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almmaaa
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Thanks for the laugh "raping my pillow tonight"
I needed a laugh after all this damn stress!!!
Originally Posted by ellapink
Miss Resha: Thank you for the great advice! Ill be raping a pillow tonight! 
(I'm sorry, i couldnt figure out how to quote all 3 of you lovely ladies..i will though, just like i'll figure out how to be on top 
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Thanks for the laugh "raping my pillow tonight"
mtrimier
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because i love you ladies here, the hula hoop shenanigans begin at 7:30 or so.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TVK5vl0B4t4
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TVK5vl0B4t4
ellapink
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| Originally Posted by NutMeg
ellapink, to quote multiple people hit the multi [+] on each of the posts you want to quote, and then hit the quote button on the last one. As for girl on top, we totally cheat. I'll be on top, but he'll still be doing all the thrusting. We are very different sizes, so sometimes we have to be creative.
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Look!!! You taught me how to quote multiple people! thanks!
Now, i just need to learn the other thing!
Yeah, Ive done the one where he's doing all the work! its cool. I just wanna be able to do it all on my own
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| Originally Posted by chocolategoddes
I remember comedian Sommore, had a joke about getting that rhythm by immitating the movements of hula hoop. I can't find a clip of it but it's actually pretty funny AND good advice, I'd imagine. |
LOL. thats funny. It must be good advice cuz its sound like what Miss Resha was saying, and she sounds like an expert.
xbrookecorex
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kaliraksha
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Yeah... I was decent at it when I did it a lot. Seems to take practice to get into the rhythm... I agree though it's easier if one of you does all the work or you both do just a little work and take it slow. Now, I use it more as the teasing part of sex... it's fun to have control sometimes.
Chikky
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I agree with alot of you here. He loves me on top the most (he always asks me to get up there, hah) but I feel kinda awkward. I think I'm just not good at the rhythm of it anyhow, since he usually ends up doing all the work anyways, no matter what position, but I'd love to blow his mind up there!
X4biddenxLustX
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I think another part of it that kind of bugs me a bit is the whole control/dominance thing. I'm not too big on being dominant during sex and I just feel so weird being on top.
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I get soo shy whenever I'm with more experienced guys! It's like they expect this sex crazed lady that's ready for anything but instead they get a timid shy awkward girl. Plus it might sound weird but I'm afraid of doing something sexually wrong!
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Haha the only good thing about this position I've experienced so far is that after a while if I kind of stop or start slacking he'll just do the work for me and keep at it lol.
| Originally Posted by M.A.C. head.
I used to be bad at it, but I just got more in tune and figured out what works for us. I HATED being on top with previous partners, and I even hated it when I first tried it with my husband, but now we love it! I'm a heavy set girl, so all that bouncing and shit was just not cute. But I learned how to get my grind on, and now we do cow girl all the time! With woman on top, I think it's a little bit of a mental thing for some. The person on top is seen as the one who is in control, so when a person who is on top is not comfortable being there, it can put a damper on the attempt. Just relax and get comfortable and don't jump on and start acting like you know what you're doing, just go slow and learn. |
I think another part of it that kind of bugs me a bit is the whole control/dominance thing. I'm not too big on being dominant during sex and I just feel so weird being on top.
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| Originally Posted by ellapink
kdemers1221: Im sure he loves it! 
But really, props to you for doing it, even when you feel insecure and stuff. Miss Resha: Thank you for the great advice! Ill be raping a pillow tonight!
X4biddenxLustX: I know what you mean. It especially sucks when you are with someone that does have a lot of experience. I just feel worse about not being able to do it. (I'm sorry, i couldnt figure out how to quote all 3 of you lovely ladies..i will though, just like i'll figure out how to be on top
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I get soo shy whenever I'm with more experienced guys! It's like they expect this sex crazed lady that's ready for anything but instead they get a timid shy awkward girl. Plus it might sound weird but I'm afraid of doing something sexually wrong!
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| Originally Posted by MissResha
^^yea thats one of the best positions. to be on top while he's STILL doing all the work LOL! |
Haha the only good thing about this position I've experienced so far is that after a while if I kind of stop or start slacking he'll just do the work for me and keep at it lol.
