Im sad....

[clslvr6spd]

(I didn't know if this should just go go in general chatter or Love & relationships thread, mods please move if its not in the right section)


I just thought I would share what is going on...

My fiance is in county jail for 11 days, I know it really isn't that long. But, I am going insane! In the 2 1/2 years of living with each other we have only been apart for a couple days at the most.
I tried to go see him yesterday, I left school early to get there a 1/2 hour earlier than visitation time. I was stuck in traffic, so i called the jail and she told me..."if your not at my door in two minutes you wont see him." AGH, i was like 5 min away!! I just wanted to surprise him!
It just sucks...I am sad and lonely right now...I really don't want to do much. I have been going out, but ehh...I just really don't feel like having fun, plus i am low on $$$ right now!
I just needed to vent to my fellow friends on here. Thanks....

 

[purrtykitty]

That's too bad. It is only 11 days, but with something like that, it can seem like an eternity. Try not to think about it too much and just find something to occupy yourself. He'll be home in no time.

 

[User93]

I can imagine hun, if I dont talk to my bf for 1 day im going crazy.. hang on there! Try going the other day, and well, keep yourself busy with preparing the love nest for when he's back

 

[elegant-one]

Aw..that is so frustrating I'm sure for you. It will go by faster than you think, at least I hope so for your sake.

We all love & support you

 

[clslvr6spd]

Thanks ladies! (mommy-spy, I love you too!)

He is supposed to call me between noon-2! So that will help! I am just going to clean my house like a crack head to keep me busy! Maybe buy an Christmas tree too!

 

[rbella]

Oh no! I would have been so upset! I'm so sorry. Hang in there and it will be over sooner than you know. Then, don't let go of him for 12 days, that way it will make up for the 11 you were without him....

 

[jenntoz]

Boo, it sucks that he has to be away from you at all, sorry. Don't be sad. Try to take one day at a time. Maybe watch some movies that he's not interested in or read a book, take some long baths, give yourself a facial, manicure & pedicure. Try to indulge yourself in the things you wish you had time for.

 

[nunu]

Aww, i'm so sad about that, please hang in there and you can see him tomorrow?

 

[clslvr6spd]

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Originally Posted by nunu Aww, i'm so sad about that, please hang in there and you can see him tomorrow?

No, I wish I could! His next visitation is on Tuesday @ 8:30pm. I will be going, lol!
He really seems to have learned his lesson when I talked to him earlier today, but...who knows. Stupid DUI....

 

[nunu]

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Originally Posted by clslvr6spd No, I wish I could! His next visitation is on Tuesday @ 8:30pm. I will be going, lol! He really seems to have learned his lesson when I talked to him earlier today, but...who knows. Stupid DUI....

Aww i'm sorry your going to have to wait till then!!

Oh well, just like a previous poster said you'll just have to try and not think about him and do some TLC for yourself!
I'm glad it's only 11 days and not __ months!! That would really make me sad.

I think you should plan something nice and romantic for when he gets out. Decorate your place, candles, champagne, chocolates...it would be a special reunion!

 

[juicygirl]

aww allison that totally sucks!! i would be going crazy as well but just keep reminding yourself that when he finally does get out, the reunion will be so explosive!! how's cosmetology school coming along??

 

[coachkitten]

Allison I am so sorry to hear about all of this! My suggestion is to just keep yourself as busy as possible and go visit him when you can. 11 days will be over before you know it! I

you tons!

 

[clslvr6spd]

Thanks Katie! I am doing better...Im not feeling soo down! I have been playing with my MAC like crazy the past couple days, haha! I should post some fotd's.
Thanks again for all your kinds words!

 

[jdepp_84]

I know how you feel! Due to crazy schedules we went from seeing each other every single day in college to only Sundays, once a week! And the 8 hours we do see each other is because we work together, the same shift. Gosh but im always looking forward to going to work on Sundays

 

[Brittni]

Distance makes the heart grow fonder, you know? I think that not seeing him for 11 days, when you usually see him every day or whatnot, will make you guys appreciate each other and even stronger. Stay strong hun!

 

[Krasevayadancer]

Awww sweetie, don't worry- we are here for you! Heres to hoping the time will fly!

 

[couturesista]

Sending u and ur boo some well wishes and positive thoughts!

 

[panther27]

I'm sorry to hear that

,but I hope the time goes by fast.It must be driving you crazy,hugs to you.

 

[clslvr6spd]

HE COMES HOME TOMORROW!!!!!!!!! YAY!

Thanks for all your support girls!

 

[Holy Rapture]

Wow, that's great news ... Congrats!!