Resolution "LOW-BUY" 2014! Who wants to play?

[kerry-jane88]

See if you can sell in in the Clearance Bin.  I know there were several ladies, maybe even one or two in the UK who are looking for it.  Check out the Tom Ford thread.

I'm not into sending overseas and it's still on.house of fraser with free delivery anyway so back in its little brown box it goes! Plus, the tom ford box it came in was covered in.fingerprints and smudges :/

 

[Yazmin]

See if you can sell in in the Clearance Bin. I know there were several ladies, maybe even one or two in the UK who are looking for it. Check out the Tom Ford thread.

I'm not into sending overseas and it's still on.house of fraser with free delivery anyway so back in its little brown box it goes!
Plus, the tom ford box it came in was covered in.fingerprints and smudges :/

My mistake, thought you were in the UK. Anyway, there are some stateside that would be interested, but if not, definitely get that refund.

 

[kerry-jane88]

My mistake, thought you were in the UK.  Anyway, there are some stateside that would be interested, but if not, definitely get that refund.

Oh yes I'm in the UK, its definitely not as popular over here cause it's still widely available. I know it's a hot item over in the states though! But I need to stop with the instagram fueled lemmings

 

[veronikawithak]

At the risk of jumping the gun.. there's almost nothing I'm super interested in for holiday collections so far. Maybe a pressed pigment or the pigment/lipgloss sets from MAC's holiday collection but overall not really feeling it yet. Still waiting on a couple of brands but there's so many other things I saw and could immediately skip.. like the Vice 3, Lorac Mega Pro, Too Faced sets, UD/KVD lip sets, Tarte blush palette, etc. The Hourglass blush palette is a given though, definitely getting that. And the UD Naked 2 Basics probably. But that's not too bad so far!

Am I maybe getting to a place where I'm happy with what I have??

I'm also working my way through the Bite Deconstructed Rose Lip Gloss Library. I've finished 4 so far. I also found two shades I would really like in lipstick form that I don't have anything like in my stash: Ten (berry red) and Twelve (deep purple). I'm thinking MAC Rebel, and the new Bite Lip Crayon in Brandy would be nice additions that are along those color lines.

Ps. Another declutter series by maggiesmakeuptv! Love that more and more people are doing these. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HabMqYV4H1A

 

[awickedshape]

I've already done my holiday shopping and went over that list by two unplanned YSL palettes, two unplanned Dior palettes and now two totally unexpected Nars lipsticks! I managed to skip MAC x Simpsons and the eyeshadow palette I wanted but I still want a lipstick from Rocky Horror instead of the blush. At least the lipstick is cheaper :/

 

[Ajigglin]

I think the most helpful thing to do when you're caught in a compulsive buying cycle is to try to eliminate the triggers. For me, that meant unsubscribing to the many tempting e-mail lists that flooded my inbox with product launch and sales information. I will never miss what I didn't know about, and neither would you. If you've been gorging for a year (something most of us here have been guilty of, including me) then you already have more than you possibly need. I've purged a ton of products over the last year and I can't tell you how many BTM items were nearly new. Why? Because I'd bought them in the first rush with everyone else, and many of them just weren't right for me. With absolutely no disrespect to the many lovely ladies on this thread who absolutely are great about providing support, I think that not haunting Specktra (or any of your other favourite makeup sites/blogs/channels) at all would be the most helpful. Sites like these keep makeup top of mind and keep us right on top of what's coming out. An example - I've just seen pics of Vice 3 and I'm certain that I'll purchase it. Since I have nine (9!) other large e/s palettes there's no question that I don't need more for the next decade, but I'll get that. If I hadn't been on the site, I'd have remained blissfully ignorant. Sometimes that's the only way to keep ourselves from rushing to fill a 'new, shiny, must have' craving. I understand only too well how seductive the allure of makeup is; it's something that we all struggle with here. But it is not worth blowing your marriage up over. If your husband is becoming concerned/angry/resentful I think you need to take that very seriously. Money conflicts are a primary divorce trigger. It will be very hard to stop. Limiting your exposure to temptation is important. An alcoholic doesn't get better hanging our in a bar. You've gotten some great advice about doing an inventory; that's a real eye-opener. Bring out all the hidden bags and unopened stuff. Return what you can immediately - that's cash back in your pocket or off your credit card balance. See how much you can sell. Be honest with your husband that you can see that you've gone overboard and that you're going to work hard at change, but that you think you have a bit of a problem and might need his help. Maybe set some small goals together (no purchases for one week or two, asking him to look over your online credit card/bank statements to keep you honest, agreeing on a budgetary amount that you can both feel good about ($50 a month to be spent only if you've not slipped, etc).  My inventory has been really helpful. I have all my products listed on it and sorted by product type and then colour. No cheating. I have given each calendar month a different colour and change the font colour as I use each item. That was really helpful to me in identifying products I just never use. At the end of the summer, I got rid of a crap ton of stuff. I admitted that I don't like using very pigmented blush that I have to meticulously apply three grains of for it to work. So out they went, and I let myself have a couple of light, natural shades that I know I'll wear to death. I could probably do one more purge, but I'm going to see what I reach for over the fall as the weather changes before getting rid of the last few items I really don't use. I won't wish you luck, because what you need is determination and resolve.

