What to do to heal a Broken Heart

[cocoabeauty]

So, a good friend and I took our relationship to the bedroom. The problem is while we both really like it, my friend only wants to be casual and I want an exclusive relationship. So we talked about it and he decided that he doesn't want to jeopardize our friendship with a soured romantic relationship. I am so hurt and broken up by his decision and I would like to know if you have been involved in a similiar situation and what did you do to get over it?

 

[Hilly]

Been there, done that. It is hella hard and hurtful. I kept going back for more because I thought eventually he would want to be my boyfriend and love me.

Nope!

It sucked and made me act like a lunatic! Boy I cried....A LOT! But, I distanced myself (lol I moved to Colorado for the summer and just made good girlfriends and slowly healed myself that way).

Do things for you and keep yourself busy. Surround yourself with people who love you and make you feel good. And buy a dildo lol.

HTH

 

[MACATTAK]

I agree with Hilly...keep good people around you, and keep yourself busy. Most times if someone only wants friendship, or to keep things casual, that won't change. Time will do wonders, so give yourself time & keep your distance.

 

[GreekChick]

I agree with the others. I'm also a very strong believer in the NO CONTACT policy (you get rid of everything that reminds you of him: pictures, files, conversations) and try to distance yourself as much as you could. It really helped lessen my pain during the time my ex didn't want anything to do with me. You might not get over him right away (or if you're lucky and strong enough, you might!) but at least, you choose NOT to live with the pain of seeing him everyday, and being reminded of the good moments.
Out of sight, out of mind.

 

[xbeatofangelx]

I second the dildo!!