Masturbation...
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nettiepoo
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I agree with tha vibrator on tha clit thingy !!
Originally Posted by CantAffordMAC
I can't come when me and my boyfriend have sex either. Well I have before but its weak and it takes a LOT of work. I also don't come when he goes down on me. After sex he usually just fingers me (he finds my gspot super easily) and i use the vibrator on my clit...it works! and it doesn't take too long either sorry if this is too much information for some of you, im just trying to maybe help someone 
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I agree with tha vibrator on tha clit thingy !!
Ziya
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Ahhh ladies...I've always had a quite normal to high libido...I used to fly solo about every day to every other..at least 2-4 times a week. My issue is relationships! everytime I'm in one, my libido drops. :S lol
The frustrating thing is, I've never been able to come from someone else stimulating me..even during play time. No matter what the person does..
It's so depressing! The best O's for me are from me home alone, watching porn and playing fingers+clit.
the only way I get off with my bf is afterwards, by masturbating. I feel bad, coz my guy tries so hard...he helps with fingers and dirty talk, but I always feel so..left out? you know? like its SO easy for guys to come from just sex. while I have to strum the guitar and concentrate super hard till my hand cramps
lmao I bought a couple vibes cheap and expensive and I found they either vibrate so much it desensitizes my clit or they dont enough to stim me.
I wana get the hitachi..seems to be a popular pick.. sigh! Its really a sore point for me! I get so depressed about my love life sometimes...
The frustrating thing is, I've never been able to come from someone else stimulating me..even during play time. No matter what the person does..
It's so depressing! The best O's for me are from me home alone, watching porn and playing fingers+clit.
the only way I get off with my bf is afterwards, by masturbating. I feel bad, coz my guy tries so hard...he helps with fingers and dirty talk, but I always feel so..left out? you know? like its SO easy for guys to come from just sex. while I have to strum the guitar and concentrate super hard till my hand cramps
lmao I bought a couple vibes cheap and expensive and I found they either vibrate so much it desensitizes my clit or they dont enough to stim me.
I wana get the hitachi..seems to be a popular pick.. sigh! Its really a sore point for me! I get so depressed about my love life sometimes...
Lets see... for me, usually I fap right around before my period begins. For some reason I end up being a LOTT hornier a few weeks before the red week, I guess. Sometimes I masterbate before I go to bed if I can't fall asleep. I find that helps a little bit. Theres a few days where I'm in the complete mood to do it and other times where I completely forget about it and remember that I haven't touched myself in a few weeks or something. Here's something strange though - porn doesn't turn me on or get me in the mood or anything.
Am I broken?
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you're not broken sweetie! porn isn't for everyone. it took me years to actually find some porn that turned me on! i think guys use porn more because they like more visuals whereas women tend to use their imaginations more. generally i don't use pron to masturbate to, more for me and hubby to enjoy together! so don't stress it!
| Originally Posted by nubletta
Lets see... for me, usually I fap right around before my period begins. For some reason I end up being a LOTT hornier a few weeks before the red week, I guess. Sometimes I masterbate before I go to bed if I can't fall asleep. I find that helps a little bit. Theres a few days where I'm in the complete mood to do it and other times where I completely forget about it and remember that I haven't touched myself in a few weeks or something. Here's something strange though - porn doesn't turn me on or get me in the mood or anything.
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you're not broken sweetie! porn isn't for everyone. it took me years to actually find some porn that turned me on! i think guys use porn more because they like more visuals whereas women tend to use their imaginations more. generally i don't use pron to masturbate to, more for me and hubby to enjoy together! so don't stress it!
S.S.BlackOrchid
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I masturbate 2-3 times a day when I have stuff to do, but if I have a day off, I will masturbate about 6,7 or 8 times.I think about sex constantly, and even when in a relationship, I want sex all the time. I think there is something seriously wrong with me.
Btw, I have been thinking about investing in a Lelo or Sinflute vibrator because the ones I get at the store wear out too easily. Is it really worth the $100 though???
Btw, I have been thinking about investing in a Lelo or Sinflute vibrator because the ones I get at the store wear out too easily. Is it really worth the $100 though???
Kragey
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Speaking as a sex toy reviewer, I can tell you that luxury toys like Lelo's are more often than not worth it, provided you go in with realistic expectations. They tend to be made from safer materials, are more carefully constructed, are usually more on the quiet side, and many of them are rechargeable. Rechargeable!
I haven't tried any of Fun Factory's Sinnflut line, but I lust after the Reality. I also own a Lelo Gigi (a gift from a group of friends), and oh my sweet God, I worship her. *_*
| Originally Posted by S.S.BlackOrchid
I masturbate 2-3 times a day when I have stuff to do, but if I have a day off, I will masturbate about 6,7 or 8 times.I think about sex constantly, and even when in a relationship, I want sex all the time. I think there is something seriously wrong with me. Btw, I have been thinking about investing in a Lelo or Sinflute vibrator because the ones I get at the store wear out too easily. Is it really worth the $100 though??? |
Speaking as a sex toy reviewer, I can tell you that luxury toys like Lelo's are more often than not worth it, provided you go in with realistic expectations. They tend to be made from safer materials, are more carefully constructed, are usually more on the quiet side, and many of them are rechargeable. Rechargeable!
