little x rated? need advice!!

[LMcConnell18]

soooooooo...
i need a little advice from the experienced girls in this area!
hopefully i get a little advice BEFORE valentines day lol.

so im going to this lingerie party...
and i dont have any lingerie and not al lot of money.
so i figured i would buy a little piece for the party, and use it as part of my valentines present for my boyfriend!

im 19, my bf is 20.. and he wanted me to get some lingerie a few months ago but i never did it.
so now that i have it... im getting cold feet. i dont know how to present this on valentines day!!

how do i do this?
im worried he wont like it and ill be sitting there in this contraption looking hella stupid! haha!
weve been together for over 3 years...
but ive never done something like this before!!!
HELP!!!
i know its kinda weird, but i cant talk about this with my friends because.... i dunno i just cant! lol... not with people i see everyday! haha.
any advice/tips/experiences/stories/SOLUTIONS!! would be appreciated!!

ugh... im so confused! lol.
what do i do? lol... should i wear it under my clothes? or have it on when he walks into the room? no idea! sorry if im weirding any of u out... lol... i just thought u girls might know something... and would be the ones to turn to. lol.
thanx!

 

[Raerae]

I'm not a big fan of the, naked cept for the lingerie and waiting for him to walk into the room...

Really depends on what your buying. Are you just getting a bra/panty/garter belt? Or are you getting like a corsett? Or a baby doll? Are you looking for something thats, "Bedroom only" or something you can wear under your clothes?

IMHO, if you wanna make sure your getting your money's worth, get a really hot bra/panty/garter set. You can rock that under your clothes on days you wanna feel sexy. And it's always a nice surprise to pop on him when he's ripping your clothes off =p Kinda the sexy strip tease.

Buy something your gonna like, and wanna wear. He's going to like it REGARDLESS. And it's just gonna end up on the floor in a few mins anyways once he see's it =p

 

[LMcConnell18]

http://www.fredericks.com/product.asp?catalog%5Fname=Holiday2002&category%5F name=Lingerie-Seduction&product%5Fid=90152

theres the url of what it is. its not the pink one though.
its all black [instead of pink] but it has a blue trim where the black is.
same thing only different colors.

 

[LMcConnell18]

AAAANd its see through on the sides... and it REALLY shows the ass...
i dont want to put my entire body out there at this lingerie party... so i was thinking mabye wear lacy underwear [ur typical granny panties] lol.

u think that would look tacky?

 

[queenofdisaster]

ohhh!! youre gonna do it at the party? or alone?

 

[Joyness]

I'm confused...you actually try it on at the party? Just be sure you get something you feel comfortable/sexy in!

 

[LMcConnell18]

no its going to be alone... but im wearing it on two different occasions, tomorrow night at barcode, and then on valentines day!

 

[LMcConnell18]

hes not going to see me tomorrow night, so itll still be a surprise!
confusing i know!! :'(
but please!!
need help here girls!

thanx!

 

[queenofdisaster]

oh girl, i know you gotta be super comfortable with him, since you have been together 3 years. i would just basically tell him you have a surprise for him, take him in the bedroom and rip your clothes off (with the lingerie underneath). he will LOVE it. haha. i have done it that way before. i layed my husband down, and took off piece by piece revealing the sexyness beneath, and don't let him touch till youre done. we all know what it's gonna result in but i PROMISE you you'll have fun, lol!!!

 

[LMcConnell18]

*eeeek* haha i hope so!! but what should i wear over it? jeans and a shirt wouldnt really be that easy to RIP off lol... but then again... taking of the shirt first would be a huge surprise! lol!

 

[queenofdisaster]

maybe like a nice outfit. think job interview??? lol... you would look totally innocent and put together and then BAM! SEXPOT! haha!

 

[kaliraksha]

Oh my thats a hot outfit. Can we say practice? Yeah I know sounds cheesey... but practice taking clothes off seductively... maybe even the actual outfit you will wear... you may get more nervous if you have a wardrobe fumble so that's why I suggest practice.

