I have super sensitive skin myself, and after tons of eczematic breakouts from foundation, sunscreen, cleansers and creams, have switched over to (mostly) mineral based products. I also have a little redness on my cheeks that needs addressing through skin care/makeup.
Like you, Ketta, I am not allergic to eyeshadows or lipstick/glosses.
I also have combination/dry skin, and powder mineral foundations, no matter the brand, bring out every pore or line, most of which I didn't even know I had pre mineral powder foundation. Ugh.
My best finds so far that have actually calmed my skin down :
1.) Jane Iredale Liquid Minerals Foundation (get it on EBay, its waaaay cheaper there);
2.) Jane Iredale Circle Delete Concealer (works everywhere, and if you apply a light layer under your eyes, doesn't crease. Get it on Ebay);
3.) Pure Luxe What Red? and Banana Split "Eraser" products, more like primers - miracle potions!
4.) Diane Young Red Neutralizer - another miracle product, minimal ingredients, doesn't break me out. This REALLY works, even though it only comes in one color, it blends in even with my nc15, super pale skin. I can't imagine not having this in my arsenal.
5.) Sunscreen is a problem for a lot of us sensitive skinned women - I tried everything, in the end, the only one that worked for me, didn't break me out and does double duty as a moisturizer/sunscreen is the dirt cheap, drugstore "Purpose Anti Redness Moisturizer with SPF 30".
6.) I take my makeup off with exrtra virgin olive oil (essential rose or frankincense oils added to remove salad-y smell) or almond oil, tone with rosewater (what they call "hydrosol", Lavender water or citrus flower water works great too), mositurize with NAPCA (from the health food store) and 3 drops of grapeseed or avocado oil, depending on how dry my skin feels.
I do not wear all of the above products at one time on a regular basis. During the day I usually only wear the Purpose Anti Redness, the Pure Luxe Erasers with a little concealer and some mineral based powder over that (NOT BE or anythng with bismuth, which makes me itch madly).
After 2 months of using these products my red patches are almost gone (except when it gets really hot outside) and I haven't had a single bad reaction, and I have no more dry scaly patches anywhere.
By the way, if you have sensitive skin, stay miles away from any "exfoliating", "dermabrasion", etc products. They are sooooo irritating to us!
Hope this helps!