^ My boyfriend actually likes when it gets a bit 'messy', and doesn't seem to care too much if I swallow or not. He'd probably like it more if it just got all over the place (like my face) instead. TMI? lol, it's a blowjob thread though!
BTW if you are concerned about his taste have him eat leafy greans, fruit (especially pineapple), avoid alcohol, red meat, asparagus, tobacco, and coffee.
Also, try making sounds when you do it, like sucking and smacking with your lips.
Grip relatively tightly at the base. As things get closer, run your other hand up and down more tightly. Twist.
Sometimes I like to use two hands and just kind of squeeze the shaft and twist em around while I suck the head.
Let him know you appreciate his body. Kneel before him and run your hands over his chest, thighs, etc. Tell him how sexy he is, guys want to hear this too!
Try to take as much of him in as you can. If you can deep throat definitely give that a try. Sadly, I've never been able to accomplish this! It has nothing to do with gag reflex either, it's more that I can't get it past the palate (top of mouth right before throat) without breaking the damn thing in half. Anyone else know how to deal with this?