Younger Guys

[SweetCheeks]

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[gildedangel]

Who cares about age? It's not like he is still in high school hahaha. My mom is 6 years younger than my dad, heck my boyfriend's mom is 10 years younger than her hubby. I see no problem in dating a younger guy. Go for it!

 

[iadoremac]

Girl whatever floats your boat, go ahead and do your thing

 

[tepa1974]

I dated two guys that were 7 years younger (they were 21 and I was 28) and I had lots of fun with both of them (not at the same time! LOL) I don't think there is anything wrong with it. In fact, it's a bit of an ego booster if you ask me! Go for it!

 

[Sashan]

My situation is the other way around. I'm 15 years younger than my husband and we don't even notice the age difference

It was meant to be so age has never been an issue, well except to my parents lol.

If you're in to him and you get along well, then I say go for it!

 

[TISH1124]

I am married to a younger man...I think it is all in the maturity level of both people...what you have in common and how much you enjoy each others company. I don't personally think age matters if you and the person really have similar goals, aspirations and have fun with one another...I don't give my dh's age and mine much thought never have...I fell in love with him not a number and vice versa. Besides I always tease him that he looks older anyway

 

[revoltofagirl]

I've only dated guys who were 1-2 years younger than me but that was when I was in HS/college. I think when you get past college age doesn't matter as much

if you like each other, go for it!

 

[chocolategoddes]

LOL, when I was 8, my "boyfriend" was 6. I was such a cougar.

Seriously, I don't see a problem with it. It does seem like it has become a sort of trend, though. An older woman should date a younger guy because she likes him, not for him to be some sort of accessory.

So in other words, go for it!

 

[malaviKat]

I have not.... but I totally would! (And I applaud you for wanting to do so!)

 

[Half N Half]

I guess it depends on the people involved. I prefer someone at least a couple years older than me. The youngest I've gone is 4 years younger than myself and I felt like I was his mommy the whole time. It was just weird lol

 

[Shadowy Lady]

It depends on the person. If they're mature for their age, I'd say go for it. At the end it's what you're comfortable with

 

[06290714]

Whatever floats your boat! If he makes you happy, age ain't nothing but a number.

IMO I go for older men

 

[ashley8119]

I agree with everything that has been said already. I don't think that age really matters when the two parties involved are adults. For example, I think a 16/21 relationship is too big of a gap because a 16 and 21 year old are very different levels of maturity, they want different things from a relationship (and I'm not just talking about sex. I mean everything). But if he is in his 20's and you are in your 30's, I say go for it! It seems like more often than not, men often date younger women and nobody ever says anything...but when a woman dates a younger man (even if they are both adults), people kind of make a big deal about the age gap. It shouldn't be any different no matter what gender you are.

Good luck, I hope it works between you two!

 

[cazgh]

I'm 32 and my hubby is 26. we get on perfect - he is such a fab man! Statistics always say that the life expectancy for a man is less than for a woman so the age difference just means we should last about the same time

- bloomin perfect!!

 

[User27]

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[SweetCheeks]

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[NernersHuman]

I'm 38 and my fiance is 27. We've been together since he was 22. I daresay that he's more mature than I am any day. All depends on the person.

 

[SweetCheeks]

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[Blushbaby]

Yeah, twice. Never again.

Each to their own though. I've just had bad experiences. It was just my luck that I ended up with one who was a psychotic social misfit who stalked and threatened to kill me when I ended our short fling and the other was so lazy and immature he just irritated me to high heaven and had to go.

Funnily enough both were rebounds from break ups! I obviously temporarily lose my mind and all common sense when I come out of a long term r'ship.

 

[kabuki_KILLER]

I don't think a few years is a big difference as long as he's legal! I do however feel you have to evaluate your connection level and make sure you guys are dating for the right reasons. Otherwise, being a few years older than your man isn't a big deal.

However, women 50+ that date 20 yr old boys creep me out...