This is excellent advice for all of us. Thank you.

 

[CrimsonQuill157]

Okay I figured I should type this all out. I've probably said most of this before but it's helpful for me to get it back out there.

Even if Nasty Gal comes up, it's a skip.

Just one lipstick, Frank N Furter, from RHPS.

Three lipsticks from Matte Lip

VGR2, possibly back up because I love how unique it looks.


So far, the holiday collection from MAC looks like a skip except maybe that matte frost. I really hope that's how all of the winter season goes MAC wise because I am wanting some of the holiday stuff from other brands.

Vice 3
Lorac Mega Pro
KvD lip set

 

[veronikawithak]

Great list @CrimsonQuill157! We've gotta keep our top wishlist items in mind and somewhere visible so we're not tempted by other things.

 

[shellygrrl]

FOTD... * It Cosmetics YSBB CC Cream - Fair * MAC Studio Sculpt Concealer - NW15 * MAC Brow Pencil - Stud * MAC Eyeshadows - mix of Mystery and Brun (to set brow pencil) * Sonia Kashuk Brow Gel - Clear * NARS Smudgeproof Eyeshadow Base * MAC Eyeshadow - Indian Ink (outer corner) * Makeup Geek Eyeshadow - Prom Night (most of lid) * MAC Eyeshadow - Satin Taupe (outer half of lid & blended over Indian Ink; also mixed two shades together for outer third of lower lashline) * Prestige Total Intensity Mascara - Jet Black * OCC Creme Colour Concentrate - John Doe (contour applied before applying CC cream) * MAC Blushes - Strada and Taupe (Strada applied first as contour, Taupe applied over the top) * MAC Lustreglass - Flusterose Just placed a Sephora order for some haircare (Living Proof PHD set) and finally turned in some of my BI points. The only makeup thing I got with the points was a deluxe POREfessional; the other thing was a Lancome Advanced Genifique deluxe sample. Also got some NUDE Skincare samples with a code.

 

[CrimsonQuill157]

Great list @CrimsonQuill157! We've gotta keep our top wishlist items in mind and somewhere visible so we're not tempted by other things.

Indeed! I need to start holding myself accountable when I stray from my list. Granted I haven't done that, but I've never pared down my list quite like this.

 

[lyseD]

Good morning everyone.

I am on a serious roll with my depotting. I have Back 2 MACed for three lipsticks already and have enough empties for four more.

Here is my dilemma --- I am running out or permanent lipsticks I want. So if anyone has any suggestions for MUST HAVE colours please let me know. I wear C1 in Face and Body for reference.

Thank you in advance for all your help.

 

[veronikawithak]

Good morning everyone. I am on a serious roll with my depotting. I have Back 2 MACed for three lipsticks already and have enough empties for four more. Here is my dilemma --- I am running out or permanent lipsticks I want. So if anyone has any suggestions for MUST HAVE colours please let me know. I wear C1 in Face and Body for reference. Thank you in advance for all your help.

Awesome! I love B2M.. makes me so happy. We're close in skin tone I think.. Although I can't wear C1 since it oxidizes too dark/orange for me. My undertones lean more neutral/cool. My all-time favorites are: Faux (S), Modesty (C), Peach Blossom (C), Cream Cup (C), Syrup (L), Capricious (L), and See Sheer (L). Depends what you like though. I'm a fan of nudes, muted tones, and mauve/rose/plum colors. Brights and warm colors look awful on me, but I think I can pull off jewel tones.. just starting to explore that area. My list to try on is: Rebel, Sin, Fabby, Hue, Blankety, Pure Zen, Japanese Maple, and Brave. Have fun! Let us know what you pick.

 

[dodotheextinct]

Hello everyone,

I've been lurking and finally caught up in this thread so I thought I would finally participate in this thread.
I've not purchased any makeup since January (with the exception of basics) and am working to bring my stash down and use up all the pretty products I have in my stash.

