lol i'm a royal asshole. we have discussed that. my hubby thinks she's old enough and i really don't but i go along with it anyway. he only did that once b/c i had a hard time with to tbh.
and i think you're right about her not being able to communicate that she is tired or full. she doesn't talk yet. so i have been trying to work with her just like you suggested by trying to show her that the food doesn't go on the floor. i remember that whole "no" thing from my parenting class. just saying "no" doesn't work b/c it's such a broad thing. you have to actually explain why it's wrong and why they shouldn't do it. i think
but actually, i'm trying sign. just the basic stuff like "more", "hungry", "milk", "please", "thank you" and "full"
i hope that it helps me out a little bit.
thank you so much for all of your opinions. i hope to incorporate all the advice i get into my routines... maybe i'll get some kind of result????
thanks everyone