Chikky
Well-known member
I know I've written before about my emetophobia. This is the fear of ... well, being physically ill. I know it's bad, how bad I have it. It's every day, my fear.
But that's not what I'm writing about.
I'm sad, because my SO is sick now... We went to a concert yesterday and on the way he mentioned that he'd been feeling ill ALL DAY. I mean, that totally ruined my night. I canNOT be near it, or anything like it. I feel awful that he's apparently sick (though he ate last night, every time he ate today he said it 'reacted badly'). We don't live together, by the way.
But, as much as I care for him... as much as that, I cannot be near him. I can't help him. I can't comfort him. My heart is racing right now after only talking to him via IM about it. That sort of makes me sad. I can never marry anyone, because I would hate them if they got me or anyone in my family sick, and I can't be supportive if they are. Colds and the like are no problem, it's only stomach things that I really cannot handle.
The worst part is, we usually watch TV together on Thursdays and how can I back out?? I don't want to sound crazy and don't want him to not want to be around me because of my fear. But I know he'll want me to come up tomorrow, and I am freaking out.
And now I'm worried that I brought it home from being with him yesterday.
But that's not what I'm writing about.
I'm sad, because my SO is sick now... We went to a concert yesterday and on the way he mentioned that he'd been feeling ill ALL DAY. I mean, that totally ruined my night. I canNOT be near it, or anything like it. I feel awful that he's apparently sick (though he ate last night, every time he ate today he said it 'reacted badly'). We don't live together, by the way.
But, as much as I care for him... as much as that, I cannot be near him. I can't help him. I can't comfort him. My heart is racing right now after only talking to him via IM about it. That sort of makes me sad. I can never marry anyone, because I would hate them if they got me or anyone in my family sick, and I can't be supportive if they are. Colds and the like are no problem, it's only stomach things that I really cannot handle.
The worst part is, we usually watch TV together on Thursdays and how can I back out?? I don't want to sound crazy and don't want him to not want to be around me because of my fear. But I know he'll want me to come up tomorrow, and I am freaking out.
And now I'm worried that I brought it home from being with him yesterday.