amishmethlab
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At the end of this lease I think I'm leaving my relationship. Do I love him, yes. However, I'm not willing to do more than half the chores. I'm far from a neat freak but put it this way, if we lived in section 8 we'd probably get fined for how messy the place is. I'm not going to do it all myself. It might be different if I was not doing anything, but we're both in school contributing the same amount, I'm not going to contribute half (or more) & do all the cleaning.
I can't stand how my boyfriend bitches about having to clean things, and not an unequal amount of things. I also can't stand that he leaves dishes in the sink for weeks to the point they eventually get in the way of me washing my stuff, then it takes 8 days of nagging to get him to clean it and then there's so much stuff in the sink it doesn't all fit in the dishwasher so it takes another 8 days of nagging to get him to finish that and by that time the process has already re-started.
I hate how there's cat poo in the closet for 4 days+ before he gets to it. Not in the litter box, seriously in the closet. And there's been kitten vomit on the bedroom floor for 10 hours.
I hate how I have to bitch and him and insult him to get him to take daily showers. (i.e. "your balls smell, take a shower.")
I hate how I have to stand there and bitch at him to give me his smelly clothes (because I do all the laundry) so he doesn't stink up the place more than the poo he's left in the closet does.
I hate how there is a massive stacking of soda cans on all of my side tables, and the floor. I have to through with garbage cans and clean it all up every few days. I'm totally almost to the point of throwing away every glass that is not a nice glass (big gulp cups, etc.) so I stop having to do this.
I hate how there is a dent in the couch because all he does it sit there all day and play video games & read digg/reddit.
I hate how our electric bill is ridiculous because he likes to play DragonAge all day on a 42" plasma. I'll take part of the blame because I do watch TV on it, but not for 8-10 hours a day.
I hate the fact that he's spent a few hundred bucks on video games this semester and refuses to buy a few new shirts so he doesn't look like a bum. (I bought him new shirts and he won't wear them.)
I hate how he never stays on top of things and how it's partially his fault that his student loan check never comes on time... (this semester it came 3 months late, we had to run completely through mine to avoid being evicted.)
I hate how we had to pay extra for his traffic ticket because despite my reminders every day he never sent in a letter requesting volunteer hours in lieu of payment. I had to write the letter for him, and sent it in.
Basically I hate how I do everything as far as house maint. other than the cat box and dishes. I make sure the bills are paid on time and everything. And the few things he does do he never does in a decent time period. If I did not complain about these things I doubt he would ever do the dishes. He would just eat fast food to avoid doing dishes and it would pile up.
I can't stand how my boyfriend bitches about having to clean things, and not an unequal amount of things. I also can't stand that he leaves dishes in the sink for weeks to the point they eventually get in the way of me washing my stuff, then it takes 8 days of nagging to get him to clean it and then there's so much stuff in the sink it doesn't all fit in the dishwasher so it takes another 8 days of nagging to get him to finish that and by that time the process has already re-started.
I hate how there's cat poo in the closet for 4 days+ before he gets to it. Not in the litter box, seriously in the closet. And there's been kitten vomit on the bedroom floor for 10 hours.
I hate how I have to bitch and him and insult him to get him to take daily showers. (i.e. "your balls smell, take a shower.")
I hate how I have to stand there and bitch at him to give me his smelly clothes (because I do all the laundry) so he doesn't stink up the place more than the poo he's left in the closet does.
I hate how there is a massive stacking of soda cans on all of my side tables, and the floor. I have to through with garbage cans and clean it all up every few days. I'm totally almost to the point of throwing away every glass that is not a nice glass (big gulp cups, etc.) so I stop having to do this.
I hate how there is a dent in the couch because all he does it sit there all day and play video games & read digg/reddit.
I hate how our electric bill is ridiculous because he likes to play DragonAge all day on a 42" plasma. I'll take part of the blame because I do watch TV on it, but not for 8-10 hours a day.
I hate the fact that he's spent a few hundred bucks on video games this semester and refuses to buy a few new shirts so he doesn't look like a bum. (I bought him new shirts and he won't wear them.)
I hate how he never stays on top of things and how it's partially his fault that his student loan check never comes on time... (this semester it came 3 months late, we had to run completely through mine to avoid being evicted.)
I hate how we had to pay extra for his traffic ticket because despite my reminders every day he never sent in a letter requesting volunteer hours in lieu of payment. I had to write the letter for him, and sent it in.
Basically I hate how I do everything as far as house maint. other than the cat box and dishes. I make sure the bills are paid on time and everything. And the few things he does do he never does in a decent time period. If I did not complain about these things I doubt he would ever do the dishes. He would just eat fast food to avoid doing dishes and it would pile up.
