Yay! I hope you love it. I'm still waiting for mine.Mine will arrive tomorrow according to space nk
Heirloom released here today and I was able to resist everything.
Yay! I hope you love it. I'm still waiting for mine.Mine will arrive tomorrow according to space nk
Looks like you are thinking along the same idea as me for 2015....still making up some decisions but reaching a point where purging isn't going to help me any more. Considering setting myself an overall limit for clothes and cosmetic items for the year, transferring it into a separate account and using that for the year, when its gone its gone!@kerry-jane88 YAY! Glad it was a great month for you!! That's fantastic - gold star for you!
@Buffy89 Here's another push.I agree with all of your points 100%. Nobody is going to notice the difference between two eyeshadows. Even when I notice that someone's makeup looks great I notice their application and overall effect much more than the actual colors used. Even a great lipstick color just makes me think they chose an awesome color for their features, and I don't start thinking whether it's MAC or NARS or whatever.. unless it's really unusual. But the two points you mentioned that I really think are the most important are: (1) you'd be proud of yourself if you skipped and (2) you would have more resources for other things that make you happy. It comes down to this one question: Do you want to trade in your pride and happiness just for more eyeshadow that you could dupe with what you already have? Hope that helps.
I've been being much more realistic with myself about what I'll actually use on a regular basis and pulled out 7 more products to try and sell or get rid of/B2M by the end of the year. I'm using up another lip gloss from the Bite set today so I only have 3/12 left (I can't wait to post a picture of those empty glosses at the end of the year..). Things are looking good. It feels so liberating cutting down on everything I've accumulated.. things stay so much cleaner and I don't get overwhelmed picking out things to use. I tend to go in cycles of hoarding and decluttering occasionally so hopefully I can maintain this trajectory.
Starting to think about my 2015 plans. I'm going to do a full year of project pan I think, along with really cutting back on my spending. I think my item limit was a good step for the last half of this year, but next year I might try a budget.. maybe $100/month for all personal items (including makeup, hair, nails, bath & body care, fragrance, etc.). That feels like a high number still (I'm not sure if it is or what other people spend) but I've been hovering above that just on makeup the past few months so I want to give myself time to adjust. Last year I was too strict on myself and just went crazy as a result.
Thanks for pushing me!@Buffy89 Here's another push.I agree with all of your points 100%. Nobody is going to notice the difference between two eyeshadows. Even when I notice that someone's makeup looks great I notice their application and overall effect much more than the actual colors used. Even a great lipstick color just makes me think they chose an awesome color for their features, and I don't start thinking whether it's MAC or NARS or whatever.. unless it's really unusual. But the two points you mentioned that I really think are the most important are: (1) you'd be proud of yourself if you skipped and (2) you would have more resources for other things that make you happy. It comes down to this one question: Do you want to trade in your pride and happiness just for more eyeshadow that you could dupe with what you already have? Hope that helps.
It sounds like you did a really great job last month! I'm glad you've done so well!Hey guys, i know I don't usually make my posts too personal but I want to say thank you for the space to explore my beauty buying habits with acceptance. Last month i spent the least amount on beauty I ever have done, by far, i bought just five makeup items: Maybelline brow gel (gave away to sis as gave me spots sadly) Mac maleficent beauty powder Mac msfn light Mac brow gel quiet brunette Mac csg courting chic So two are my frivolous ones and three were staples. I'm feeling really proud of myself and looking back i see how far I've come. Big thank you from me I couldn't have done it without you all X
Just in case you still need a push, I think all of your points are really great. I definitely understand wanting the subtle different shadows/lippies/etc etc. but when it comes down to it, it's usually not actually worth the money spent. Stay strong! You'll be so happy you did! @veronika I am thinking of doing a monthly "allowance" too to spend on items I don't need. And I think it will help me to consider if splurges are worth it (ex: if I have to save multiple monthly allowances to purchase a pair of shoes/clothing/etc). I'm sitting down tonight over pizza to figure out my budget. I'm going to go ahead and start it this month though lol. I need to. I went kind of wild last month! I'm skipping the VIB sale but I am going to grab my mascaras from Nordie's mascara madness. I'm also going to purchase my winter shade of foundation from the beauty.com F&F sale. So three staples...could be worse. I'm done with all holiday collections. I have to admit that the holiday red lippies have me drooling. But I must resist.Good to see everyone's doing fine so far! Personally, I'm not quite sure how successful I am at the moment. Things I've accomplished during the last week: -I've finished my Patisserie lipstick and it feels great! -I've also finished an eyeliner pen by Clinique (it was nothing special, so I'm glad it's gone) and another one is almost used up. -I've picked my four oldest lip products (2 lipsticks, 2 glosses) and I wanna use them as much as possible, maybe one of them will be empty at new year's eve -I have not bought the Opi polish