I used to be love struck but now i'm just F**ked up..

[MaskedBeauty]

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[thelimabean]

I know how you feel

But everyone's told me the moment you're NOT looking for a new guy, then one comes to you, so maybe take this time to focus on yourself?

 

[MaskedBeauty]

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Originally Posted by thelimabean I know how you feel But everyone's told me the moment you're NOT looking for a new guy, then one comes to you, so maybe take this time to focus on yourself?

yea..thank you. And that is what they say huh? I'd like to know how true that is though. LOL!

 

[kariii]

I am in the same position girl.. except I just broke off from an engagement unexpectedly. It's super heart breaking, but think of it as a time that now you can concentrate on yourself.. and the devote the extra time on yourself. Life is fun when you're single and unattached, just have to forget the part about being lonely at night. Men are all replaceable and the one worth your time will eventually come around. Hang in there and be strong, girl.

 

[gildedangel]

You have to look to the pros of being single. Being single does not mean being lonely, go out and have fun and meet new people. If you don't put yourself out there, how is Mr. Right gonna find you? Good luck!

 

[Simply Elegant]

I think it's about being in the right place at the right time. If you're always meeting the same awful guys, maybe try going to a different type of place and be open and not necessarily stick to whatever your type is.

 

[FiestyFemme]

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Originally Posted by thelimabean I know how you feel But everyone's told me the moment you're NOT looking for a new guy, then one comes to you, so maybe take this time to focus on yourself?

It's been absolutely true, IME. I have never, ever been looking for it when I found it. In fact, this time last year, I was involved with a no-good dousche bag who was going to drop me in a month's time. I wasn't devastated, but I was a little sad over things. One of my best guy friends took me out to cheer me up, and literally the rest is history. We got married 6 months after we started dating, and have been married 3 months now. So it does happen!

 

[MizzVivaGlam]

You'll find one, just try to stay positive. A good man is going to want a happy, confident girl. Don't let the jerks keep you down with them. Being alone does suck but trust me once you find true love, it will mean so much more. You really should take this time to better yourself and become everything you want to be.Then you'll have a better sense of what guys are worth your time.

 

[L1LMAMAJ]

awww i'm so sorry to hear. being single is not so bad. like what the other posters said, you have a lot of time for yourself. go learn about yourself and explore new places. make new friends and go out and have fun!! being single isn't the end of the world. make the best out of it. good luck dear!

 

[Almond_Eyed]

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Originally Posted by MaskedBeauty So the single life sucks. Just recently broke it off with a new guy and at times I'm ok and I'm the same ol' me but then other times I just feel so sad and lonely. Why do I always get stuck with the assholes!?? I don't get it. Maybe I'm too nice???? Either way it sucks. And I know I shouldn't need a guy to make me happy but it just seems like I'm happier when I'm with someone. Where are all the attractive good guys that actually care about the person they're with!!!??? I know what I want but I just can't find it. And I know I can't make someone change so there's no point in trying. If a guy wants to be with you, he'll be with you and if he wants to talk to you, he'll talk to you. Being alone just sucks.

There's that saying "Your friends are a reflection of who you are" and I think it also applies to people you date. If you've only met and dated assholes, it's because you allow them to treat you that way. You have to be confident and respect yourself enough to not let those people in your life. Assholes and losers do not approach a strong, confident, and independent woman because they know she will eat them alive!

If you're feeling down, then it's not the time to be looking for someone. You need to identify and work on where you need to grow as a person to become confident in yourself. Guys want to date a girl who is happy, confident, and passionate. Wouldn't you want someone who has those qualities too?

<3 A

 

[hello_my_apple]

ohhh no? what happened?! i'm so sorry to hear that!



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Originally Posted by kariii I am in the same position girl.. except I just broke off from an engagement unexpectedly. It's super heart breaking, but think of it as a time that now you can concentrate on yourself.. and the devote the extra time on yourself. Life is fun when you're single and unattached, just have to forget the part about being lonely at night. Men are all replaceable and the one worth your time will eventually come around. Hang in there and be strong, girl.