plastic surgery?

[BeccalovesMAC]

Is you significant other opposed to plastic surgery?

Mine is. I'm thirty with two children. I want to get some Botox pretty soon but my man is like hell no! What the french? I was just wondering if any of you had the same experience with ur spouses? How did it work out for you two? Thanks for reading and responding




P.S.


I'm getting Botox with or with out his approval(with his card too)

 

[Mizz.Coppertone]

He's prob just scared ur gonna end up looking Hollywood fake, u know where ur face dosn't move at all. Mine would def bitch about it too. Start off slow and get small amounts is my best advice. You don't even look like u need it though.

 

[TISH1124]

No mine isn't ...He just says if I ever want it to make sure we investigate and research the PS before choosing one...He doesn't really go against anything that makes me feel good about myself unless he truly thought it would be harmful

 

[Mabelle]

mine is because he says he loves me the way i am and doesnt want me to change. he's also scared of surgery and doesn't like the thought of me in pain.

But i want a breast reduction, and he knows it will make me a lot happier and more confident, so he says he'll support me when i choose to have it.

 

[BeccalovesMAC]

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Originally Posted by Mizz.Coppertone He's prob just scared ur gonna end up looking Hollywood fake, u know where ur face dosn't move at all. Mine would def bitch about it too. Start off slow and get small amounts is my best advice. You don't even look like u need it though.

aww thanks coppertone...but im still getting it. lol JK ha haha Dis bitch(me) gotta look young lmao

 

[chocolategoddes]

I lol'd at "What the french?"

Did you ask him why he was so against you getting Botox injections?
There could be some deep, serious reason or insecurity he has about you getting the work done. Or not. But there's always a reason for every decision we make and it always helps if you have some sort of an understanding of where he's coming from.

I don't have a spouse and you all know how I feel about plastic surgery. Getting any sort of plastic surgery does affect more than just yourself. Hopefully, when your husband sees that you feel more confident and beautiful, he'll change his mind and he'll happier too.

yay!

 

[kaliraksha]

My significant other (SO) is totally against any cosmetic surgery because he's all "I love you the way you are."

I'm not at a time in my life where I can see myself getting it anytime soon, but my mind is in no way made up... as procedures get better, cheaper, safer... well you never know. However, would I let my SO stop me from doing something to myself I really want for myself? Absolutely not. Unless he had a legitimate reason like 'I saw that doctor on the news and he killed a woman in surgery."

You are beautiful just the way you are, but I feel like you have every right to do what you want to yourself. I know my SO would eventually understand, if I chose to have anything done, that it was just part of who I was to want to take care of myself and be independent enough to not need his approval.

 

[TISH1124]

I agree my husband does the I love you exactly the way you are...But he also realizes the most important thing is "I have to love me the way I am"...But he is 36 so he probably thinks things thru alot more than he did when he was in his 20's....I don't think I need any PS right now and not sure if I would ever get any...However I know if I felt I needed it to feel better about myself...then I certainly would...and trust me my DIVA husband would too...His appearance is soooo important to him so that is why he is probably more understanding of vanity and it's purpose in self esteem.

 

[aggrolounge]

Pah, I say if your man says he loves you the way you are, as many of yours do, then he should love/accept your stubborn nature, perfectionist tendencies, self-consciousness, or whatever it is that motivates y'all to want surgery. XD But heck, it is nice to hear that you are just lovely the way you are, isn't it?

 

[User93]

I really like my bf's attitude to this question - he says no, if you ask me, you don't need anything and you are beautiful, but if you ever wanna make something because you would feel better about it, I will suppot you.

I don't consider anything right now, I always joke I wanna do a boobjob, but for now that's joking. I think this stories about plastic surgeries ending up bad have a waaaay stronger influence on men rather than on us! All this scares them more definitely. Plus honestly, he is in love with you and you look perfect for him, I bet he honestly doesnt understand how that idea could pop in your mind.

 

[Mizz.Coppertone]

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Originally Posted by BeccalovesMAC aww thanks coppertone...but im still getting it. lol JK ha haha Dis bitch(me) gotta look young lmao

lol You don't even need it though u look like ur freaking 22 already.

 

[SparklingWaves]

My husband has never expressed that I needed surgery. Lately, he has been seeing me at my worst and has been quite kind about it. He asks, "Can I get you a chair for you to sit outside on this beautiful day or fix a plate for you?" That means the world to me.

I have asked him in the past, "Do you want me to get this or that?" He says, "No, I just want a good wife to be at my side."

Since plastic surgery is a personal decision that can in some cases affect one's health, I would want him to be involved and know about it. If ever there were something that I just thought I had to do and he was against it, I would pay for it myself and still let him know about it.

Hope it all goes well for you.

 

[BeccalovesMAC]

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Originally Posted by SparklingWaves My husband has never expressed that I needed surgery. Lately, he has been seeing me at my worst and has been quite kind about it. He asks, "Can I get you a chair for you to sit outside on this beautiful day or fix a plate for you?" That means the world to me. I have asked him in the past, "Do you want me to get this or that?" He says, "No, I just want a good wife to be at my side." Since plastic surgery is a personal decision that can in some cases affect one's health, I would want him to be involved and know about it. If ever there were something that I just thought I had to do and he was against it, I would pay for it myself and still let him know about it. Hope it all goes well for you.

awww ur hubby sounds like a sweet guy

 

[Lambchop]

My husband has been very supportive of the plastic surgery I've had and will have in the next year or so. He knows if I feel the best I can about myself that we will be happier as a couple in the long run.

 

[LMD84]

i've not had any plastic sugery and can't imagine having any in the near future. however i'm not opposed to it! for example when i'velost all my weight i may be facing lots of loose skin (even though i'm trying to tone it while loosing the weight). if this does happen i will have sugery to get rid of it. my hubby wouldn't like teh idea but if it's what makes me happy then he'd support me. things like botox though he hates! he said that i should grow old with grace and not try to fight it! not sure how i feel on that one because i'm quite vain and look for lines already! i'd never do it behind his back though. that would be asking for a major bust up!

 

[Doowop]

I think botox is totally non-invasive, you don't get cut up, stuffed or stitched up, and although I'm in my early 20s I would consider it in the future, and I'm not one for plastic surgery.nBut that's because botox is not like it's implants or lipo or a nosejob or other really invasive stuff.

But that being said, I think it's sweet he thinks you look fine the way you are. It's better than some crappy bfs who would rather their gfs do something drastic about their appearances.

Although botox is really mild IMO, maybe a little is fine, just don't do a nicole kidman lol!