ForgetRegret
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Hey sweetheart...just checking in...want to see how you're doing with all this.
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Lapis
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Honey he did the best thing for you and your child, he left!
I know depression and I know how it feels to have your self esteem ripped apart as you grow, I have the scars to prove I fought it, hell I'm 30 even now sometimes I have to kick my own ass to get over it but the fact is this was a one sided relationship and not one that a child needed to be raised seeing.
I know it hurts but you will heal and you will love again and next time you'll make better choices for your self, your heart and your child!
Get a lawyer and get out FAST before he changes his mind.
Go to this website, people there have been thru what you have and understand. SurvivingInfidelity.com - Support for those affected by Infidelity
ForgetRegret you are so wrong, I thank the day my eyes were opened about my ex and yes I love my girls that when I got weak and went back, they asked me WTF I was doing!
I was in "love" and stupid and my girls rallied around me and gave me the truth raw! It hurt but way less than it would have if I had stayed in the relationship with a cheater/user
Originally Posted by xiomara
ok ladies. update! tonight i put the evidence in his face! and after crying & fighting he left! He wants to be Single! i'm almost 30 for those who thought i am young. and for those who ever suffered abuse or depression can possibly sympathize. i didnt grow up with self esteem! 
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Honey he did the best thing for you and your child, he left!
I know depression and I know how it feels to have your self esteem ripped apart as you grow, I have the scars to prove I fought it, hell I'm 30 even now sometimes I have to kick my own ass to get over it but the fact is this was a one sided relationship and not one that a child needed to be raised seeing.
I know it hurts but you will heal and you will love again and next time you'll make better choices for your self, your heart and your child!
Get a lawyer and get out FAST before he changes his mind.
Go to this website, people there have been thru what you have and understand. SurvivingInfidelity.com - Support for those affected by Infidelity
ForgetRegret you are so wrong, I thank the day my eyes were opened about my ex and yes I love my girls that when I got weak and went back, they asked me WTF I was doing!
I was in "love" and stupid and my girls rallied around me and gave me the truth raw! It hurt but way less than it would have if I had stayed in the relationship with a cheater/user
kabuki_KILLER
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1)Never let friends take incriminating pictures of you. Never. I repeat, NEVER.
2)Life’s much better when you get a fair slice of the pie, even if you try to convince yourself you’d be alright if treated unfairly.
3)It pays to be patient. Sort out your feelings and rationalize your thoughts. Decide which battles to take on and which ones to just let go. I’m glad you came through.
4)If I were you, I would have beat his sorry ass, burned it and destroyed the physical evidence by now.
5)Make screencaps and evidence.
6)Don’t let any sucker intimidate you or try to convince you it’s YOUR fault he’s that way. Men try those phrases all the time and they never make sense if you put two and two together. Put that sucker in his place.
7)Be sure to take all of his assets and protect your own. =]
2)Life’s much better when you get a fair slice of the pie, even if you try to convince yourself you’d be alright if treated unfairly.
3)It pays to be patient. Sort out your feelings and rationalize your thoughts. Decide which battles to take on and which ones to just let go. I’m glad you came through.
4)If I were you, I would have beat his sorry ass, burned it and destroyed the physical evidence by now.
5)Make screencaps and evidence.
6)Don’t let any sucker intimidate you or try to convince you it’s YOUR fault he’s that way. Men try those phrases all the time and they never make sense if you put two and two together. Put that sucker in his place.
7)Be sure to take all of his assets and protect your own. =]