Now that Winter collections and holiday set information is being released I'm being really tempted. >.< I fear all that I've worked on for the past months will be forgotten and that I'll go on a buying frenzy when the holiday collections are released.

Any advice?

 

[veronikawithak]

First of all.. WOW. No purchases other than basics for the whole year is amazing. Congrats to you on that huge accomplishment!

My advice would be:
1. Surround yourself with positive people doing the same things as you (ex. I love watching Pinksofoxy on YouTube. She's been doing a low-buy/using up her products for 2 years now and just started another round of decluttering) and remove the negative (blogs, promotional emails, even some Specktra threads).
2. Give yourself a small, reasonable item limit or amount for holiday.
3. Start making a list of items that you want, in order of priority. Whatever falls below your item or budget limit, gets crossed off! Be ruthless!
4. .. and stick to the list!
5. Keep in mind all of your accomplishments and the fact that you don't want it all to be for nothing. Maybe keep a note for yourself somewhere visible so that you're reminded of your goals.

 

[mel33t]

@veronikawothak Hue is AH-mazing. I picked that up a few weeks ago when I B2M'd for some goodies. Nudes tend to make me look dead but this one is perfect. Finally I have a lipstick to complement a bold eye look!!

 

[lyseD]

Thank you in advance for all your help.

Awesome! I love B2M.. makes me so happy. We're close in skin tone I think.. Although I can't wear C1 since it oxidizes too dark/orange for me. My undertones lean more neutral/cool.

My all-time favorites are: Faux (S), Modesty (C), Peach Blossom (C), Cream Cup (C), Syrup (L), Capricious (L), and See Sheer (L). Depends what you like though. I'm a fan of nudes, muted tones, and mauve/rose/plum colors. Brights and warm colors look awful on me, but I think I can pull off jewel tones.. just starting to explore that area.

My list to try on is: Rebel, Sin, Fabby, Hue, Blankety, Pure Zen, Japanese Maple, and Brave.

Have fun! Let us know what you pick.

I have all of these and love them.

Thanks for your help.

 

[veronikawithak]

@veronikawothak Hue is AH-mazing. I picked that up a few weeks ago when I B2M'd for some goodies. Nudes tend to make me look dead but this one is perfect. Finally I have a lipstick to complement a bold eye look!!
Stoked to hear that! All of my favorite MAC nudes are LE's so it'd be nice to have something permanent! I have Bite's Retsina & Cava too though and those are great.

Quote: Originally Posted by lyseD
I have all of these and love them.

Thanks for your help.

Awesome! I'm excited to check them out. Glad I could help.

 

[shellygrrl]

Hello everyone, I've been lurking and finally caught up in this thread so I thought I would finally participate in this thread. I've not purchased any makeup since January (with the exception of basics) and am working to bring my stash down and use up all the pretty products I have in my stash. Now that Winter collections and holiday set information is being released I'm being really tempted. >.< I fear all that I've worked on for the past months will be forgotten and that I'll go on a buying frenzy when the holiday collections are released. Any advice?

First off, yay for your long-term no/low-buy! :cheer: As for Holiday collections: make a list of the stuff you want. See if you've got anything similar in your existing stash. If you do, it's a skip.

 

[dodotheextinct]

First of all.. WOW. No purchases other than basics for the whole year is amazing. Congrats to you on that huge accomplishment!

My advice would be:
1. Surround yourself with positive people doing the same things as you (ex. I love watching Pinksofoxy on YouTube. She's been doing a low-buy/using up her products for 2 years now and just started another round of decluttering) and remove the negative (blogs, promotional emails, even some Specktra threads).
2. Give yourself a small, reasonable item limit or amount for holiday.
3. Start making a list of items that you want, in order of priority. Whatever falls below your item or budget limit, gets crossed off! Be ruthless!
4. .. and stick to the list!
5. Keep in mind all of your accomplishments and the fact that you don't want it all to be for nothing. Maybe keep a note for yourself somewhere visible so that you're reminded of your goals.

Quote: Originally Posted by shellygrrl


First off, yay for your long-term no/low-buy!

As for Holiday collections: make a list of the stuff you want. See if you've got anything similar in your existing stash. If you do, it's a skip.

Thank you so much for your advice!

I guess I'll just wait for more information to be released to make up a list of products I would like and then swatch them to test formulations (hopefully reducing the list even more).

 

[jchait]

I sold more stuff ladies! I even let girl of a Heatherette alpha girl because I wasn't using it. It was tough, but slowly I am letting go of things I don't use anymore