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ImMACnificent

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My coworker's daughter is on there, it is about overweight/obese teens.


My coworker's daughter's name is Stephanie, she is 17 years old and she is on this episode!
 

Hemons

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Will do. Oprah starts in like 3 minutes here. I TiVo it everyday anyway. I will pay extra special attention to Stephanie!!!
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ImMACnificent

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They actually show her quite a bit, I was surprised. She is the one that screams "Id rather be dead than overweight"

Then it showed a clip of her mom (my coworker) crying and I just lost it. I can't stand seeing people I know cry.

Very touching episode.

Part 2 tomorrow!
 

Mabelle

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Ohh i just caught the tail end of this episode.
I was really not intrested in the subject matter, buut put it on because it was Oprah. My attitude was kind of "you do it to yourself", but once these kids started talking... my god, its hard to hold back the tears.
I really like it when she does these interventionist meetings with teens. I believe these same people did one with a High School a while ago about racial tensions. It was pretty hardcore and made me bawl my eyes out.

I hope that this show helps your co-worker and her daughter. Not matter you're shape or size, no one should feel that way. Being a teenager is hard enough, but being one that doesn't physically fit in must be so hard. It wasnt that long ago that i was 17 and in high school. I'm so thankful it's all over. When you're there everything is life or death. I remember being depressed for a couple years... grade 9 to 11, and i didnt really have anything to be sad about.... i just was. I can;t imagine what it would feel like to be in obese, and all that to the mix. I don't mean to trivialize the feelings and issues that go along with being obese, but please, if you ever speak to Stephanie, let her know taht as rough as thing feel sometimes, it get easier when you're out of High School. It did for me. It did for a lot of people i know. It can be a really horrible place for a kid.
 

ImMACnificent

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They have a lot of issues---especially like when Stephanie told her she was mad that she remarried a guy that does not like her. STephanie really struggles with that.

Oprah bought all the kids work out clothes, shoes, a personal trainer, etc. I can't tell if Stephanie has lost any weight yet (the show was recorded back in like October). But, I just hope it gets better too.

I speak to STephanie when she comes to visit her mom at work and myspace sometimes. I agree getting out of high school will make it easier. But a lot of it is so internalized, all these kids have so much internal things to work on before any weight will come off or any of them will begin to truly feel better.
 

Mabelle

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Originally Posted by ImMACnificent
But a lot of it is so internalized, all these kids have so much internal things to work on before any weight will come off or any of them will begin to truly feel better.

100% agreed. It was really evident when they asked why they were angry.... and they are. They're not angry necessarily because they're overweight... the weight is a side effect, maybe the only visible one. I hope the parents decide to bring their kids to therapy, or at least keep a dialogue with their kids. For so many of them, their parents (fathers especially it would seem) just don't open up. I know it can be hard for men, especially of that generation, but shit.
 

Rennah

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I saw a bit of that episode. So sad.

You all should watch tonight!
The show is about beauty secrets around the world.
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