i would wear something your husband-to-be loves, or stick with something really light.
when i dont want to wear perfume, but want scent i wear philosophy's lotion, falling in love. its a really light and so romantic scent. it stays on a long time. plus, the title is so fitting.
funny story...i once was at a wedding and the bride put way too much on and it killed the reception. it was a nasty mix of flowers, her uhgoldy youth dew (eww yes) and food.