You have somewhat similar coloring to me
My natural hair color anyways
The great thing about having fair skin with dark hair and eyes, is that you can wear just about any color!
Since your eyes are just gorgeous, I would play them up and go for a soft lip. Purples or blues would make your eyes pop while still coordinating with your dress. May I suggest one thing- go to a nail salon or hair salon and get eyebrows waxed- it will give you more eyelid space to work with as well as bring more light and attention to your eyes
Option 1: try maybe flashtrack on the lid with some print or black tied in the outer V. Then blend out the crease with a very neutral color- like wedge or could even do a soft purple like Beautiful Iris! Tying in blue with purple would be gorgeous.
Option 2: Try Satellite Dreams on the lid with a bit of silver in the very inner corner of the lid. Use print, black tied, or carbon in the outer V. Then blend out crease with Beautiful Iris and highlight under the brow with Vanilla, Shroom, Provence pigment- something close to your natural skin tone.
I hope that helps some! I do have some tuts on Youtube- I did a smokey purple look and some others if you want ideas. Also my website has multiple looks to try:
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