j_absinthe
Well-known member
That's what it feels like for me right now. There are alot of sage women (and even a few sage fellas) here, and I just need a place to vent.
Essentially, I'm caught between the middle of a vicious catfight.
In one corner, we have Friend A, who I've known for about a year and though our friendship has been rocky because of her own issues, I thought we'd at least remain on good terms. She's got a habit of lying though, and stealing.
In the other corner, there's Friend B, who I've known for a large chunk of my life, who happens to be one of the most honest people I know, but can also be very vindictive and sadistic if you cross her. I've been fortunate to have not so far.
In the middle, a couple feet away from me, is Friend C, who B and myself have known for quite awhile as well. Friend C also is suffering from an uncurable ailment that has only been divulged to myself and B.
A and B have been on the outs recently; B set up a bit of a test, to see if whether or not A would steal from her, and she failed and lied about it. This caused B to retaliate by posting a blog about the discussions between them, the lies and disgust and whatnot. Since C and I have been through alot with B, and we know what A is capable of, we naturally gravitate towards B.
B sets things off even further by ending the blog with a link to some rather lewd material featuring A she had taped when she needed money.
Today, things blew up when C decided to get involved in the blog wars, posting a reaction blog to something smug A had written about the entire situation, esentially calling her out on her lies. About an hour letter, C and myself receive a letter from A, informing us that she, as well as B's boyfriend and former roommate, know of C's ailment, something only B and myself had known and were supposed to know about.
C confronts B, and B has no apologies, B doesn't even really have any reason as to why she told A this secret other than "[A] said [C] was going to tell [A] anyway."
This is such a messed up situation right now, and all B can think about is revenge, she doesn't even see how much more she could be hurting all of us in the process.
Essentially, I'm caught between the middle of a vicious catfight.
In one corner, we have Friend A, who I've known for about a year and though our friendship has been rocky because of her own issues, I thought we'd at least remain on good terms. She's got a habit of lying though, and stealing.
In the other corner, there's Friend B, who I've known for a large chunk of my life, who happens to be one of the most honest people I know, but can also be very vindictive and sadistic if you cross her. I've been fortunate to have not so far.
In the middle, a couple feet away from me, is Friend C, who B and myself have known for quite awhile as well. Friend C also is suffering from an uncurable ailment that has only been divulged to myself and B.
A and B have been on the outs recently; B set up a bit of a test, to see if whether or not A would steal from her, and she failed and lied about it. This caused B to retaliate by posting a blog about the discussions between them, the lies and disgust and whatnot. Since C and I have been through alot with B, and we know what A is capable of, we naturally gravitate towards B.
B sets things off even further by ending the blog with a link to some rather lewd material featuring A she had taped when she needed money.
Today, things blew up when C decided to get involved in the blog wars, posting a reaction blog to something smug A had written about the entire situation, esentially calling her out on her lies. About an hour letter, C and myself receive a letter from A, informing us that she, as well as B's boyfriend and former roommate, know of C's ailment, something only B and myself had known and were supposed to know about.
C confronts B, and B has no apologies, B doesn't even really have any reason as to why she told A this secret other than "[A] said [C] was going to tell [A] anyway."
This is such a messed up situation right now, and all B can think about is revenge, she doesn't even see how much more she could be hurting all of us in the process.
