caRpediEm17
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ok so pretty much im juSs venting...hopefully this doesnt turn out to be too long...
ok so in october/november me and this guy (we'll call him Bob haha) were liking each other and were talking about making it official...right after that though, i found him making out with his exgirlfriend (who cheated on him)...i was soo hurt and juSs like felt so betrayed...but unfortunately im the kind of person who easily forgives and gives people thousands of chances so i accepted his apology and we juSs became friends again...
im not gonna lie, ive never stopped liking him, even when he hurt me...and i know its bad, but i juSs couldnt help it...so ive had to sit around this whole time and watch him go out with a couple other girls and i was FINALLY getting over him until like last week when he started talking to me again like he used to (juSs like sweet and kind)...
so like last night me and him were talking and he was @ his friends house who lives right by me and we talked about meeting up today...and he kept saying how he wanted to see me and all this stuff..
so today we met up and i thought we were meeting strictly as friends...like i didnt want/think anything was going to happen...we went back to his friends house and were in his friends room and i was juSs leaning on the wall and he came over and was standing right in front of me like a foot away from my face...OBVIOUSLY he wanted to make out with me because thats how he is...but my mind was still thinking about when he hurt me....so i kept turning my face from his to avoid it ya know? and he was like whats wrong? and i juSS told him it was complicated and then i was like its hard for me to trust you now, i mean i dont want you to hurt me again...and he said he wouldnt, but its hard to juSs believe it ya know...
so we decided he should juSs walk me home and we talked and he told me i was playing games with him because one minute im thinking one thing and the next im thinking another...i juSs tolld him straight up that i cant help the way i feel, that i wasnt playing games with him and even though it seemed like it, i wasnt doing it intentionally...i told him i did like him but it was juSs harder for me to believe he wasnt going to hurt me again..so we went our seperate ways and went home..
so i called him later to tell him im sorry that things were difficult..and he basically told me that i blew my chance with him and that i play games and that every time i talk to him im a different person...i was really hurt by what he said juSs cuz thats not who i am and he was mad @ me because i wouldnt make out with him...how fucked up is that? we got off the phone and i seriously balled my eyes out for like 20 minutes, i was juSs so stressed about it and ive had such horrible history with guys that it made it that much worse...but its like im not the kind of girl who will makeout with a guy juSs cuz HE wants to ya knoW?
i dono what to do about it...im not sorry for not making out with him, and i think hes being a total dick about it...i juSs needed to vent,i mean if you have any opinions or advice, i would love to hear it...thanks so much if you actually read this long ass thing haha...
ok so in october/november me and this guy (we'll call him Bob haha) were liking each other and were talking about making it official...right after that though, i found him making out with his exgirlfriend (who cheated on him)...i was soo hurt and juSs like felt so betrayed...but unfortunately im the kind of person who easily forgives and gives people thousands of chances so i accepted his apology and we juSs became friends again...
im not gonna lie, ive never stopped liking him, even when he hurt me...and i know its bad, but i juSs couldnt help it...so ive had to sit around this whole time and watch him go out with a couple other girls and i was FINALLY getting over him until like last week when he started talking to me again like he used to (juSs like sweet and kind)...
so like last night me and him were talking and he was @ his friends house who lives right by me and we talked about meeting up today...and he kept saying how he wanted to see me and all this stuff..
so today we met up and i thought we were meeting strictly as friends...like i didnt want/think anything was going to happen...we went back to his friends house and were in his friends room and i was juSs leaning on the wall and he came over and was standing right in front of me like a foot away from my face...OBVIOUSLY he wanted to make out with me because thats how he is...but my mind was still thinking about when he hurt me....so i kept turning my face from his to avoid it ya know? and he was like whats wrong? and i juSS told him it was complicated and then i was like its hard for me to trust you now, i mean i dont want you to hurt me again...and he said he wouldnt, but its hard to juSs believe it ya know...
so we decided he should juSs walk me home and we talked and he told me i was playing games with him because one minute im thinking one thing and the next im thinking another...i juSs tolld him straight up that i cant help the way i feel, that i wasnt playing games with him and even though it seemed like it, i wasnt doing it intentionally...i told him i did like him but it was juSs harder for me to believe he wasnt going to hurt me again..so we went our seperate ways and went home..
so i called him later to tell him im sorry that things were difficult..and he basically told me that i blew my chance with him and that i play games and that every time i talk to him im a different person...i was really hurt by what he said juSs cuz thats not who i am and he was mad @ me because i wouldnt make out with him...how fucked up is that? we got off the phone and i seriously balled my eyes out for like 20 minutes, i was juSs so stressed about it and ive had such horrible history with guys that it made it that much worse...but its like im not the kind of girl who will makeout with a guy juSs cuz HE wants to ya knoW?
i dono what to do about it...im not sorry for not making out with him, and i think hes being a total dick about it...i juSs needed to vent,i mean if you have any opinions or advice, i would love to hear it...thanks so much if you actually read this long ass thing haha...