Confidence? Woman! You are wearing it to a lingerie party.... call that night practice in being comfortable in it... once you wear it front of him it should be easy as pie.

Also, depending on what you are into it can be totally fun to pretend to be somewhat different. For example if you are usually submissive with him be a little bossy... if you are usually domineering then be shy. If you are ok with it it helps to pretend you are playing a "part".

However, there is no formula or way to do it. Just know that whatever you wear or don't wear he will think you look amazing and will want at you no matter what.

Have fun!

 

[Beauty Mark]

For the lingerie party, you could get opaque hot pants.

For your boyfriend, I'd wear a suit jacket over it and wait for him to arrive. He'll get the idea once he gets there.

I have a favor to ask of you. Please don't write posts in the 'Deep Forums' section to direct people to your post. Plenty of members read both forums. I imagine if everyone did that, Specktra would be going down.

 

[giz2000]

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Originally Posted by LMcConnell18 theres the url of what it is. its not the pink one though. its all black [instead of pink] but it has a blue trim where the black is. same thing only different colors.

DAMN girl!!! That's hot! Your boyfriend is going to have a coronary!!!

 

[giz2000]

Oh..I forgot one important detail....wear heels (if you feel comfortable in them)....

 

[Raerae]

Yeh if your wearing it at the party, totally go for some hot boyshorts... you wont feel naked, and there way hot... I think your ass looks better in boyshorts anyways, especially if you have a tiny one like me =p haha

 

[Tyester]

Tip from a guy: Nothing about lingerie is horrible.

Picking it out, watching her try it on, having her model it, having her surprise me with it, tearing it off, etc.

Hell, if there's something she wants to see me in, I'll wear it myself. It's simple, it's easy, and it doesn't leave any painful marks. I say, go for it!

 

[xmrsvindieselx]

Quote:

Originally Posted by Tyester Tip from a guy: Nothing about lingerie is horrible. Picking it out, watching her try it on, having her model it, having her surprise me with it, tearing it off, etc. Hell, if there's something she wants to see me in, I'll wear it myself. It's simple, it's easy, and it doesn't leave any painful marks. I say, go for it!

even though I'm female

, I totally agree!! i think there is nothing sexier than a woman showing her sexual side!! and we ALL know we have one ladies!!

so go for it! i think you should do a "conservative" look but as soon as you are both alone..show your wild sidee babyyy!! ..he wont expect it from such an "innocent, conservative" girl..and it will turn him on like crazy!

 

[Bernadette]

First off, I have that exact get-up but mine is black with gray trim

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So for the surprising your b/f it is always kind of hard because you want it to be a surprise but to some degree you feel kinda dorky laying on the bed all dressed up and calling him in there.
I don't have much lingerie because I can never afford it but I've dressed up for my b/f a few times and he was so f-in thrilled I could have gone about it any way under the sun and he would have loved it.

What I've done is just snuck away, got all gussied up (wear the heels!) and then called to him to come into the room. If he tells you to hold on or something tell him you have something for him

hehe.

Also, he'll probably love it if you leave some of it on while you uh, do your thang. I suggest keeping the thigh highs on :hump: .

 

[LMcConnell18]

Quote:

Originally Posted by Bernadette First off, I have that exact get-up but mine is black with gray trim . So for the surprising your b/f it is always kind of hard because you want it to be a surprise but to some degree you feel kinda dorky laying on the bed all dressed up and calling him in there. What I've done is just snuck away, got all gussied up (wear the heels!) and then called to him to come into the room. If he tells you to hold on or something tell him you have something for him hehe. Also, he'll probably love it if you leave some of it on while you uh, do your thang. I suggest keeping the thigh highs on :hump: .

haha YAY!! now i know i dont have something weird! haha and thats my fear! lol... feeling hella dorky when he sees me lol!!

lol i think i will leave the thigh highs on... thanx!

GREAT advice girls!!! THANX SOO much!!!