For your skintone I would recommend the following (one rec for each color family):
Blushbaby (VERY versatile healthy flush, it's a subtle neutral pink that's pretty much foolproof - great with more heavy eyes or just a day look - I use this a lot when I want a more neutral cheek esp with dark smokeys)
Dame (this is a cute, more cool-toned pink blush - it gives a very innocent/cute glow to your cheeks, great for everyday)
Gingerly (VERY versatile again, it really gives you a healthy glow - it's a subtle bronzy peach (doesn't make you look dirty!) that's great for everday looks, with warm-toned shadows or smokey eyes)
Melba (great matte coral color, great for someone of your color - is quite pigmented, but can definitely be applied with a light hand with you want just a hint of color)
Breath of plum (really great rosy-plum color, great for evening, especially to add a pop of subtle color for red lip nights)
Note that all the colors I recommended are without any shimmer (partly because I'm really oily, but also because I think matte colors give me more of a natural flush).
With regards to what colors to pair with the rest of your look...I usually use bronzy/peach/coral blushes with warm-toned shadows, pink blushes with more cool-toned shadows, usually more neutral bronzy/plummy blushes for red lips/neutral eyes...but there's no set rules, play and experiment until you find the perfect combo =)