I need my mom

[macface]

I feel very depressed since my mom kick me out of my house only because her boyfriend wanted me and my little sister out.She told us that for her we were dead and that we are jealous of her relationship.We know that her boyfriend is just using her for what she could give him.Everybody tells my mom that shes wrong and that shes blinded by that man.Sometimes I want to call her and tell her how much I miss her and I need her but I know she will just hang up on me.

 

[quandolak]

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[sexypuma]

I am sorry to read this. I really hope that things work out between you guys.

 

[Beauty Mark]

I'm so sorry to hear that. My father didn't go to that extreme with his girlfriend, but he definitely put her notches above my brother and me within a short period of time (months.) I hope your mother comes around and realizes any person who tries to control her relationship with her daughters isn't anything. My father realized that about his girlfriend.

It's not the same, but do you have a close family friend or another family member to turn to? I didn't have that, but my friends, for the most part, were great about being my surrogate family. Because he still gets blinded by his bitch girlfriend, I still have to do that.

Take care of yourself. It's really, really rough situation, and it can easily affect other aspects of your life. I could kick myself for the ways I let that affect me.

 

[Hawkeye]

Yes a heart can hallucinate
If it's completely starved for love
It can even turn monsters into
Angels from above
-Jewel

This post made me think of it. Sometimes love can be very blind and make people turn against their own flesh and blood. *HUGS* that's just not right.

Give her time. Very rarely do I say just let someone fall flat on their face but right now - she doesn't want help and she doesn't want advice. She's too blind to see. But when it starts to fall apart-she's going to need someone. *HUGS*

 

[giz2000]

Your post broke my heart....I am so very sorry and hope that everything works out for you and your sister....

 

[jenii]

That's so terrible. I'm sorry she can't see that her children are more important than her lovelife, because they are. I'm a mother, and it just baffles me that some mothers don't realize that their children should be the most important people in the world to them.

 

[~LadyLocks~]

Aww...I'm really sorry to hear that your going through this especially at this time of year. I'll keep you and your sis in my prayers and I hope everything works out for the best!

 

[giz2000]

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Originally Posted by jenii That's so terrible. I'm sorry she can't see that her children are more important than her lovelife, because they are. I'm a mother, and it just baffles me that some mothers don't realize that their children should be the most important people in the world to them.

Totally agree 100%...my husband knows that, god forbid, I ever had to choose between my sons and him...he'd be out the door....just like that.

 

[coachkitten]

I hope that your mom will come around. I am praying for you. Is there anything that we can do?

 

[macface]

Thanks that all need at the moment.