I got Rocker (and a BU of it) from the By Request collection, and I found I have the same problem. I LOVE the color, but it dries and shrivels my lips like crazy, and I don't usually have that problem! So now of course, I'm thinking Deeply Adored will be a better option, since none of the other mattes I've bought lately have been drying on me. Maybe the glitter in Rocker is the culprit? But the real question is: Since I know I'll love the color and don't have many deep red lippies, do I get a BU of DA and trust that it won't dry out my lips like Rocker? Or do I just get one DA so that I don't end up with a BU I might never even use (which is probably what will happen with my Rocker BU). Decision, decisions!!!