First of all, pretty av girl!
LOL second thanks for buying it because of me!! Thats means so much LOL.
You could put a chocolate gloss over it to tone it down, or layer it with another lipstick that you would like a little lighter.
I always use it w/ chapstick underneath to soften the application and sheet it out a bit cuz I'm NC35 and it can look a bit harsh against my tone. HTH!