I haven't tried any of Fun Factory's Sinnflut line, but I lust after the Reality. I also own a Lelo Gigi (a gift from a group of friends), and oh my sweet God, I worship her. *_*
S.S.BlackOrchid
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Thanks so much! So do the motors on luxury toys wear out just as easily? I spend a lot of sex toys simply because the cheap little motor stops working. Any brand you can recommend?
| Originally Posted by Kragey
Speaking as a sex toy reviewer, I can tell you that luxury toys like Lelo's are more often than not worth it, provided you go in with realistic expectations. They tend to be made from safer materials, are more carefully constructed, are usually more on the quiet side, and many of them are rechargeable. Rechargeable! I haven't tried any of Fun Factory's Sinnflut line, but I lust after the Reality. I also own a Lelo Gigi (a gift from a group of friends), and oh my sweet God, I worship her. *_* |
Thanks so much! So do the motors on luxury toys wear out just as easily? I spend a lot of sex toys simply because the cheap little motor stops working. Any brand you can recommend?
Kragey
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The motors: no, they usually don't. I've had my Gigi for about a year now, and she's as strong as ever. Just make sure you take good care of your toys! Clean them after every use, let the battery run down entirely before you start charging it, and store it properly.
If the motors DO run out, most luxury sex toys come with a warranty.
A lot of people waste money buying crappy toys because the idea of spending $100+ on a single toy--even if it will last a lifetime--is such a hard concept to grasp. I don't blame them; buying expensive toys is as difficult for me as it is to buy expensive makeup! Now, there are SOME cheaper toys that work great--I have a few I would gladly repurchase if they DID break--but they're still not quite up to par with most luxury toys.
Lelo is well-respected; I personally own a Gigi and an Ella, and I've heard tons of amazing reviews for their other toys. Fun Factory is a German company that is middle-of-the-ground pricewise; I've only tried one toy by them and thought it was "eh," but many reviewers swear by them. If you're in to dildos, Tantus is a MUST SEE; their products are incredible and the company is run by truly wonderful people. Liberator makes the best sex furniture, hands down, and also creates some beautiful luxury lingerie.
There are some cheaper toys I like that have lasted forever, like the Turbo Glider and the infamous Hitachi Magic Wand.
In the end, how well a toy works for you depends on what you want. For example, plenty of people love the SaSi, but it would never work for me because it stops when you apply pressure to it, and I need pressure to orgasm.
EDIT: oops, I accidentally lied! I've reviewed TWO Fun Factory toys, and I LOVED the one: the Layaspot.
| Originally Posted by S.S.BlackOrchid
Thanks so much! So do the motors on luxury toys wear out just as easily? I spend a lot of sex toys simply because the cheap little motor stops working. Any brand you can recommend? |
The motors: no, they usually don't. I've had my Gigi for about a year now, and she's as strong as ever. Just make sure you take good care of your toys! Clean them after every use, let the battery run down entirely before you start charging it, and store it properly.
If the motors DO run out, most luxury sex toys come with a warranty.
A lot of people waste money buying crappy toys because the idea of spending $100+ on a single toy--even if it will last a lifetime--is such a hard concept to grasp. I don't blame them; buying expensive toys is as difficult for me as it is to buy expensive makeup! Now, there are SOME cheaper toys that work great--I have a few I would gladly repurchase if they DID break--but they're still not quite up to par with most luxury toys.
Lelo is well-respected; I personally own a Gigi and an Ella, and I've heard tons of amazing reviews for their other toys. Fun Factory is a German company that is middle-of-the-ground pricewise; I've only tried one toy by them and thought it was "eh," but many reviewers swear by them. If you're in to dildos, Tantus is a MUST SEE; their products are incredible and the company is run by truly wonderful people. Liberator makes the best sex furniture, hands down, and also creates some beautiful luxury lingerie.
There are some cheaper toys I like that have lasted forever, like the Turbo Glider and the infamous Hitachi Magic Wand.
In the end, how well a toy works for you depends on what you want. For example, plenty of people love the SaSi, but it would never work for me because it stops when you apply pressure to it, and I need pressure to orgasm.
EDIT: oops, I accidentally lied! I've reviewed TWO Fun Factory toys, and I LOVED the one: the Layaspot.
Goat Goat Etc.
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2-3 times a month. But I daydream at work or school or when i'm bored.
greengoesmoo
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To the OP depending on your age that's fairly normal, and as long as you're keeping it private it's not going to hurt you!
When I was about 15 I went through a complusive phase like that, it's healthy to love yourself!
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ROFL!! I totally get you!! some days you don't bother, sometimes you need to just keep rubbin till you can sleep!
Personally I'm a a stealth wanker, I have to sneak mine in around everything else I need to get done I sometimes slink off to "intensively condition my hair"
My bf and I have an understanding that although we have a happy sex life, we both like a little palm time too, so we have codes for it. His is lab time.
When I was about 15 I went through a complusive phase like that, it's healthy to love yourself!
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| Originally Posted by NutMeg
Once a day. Occasionally I'll miss a day if I'm really tired or something, and once in a while I'll have a mad session where I keep going until I pretty much pass out, lol, but usually once a day. |
ROFL!! I totally get you!! some days you don't bother, sometimes you need to just keep rubbin till you can sleep!
Personally I'm a a stealth wanker, I have to sneak mine in around everything else I need to get done I sometimes slink off to "intensively condition my hair"
My bf and I have an understanding that although we have a happy sex life, we both like a little palm time too, so we have codes for it. His is lab time.
Geraldine
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I have a strong libido, but when it comes to masturbation it kind of comes and goes. I can masturbate for lets say 2 or 3 times a day for a period of time (2-3 weeks) and suddenly I'm not interested anymore in doing it for about a month and so on.
I did it once while I was at work (I was alone at the office and I had nothing better to do LOL).
I did it once while I was at work (I was alone at the office and I had nothing better to do LOL).
