"...things aren't always what they seem..."

[stefania905]

I met a guy a few weeks ago, he lives right by me but goes away for school. He was here to see his parents.

Anyways, at first i didnt like him b/c he came on too strong. Trying to impress me, triied too hard....ect. So naturally I was turned off.

He was trying too hard but it made him seem like a total dork b/c he kept messing up...if that makes sense?

A couple days ago he graduated from college, hes going away for a while...like most ppl after college...they wanna see the world.

idk, why it makes me kinda sad.

i'll probably see him again evetually since his parents lives a town away

but its just b/c i judged him i guess when i first met him...and i hate when people do that

 

[tropical_smiles]

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Originally Posted by stefania905 I met a guy a few weeks ago, he lives right by me but goes away for school. He was here to see his parents. Anyways, at first i didnt like him b/c he came on too strong. Trying to impress me, triied too hard....ect. So naturally I was turned off. He was trying too hard but it made him seem like a total dork b/c he kept messing up...if that makes sense? A couple days ago he graduated from college, hes going away for a while...like most ppl after college...they wanna see the world. idk, why it makes me kinda sad. i'll probably see him again evetually since his parents lives a town away but its just b/c i judged him i guess when i first met him...and i hate when people do that

I don't know...I'm sometimes that way to at times. I met this one guy a few years back when I was in first year univ. Anyways I knew he was really into me but I wasn't ready for any type of commitment and honestly I thought he was a total DORK and i wondered why on hell he would keep bugging me. Until afterwards when he wasn't around, was when I started to really like him but by then it's a bit too late...now almost 5 years down the road, we keep in touch. He lives in the UK, I'm in Canada, we talk on the phone and I can't do anything about it. From feeling like he was the biggest nuissance to me, to now wanting something more..ha ha I guess I came to that realization a tad too late.

Sometimes you have to think, the way you treat him, is it because of how other peers will view you?

 

[Beauty Mark]

It happens. However, it isn't too late to try to be nice to him, especially if you think you're interested in him

 

[stefania905]

I guess everyone is right. HE's just on my mind constantly now.

I just hate the when other ppl judge me & basically i did him, without really knowing anything. I mean he took me out shopping when we first hung out....now im like "why was i such a snub to him"

I know im being paranoid(thats totally my turf), he doesnt talk to me that much anymore online & b/c of my lack of self confidence im thinking its me....because im chubby... ect. I mean i could call him.

I know hes really focused on his career...or future career. He's exploring overseas in a few months & then sometime after he is moving overseas to be a teacher.

 

[prinzessin784]

I know it's hard but don't stress over it too much. Take it as a learning experience and remember next time you meet a great guy to treat him as such