MissResha
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^^whatever you do, even if you are shy, dont act like you are. TRUST ME, they are more scared than you are lmao. they're probably wondering "what the fuck does her pretty ass want with me? how the hell did i get so lucky? GOD PLEASE DONT LET ME CUM TOO QUICK!!!"
so relax and know that you're doing him a favor IF ANYTHING, and take control of him girl. ride his ass into the sunset!
personally for me, i lvoe being submissive and sometimes i love hopping on top. u dont have to always be on top. a fair equal opportunity position will always be doggystyle. takes effort on both you and him. push your ass back on his rod and look at him while you do it. well nevermind, he may lose control and bust a big one all over you way too early lmaoo, but you get the idea
so relax and know that you're doing him a favor IF ANYTHING, and take control of him girl. ride his ass into the sunset!
personally for me, i lvoe being submissive and sometimes i love hopping on top. u dont have to always be on top. a fair equal opportunity position will always be doggystyle. takes effort on both you and him. push your ass back on his rod and look at him while you do it. well nevermind, he may lose control and bust a big one all over you way too early lmaoo, but you get the idea
X4biddenxLustX
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Lol girl you crack me up! But thanks for the advice. I always thought of how weird I must look to the guy on top not knowing wtf to do exactly. I actually love it when they close their eyes cause they wont have to see me lol! I remember my first time being on top, I had to ask him what to do after I got it in me. He just told me to ride him and "I'm like which way do I go?" as in do I move backwards or forward? hahaha. It's gotten better since then but I'm still not the riding expert.
Now doggystyle on the other hand is fun fun fun!
The best part besides that tingle I get all the way up to my head is pushing into his dick faster and faster and screaming! But yes sadly he'll usually just finish way too fast for me and there are no second rounds. The guy I was having sex with would always tell me that he's not a sex machine, and I'd be like what if I put a quarter in you will you go one more time lol? I usually would know whenever he'd cum cause he does this unmistakeable groan that I call the groan of terror cause it means no more sex for me
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| Originally Posted by MissResha
^^whatever you do, even if you are shy, dont act like you are. TRUST ME, they are more scared than you are lmao. they're probably wondering "what the fuck does her pretty ass want with me? how the hell did i get so lucky? GOD PLEASE DONT LET ME CUM TOO QUICK!!!" so relax and know that you're doing him a favor IF ANYTHING, and take control of him girl. ride his ass into the sunset! personally for me, i lvoe being submissive and sometimes i love hopping on top. u dont have to always be on top. a fair equal opportunity position will always be doggystyle. takes effort on both you and him. push your ass back on his rod and look at him while you do it. well nevermind, he may lose control and bust a big one all over you way too early lmaoo, but you get the idea
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Lol girl you crack me up! But thanks for the advice. I always thought of how weird I must look to the guy on top not knowing wtf to do exactly. I actually love it when they close their eyes cause they wont have to see me lol! I remember my first time being on top, I had to ask him what to do after I got it in me. He just told me to ride him and "I'm like which way do I go?" as in do I move backwards or forward? hahaha. It's gotten better since then but I'm still not the riding expert.
Now doggystyle on the other hand is fun fun fun!
X4biddenxLustX
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Everyone is different. Just because one girl is screaming at the top of her lungs while another one isn't doesn't mean that they both aren't getting just as much pleasure as the other. It's like the whole super exaggerated porn scenes with the girls having the over the top orgasms. It's created this expectation for us girls from guys and we even put this pressure on ourselves to just be like the porn stars with our orgasms. There should be no pressure, if you enjoy it that's good, thats all that matters!
| Originally Posted by Chikky
Man, listening to everyone talk, I kinda wish I enjoyed it all more. It sort of just seems like a means to an end for me... Maybe I'm doing something wrong. I mean, I enjoy it, but I'm not writhing or screaming or whatnot. |
Everyone is different. Just because one girl is screaming at the top of her lungs while another one isn't doesn't mean that they both aren't getting just as much pleasure as the other. It's like the whole super exaggerated porn scenes with the girls having the over the top orgasms. It's created this expectation for us girls from guys and we even put this pressure on ourselves to just be like the porn stars with our orgasms. There should be no pressure, if you enjoy it that's good, thats all that matters!
MiCHiE
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Have you tried watching porn? Seriously, that's how I learned to move. That, and the pillow.
I only like being on top if we're chest to chest, though. All that sitting up and grinding does nary a damn thing for me, unless he's sitting up, too. So, why don't y'all hop in the car and go for a ride and go for a ride
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The easiest way if you're just learning is Froggy Style, where you're basically balancing on your feet and "bouncing" (sorry, M.A.C. head, LOL).
