because its close to the bladder.

I personally have never felt that

 

[duckduck]

To think of all of the wonderful orgasms I missed just thinking I just had to pee! It's funny - I didn't know about all of this until a few years ago, when I discovered it much in the same way CantAffordMAC did. I thought I was Christopher-freakin-Columbus of the orgasm!

I don't actually "squirt", but I was still afraid to tell anyone because I thought they would think I was weird or that there was something wrong with me.

Well, turns out (as most of you already know) it's actually really normal. I guess no one ever wants to talk about it because they think it is just pee or something gross, but really, it's just another type of female orgasm (and an enormously satisfying one at that!). It's really hard to ignore that instinct that you need to pee, but if you do, damn, that's one excellent reward.

On a side note, has anyone ever *tried* to pee in that moment when you feel like you need to? I also had heard that you can't, so, well, I ran an experiment with myself to find out. I'll leave out the details and just jump to the conclusion: I couldn't do it. No matter how hard I tried, I had to wait at least 15 seconds after the feeling subsided before I was able to pee. I didn't try this on a full bladder or anything mind you, but it did give me some confidence to try the g-spot orgasm with the boyfriend since I knew I couldn't actually accidentally urinate on him!

 

[Lucky1288]

Haha I always get that feeling, and I always think it was really weird, so I try to hold it in. So I guess I should just let it go right?? My bf has always said that he thinks squirting is hot, but I'v never been able to do it, and i guess it was because I really thought that I had to pee so I've been holding it in. I take it that I should just let it go and it will be amazing??

 

[NutMeg]

Ok, a little more detail then. When I get that feeling, I try to let go into it as much as I can. Sometimes I squirt and sometimes I don't, but I can come regardless. I find that the orgasms when I don't squirt are better (as in mind bogglingly fantastic)... But like I said I can squirt (not sure if I can control it, it seems random). So duckduck, I don't know if you can actually pee during an orgasm, but it is possible to let fluid (female ejaculate) out.

 

[pumpkincat210]

squirting in sex is just pee. Some people can do it easily, while others have to learn how to open up the urethra during sex. It's kind of an automatic thing your body does so you don't just pee when you have sex. Your bladder is right under your g spot and anal penetration points in the direction of your bladder, thus the feeling of having to pee.
It's good to pee before and after sex to lessen the risk of getting an annoying urinary tract infection.