that tempted me a week ago. I've kinda lost interest and it looks not so special at all. But there's also some hardship for me. I've ordered my two "allowed" items from Mac's holiday collection (the blackish fluidline and the blue pressed pigment everyone bought; and a fresh bottle of cleansing oil but that's alright 'cause it's my daily makeup remover/a staple), but I still want more...it's kinda hard. On the one hand, I KNOW that even those two items were unnecessary and pure luxury stuff, nothing I really need. On the other hand, I'd still like to get a blush or the brown eye bag. But hey, I keep telling myself that I won't buy any more things from this collection: - I already own soooo many neutral eyeshadows and soooo many blushes - doing great makeup means creating looks and being creative, and it does not matter exactly which shade of shimmery beige/brown or which shade of pink blush I'm using. In the "great big whole"/on my finished face, Satin Taupe (which I've owned since 2010) or Stolen Moment (from the brown eye bag) will totally look the same. People might think "that's a pretty eye look, in nice shimmery brownish colors" but NOT "hey, that's Stolen Moment from Mac's holiday collection, oh she's soooo fashionable" and so forth. Especially blushes look quite similar once applied 'cause they're applied sheerly and don't give full coverage (like they do in lots of swatches). - I don't need the mascara and the eyeliner pen from the eye bag, this would mean more unused stuff cluttering in my drawers - I'd be super proud of myself if I skipped - There's better things I could do with that money (activities with friends, christmas gifts, starting a "handbag jar" for that lovely leather handbag I've been wanting for so long but I was never able to buy it because of my makeup shopping) Sorry for writing a novel. Oh, and by the way, it might really help me if you lovely ladies could tell me that you agree with my points. Sometimes, I need to be pushed by some other person than myself.
Capsule wardrobe and makeup stash is the direction I'm going in for sure! I love having ONE bronzer, ONE contour product, ONE eyebrow pencil, etc. It just works better for me. Even blushes which are a difficult category I've gotten down to 4 and then the Hourglass palette of 3. I'd like to use up 2 next year (1 is a cream and one I have a duplicate of in the blush palette) and I might add in one or two more to round out any gaps in color selection. The one thing I really want next year is a smaller neutral eyeshadow palette.. something with 5-6 colors that I can grab and use for everyday without thinking. I hope the Hourglass eyeshadow one isn't exclusive.. because I think that would be perfect for me. I also want to really think about something before purchasing it and just repurchase staples and occasionally treat myself. I have a set of bodycare products to use up and I want to use some of my stockpile of oils to make DIY body scrubs etc.Looks like you are thinking along the same idea as me for 2015....still making up some decisions but reaching a point where purging isn't going to help me any more. Considering setting myself an overall limit for clothes and cosmetic items for the year, transferring it into a separate account and using that for the year, when its gone its gone!
Not sure yet, but really want to use up some make up and wear up some items in the wardrobe so both become more capsule.... i am not fully decided on this yet but definitely leaning in this direction. By setting aside my overall spend for the year I should be able to repurchase staples and have spare for the odd treat/must have item or a few new clothes items which are on "trend" but it should make me really think before I spend! It will hopefully help me use up my skincare and bodycare stashes and focus on panning items and wearing up the endless half worn jeans and jumpers that clutter up my wardrobe.
I looked at blogs where people went on complete no buys and I am not sure I can go complete cold turkey....I fancy 1 month in every 3 being a complete no buy and then there is the "fund" for the other months and must haves.
This will mean losing my VIP space nk status but given that I can't find anything that I want to spend my £20 reward on at the moment it might not be a bad thing!
I'm linking back to my post and copying my post on the Sephora thread: "Sephora has been taking so long to process orders.After my FnF order which is taking quite a while I had an extra 10% so I ordered two items so I could just skip the VIB sale.Two days later one item sold out so I emailed them and they responded the next day (luckily, I thought, because they usually take days or sometimes don't respond at all) to say that everything was ok and I got one of the last ones in the item.Now today I got a cancellation notice because of out of stock items.I know it's only makeup but I'm so irritated and the bank will take nearly two weeks to clear those funds.Grr." I'm compulsive and irritated (especially about having funds that I allocated specifically for this being "frozen") and it's triggering me. I'm feeling both cranky at Sephora (I know) and like I might try to reorder the items during the VIB sale because I was looking forward to them so much (the out of stock item of course is a shade I was looking for for a long time). I wanted to be done with them until December and I'm not sure now what I will do. It's only makeup, my goodness!As I cut my list after luckily getting the FnF code I am hoping that I can be strong and skip the VIB sale completely and Sephora in general until December, at which time I only want to buy a couple of the things left on my list if there's a discount. I talked myself out of a lot. My only other order/s apart from Sephora FnF and possibly December are two items from Saks and moisturizer and the unexpected expense of a new flat iron.
