Cupcake Queen
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I'll give you a quick backgound first.
My Fiance and I have been together almost 8 yrs in April. Recently (around valentine's day), he told me he didn't know how he felt about me anymore and wasn't sure if he wanted to be with me. We haven't broken up or seperated and are technically still together. We're still sexual active together.
On Valentine's day he met a girl after work for drinks (he had never met her in person, they had only spoken over the phone/email).
I normally pick him up, and i waited 40 minutes before I called him to see where he was. He said he would be home late.
When he got home, He told me he went for drinks with one of the guys from work.
Later that night he confessed it was with a girl he was meeting for the first time (he paid for drinks).
I should add he didn't get me a card, or celebrate valentines day with me this year.
So they've been speaking regularly and he inists they're just friends, but he finds her attractive and has said things she say are cute.
His mum asked if he was seeing anyone else, and he mentioned this girl to her.
Yesterday he told me they were planning to catch up *maybe* next week for dinner and a movie after work (it would be the second time they have met in person). I asked him if he would pay and he said possibiliy.
I told him it is a date, he doesn't think it is or will come across as a date. He has told this girl that he doesn't know if he wants to be with me.
Do you guys consider him taking her to dinner and the movies a date? or just a friendly gesuture?
I should add, I always want to do dinner and the movies, and the last time he took me was maybe september. Just recently i asked if he wanted to go and he said there was nothing good on and he didn't want to.
My Fiance and I have been together almost 8 yrs in April. Recently (around valentine's day), he told me he didn't know how he felt about me anymore and wasn't sure if he wanted to be with me. We haven't broken up or seperated and are technically still together. We're still sexual active together.
On Valentine's day he met a girl after work for drinks (he had never met her in person, they had only spoken over the phone/email).
I normally pick him up, and i waited 40 minutes before I called him to see where he was. He said he would be home late.
When he got home, He told me he went for drinks with one of the guys from work.
Later that night he confessed it was with a girl he was meeting for the first time (he paid for drinks).
I should add he didn't get me a card, or celebrate valentines day with me this year.
So they've been speaking regularly and he inists they're just friends, but he finds her attractive and has said things she say are cute.
His mum asked if he was seeing anyone else, and he mentioned this girl to her.
Yesterday he told me they were planning to catch up *maybe* next week for dinner and a movie after work (it would be the second time they have met in person). I asked him if he would pay and he said possibiliy.
I told him it is a date, he doesn't think it is or will come across as a date. He has told this girl that he doesn't know if he wants to be with me.
Do you guys consider him taking her to dinner and the movies a date? or just a friendly gesuture?
I should add, I always want to do dinner and the movies, and the last time he took me was maybe september. Just recently i asked if he wanted to go and he said there was nothing good on and he didn't want to.