I only like being on top if we're chest to chest, though. All that sitting up and grinding does nary a damn thing for me, unless he's sitting up, too. So, why don't y'all hop in the car and go for a ride and go for a ride
The easiest way if you're just learning is Froggy Style, where you're basically balancing on your feet and "bouncing" (sorry, M.A.C. head, LOL).
NutMeg
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Chikky, I was sexually active for a long time before I moved past enjoying it into being unable to function for a while afterwards.
Don't feel like you're doing it wrong. If you're happy with your sex life, then awesome and don't let anyone make you feel bad about it. If you aren't, then consider it a chance to explore sex with your partner. It's a hell of a lot of fun if the two of you are up for it.
X4biddenxLustX
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When I'm on top it usually ends up with us doing chest to chest cause I really can't stand my little boobies bouncing around or my belly
lol.
It hurts my knees soo badly when I do it in the car!
| Originally Posted by ♥MiCHiE♥
Have you tried watching porn? Seriously, that's how I learned to move. That, and the pillow. I only like being on top if we're chest to chest, though. All that sitting up and grinding does nary a damn thing for me, unless he's sitting up, too. So, why don't y'all hop in the car and go for a ride and go for a ride
The easiest way if you're just learning is Froggy Style, where you're basically balancing on your feet and "bouncing" (sorry, M.A.C. head, LOL). |
When I'm on top it usually ends up with us doing chest to chest cause I really can't stand my little boobies bouncing around or my belly
It hurts my knees soo badly when I do it in the car!
ellapink
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LOL
I've watched so much porn!!! ...... for learning purposes! hahahah
But i didnt learn anything. Boo.
Thanks for the froggy style tip. i've never tried it...i should try it with pillow first though.
| Originally Posted by ♥MiCHiE♥
Have you tried watching porn? Seriously, that's how I learned to move. That, and the pillow. I only like being on top if we're chest to chest, though. All that sitting up and grinding does nary a damn thing for me, unless he's sitting up, too. So, why don't y'all hop in the car and go for a ride and go for a ride
The easiest way if you're just learning is Froggy Style, where you're basically balancing on your feet and "bouncing" (sorry, M.A.C. head, LOL). |
LOL
I've watched so much porn!!! ...... for learning purposes! hahahah
But i didnt learn anything. Boo.
Thanks for the froggy style tip. i've never tried it...i should try it with pillow first though.
M.A.C. head.
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Truuuuuuuuuuuue! You can't go wrong with that one. My guy loves it when I take control during doggy style. It's sort of "backwards" to do that so it's really surprising when he's nailing ya and then you say "NAW!" and nail him instead LMAO
| Originally Posted by MissResha
a fair equal opportunity position will always be doggystyle. takes effort on both you and him. push your ass back on his rod and look at him while you do it. well nevermind, he may lose control and bust a big one all over you way too early lmaoo, but you get the idea
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Truuuuuuuuuuuue! You can't go wrong with that one. My guy loves it when I take control during doggy style. It's sort of "backwards" to do that so it's really surprising when he's nailing ya and then you say "NAW!" and nail him instead LMAO
M.A.C. head.
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FOR SHAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAMMMMMMEEEEEEE! haha
Porn is fun to watch just because LMAO But I will not front, I have learned a lot of things from watching porn. It doesn't give me any false expectations, because I expect to learn some crazy shit to try and watch some fine lady get boinked. Works %60 of the time, aaaaaaaaaaall the time.
| Originally Posted by ♥MiCHiE♥
Have you tried watching porn? Seriously, that's how I learned to move. That, and the pillow. I only like being on top if we're chest to chest, though. All that sitting up and grinding does nary a damn thing for me, unless he's sitting up, too. So, why don't y'all hop in the car and go for a ride and go for a ride
The easiest way if you're just learning is Froggy Style, where you're basically balancing on your feet and "bouncing" (sorry, M.A.C. head, LOL). |
FOR SHAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAMMMMMMEEEEEEE! haha
Porn is fun to watch just because LMAO But I will not front, I have learned a lot of things from watching porn. It doesn't give me any false expectations, because I expect to learn some crazy shit to try and watch some fine lady get boinked. Works %60 of the time, aaaaaaaaaaall the time.