i am pleased to here that you're cat is now starting to eat. Makeup is unimportant and its a good way to stop purchasing if you have to focus on paying off the vet bills and have a bigger goal of moving. Everytime you get tempted transfer half the money that you would have spent into a savings account towards the move. if you can still afford the make up you can treat yourself but you will have also put money aside for the move!@veronikawithak I really like the wardrobe you've created, especially the flowery tops! There really is a clear concept/personal style visible and that's great! Everything seems so well-picked. And your makeup organizer - such a lovely small stash, wow (I think I've got a long, long way to go to accomplish a similarly small stash).
By the way, this morning I took the challenge and picked dupes to the eyeshadow set I craved so badly yesterday. It's allright now. I found several similar shades and again, I've noticed that some good blending (which is absolutely necessary) will make all those shades look even more similar (and more boring, in some way...duh, it's just brown eyeshadow, nothing that can shake my world). Feels good that I didn't give in to buy that set yesterdayThanks ladies!
Yay....well done, I knew you could do it!
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I'm catching up on this thread and it sounds like a lot of you are doing very well. So nice to read! I haven't bought anything recently. I don't have any money even if I wanted to! But there really isn't anything that I want, either. For some reason I'm usually not interested in the holiday stuff. Possibly because I still have pigments that I bought in 2006 or 2007.
I haven't been wearing much make up recently, either. I always wear a Lippie but if I'm running late that's about it. Mostly all I've been doing is taking care of my kitty and taking her to the vet. I feel like I finally found a good one on Friday. He looked in her mouth and said she had ulcers all over her tongue. That's why she couldn't eat! It only took 3 tries and 1,000.00 to get a good diagnosis. Ugh. I feel like I'll never get out of debt. But, my baby really ate for the first time today. I think she's just so tired of me sticking that syringe in her mouth and squirting food in her. That has not been a fun thing to do. The food ends up everywhere - on my shirt, on her face, on the towel... And she'd try her best to bury her face under my boob in order to hide and I'd feel so bad for her!
So I'm hoping this is almost over and I can get back to focusing on other things. I'm really wanting to cut way back on beauty purchases from now on so that I can try to pay off my debt and hopefully move next spring.
Thank you! I didn't plan it that way, but it looks like floral tops are my favorite! I just picked out the items I wear the most and packed away everything else.. it was surprisingly easy! With the makeup I have to have a small stash or I get overwhelmed and just stop using things. I'm working towards my ideal numbers still. Based on what I used up this year and the fact that I like to be able to use up my lipsticks before they're 2 years old and glosses before 1 year old, my ideal numbers are 8 lipsticks and about 5 glosses. I think I'm going to go with 10 lipsticks (8 everyday colors and 2 "wildcard" seasonal colors that I can just B2M when they get old without worrying about using them up. I needed to be honest with myself because I really don't wear a lot of different colors and there are a lot of days when I don't wear makeup at all! Someone with a different style might need a lot more but I can do my everyday looks + some weekend looks with a really curated stash. Congrats on staying strong!!! That's so great.@veronikawithak I really like the wardrobe you've created, especially the flowery tops! There really is a clear concept/personal style visible and that's great! Everything seems so well-picked. And your makeup organizer - such a lovely small stash, wow (I think I've got a long, long way to go to accomplish a similarly small stash). By the way, this morning I took the challenge and picked dupes to the eyeshadow set I craved so badly yesterday. It's allright now. I found several similar shades and again, I've noticed that some good blending (which is absolutely necessary) will make all those shades look even more similar (and more boring, in some way...duh, it's just brown eyeshadow, nothing that can shake my world). Feels good that I didn't give in to buy that set yesterday :cheer: Thanks ladies!
Thanks!! I kind of feel like I cheated since it was so easy to do.. I just took everything out of the closet, set myself a number limit for each category, and only put back my favorites until I reached that number. I didn't even purge anything, just stored it away. I will have to go through everything eventually but for now it's so nice to pretend that this is all I have!thats amazing !!! Well Done, I am very jealous, this is what I want my wardrobe to look like, I have lots of purging to do but definately making considerable progress in the right direction!
Glad it's working for you! I have most of my eyeshadows in pans and I like to switch up my empty quads, but I found I never reached for my blush palettes or my larger eyeshadow palettes. I think I prefer just grabbing a pre-made eyeshadow "look" and a single blush. It's interesting how different we all are.I was overwhelmed by all my make up as well but depotting has really helped me use more of what I have. Today I'm starting on blushes.