kabuki_KILLER
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Yes, I know what they are and how they work, but it's the most likely explanation. A friend of mine told me that he thinks my phermones may be out of whack since I only attract the kind of guys I'd never date and never ever the ones that I would.
I don't think it's how I look because at least I don't find myself overly atrocious and they don't seem to respond negatively to me at all...until I show some interest in them, then it's like they become appalled by me or something. Suddenly, things get VERY awkward and they stop responding. If this was a one or two time thing, I'd dismiss it, but it happens pretty much every single time. I'm not single by choice. And with girls, the longer we stay single, the longer we will stay single. A lot of guys don't even seem to think of me as a viable female of the same species. It's like I might as well have been a sponge with a brain and mouth.
I want some advice from anyone that has been in a committed relationship or married for a long time. I don't care if your advice comes from experience or if it's silly. I'm an eccentric gal anyway. It just sucks to feel like no matter what I think and how I feel, it's completely worthless and pointless anyways. I've gotten to the point that I've grown cynical and approach people with more trepidation. If someone doesn't respond to me, I just start forcing myself to give up. I don't want to seem like a girl that can't take a hint.
I don't think it's how I look because at least I don't find myself overly atrocious and they don't seem to respond negatively to me at all...until I show some interest in them, then it's like they become appalled by me or something. Suddenly, things get VERY awkward and they stop responding. If this was a one or two time thing, I'd dismiss it, but it happens pretty much every single time. I'm not single by choice. And with girls, the longer we stay single, the longer we will stay single. A lot of guys don't even seem to think of me as a viable female of the same species. It's like I might as well have been a sponge with a brain and mouth.
I want some advice from anyone that has been in a committed relationship or married for a long time. I don't care if your advice comes from experience or if it's silly. I'm an eccentric gal anyway. It just sucks to feel like no matter what I think and how I feel, it's completely worthless and pointless anyways. I've gotten to the point that I've grown cynical and approach people with more trepidation. If someone doesn't respond to me, I just start forcing myself to give up. I don't want to seem like a girl that can't take a hint.