Resolution "LOW-BUY" 2014! Who wants to play?

Kaori

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a tiny bit of info on Ikea: they are the worlds biggest charity.

yes, they are a non profit organization.


lol


www.mentalfloss.com
Well one good thing about economic crisis is that they are finally starting to look at all those companies avoiding taxes http://www.theguardian.com/business/2012/oct/21/multinational-firms-tax-ebay-ikea Every large company tries to avoid paying taxes as much as possible... ~_~
 

User38

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loll yes, it took a worldwide economic crisis to make everyone pay their fair share!

gotta love economics
 

Naynadine

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haha wow, 65$ for nail polish and they have ONLY 2 colors? lol And 75$ for lipstick
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And their design looks so boring, at least Tom Ford beats them in that aspect if not prices lol Good job on coming to your senses
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I have to say though that companies can charge whatever they want for fragrances and I wont complain(much), after all fragrances are special and last long time and when you finally find THE ONE, it's like a match made in heaven and worth it. ;)
For me it's the other way round. I don't mind splurging on makeup but I don't like spending money on frangrances. I didn't buy any for like ten years and only started buying a few in the last years. I'm allergic to a lot of scents, and most give me a headache, so that helps me not buying a lot in the first place. I am tempted by Jo Malone, more Serge Lutens and maybe Diptyque, but I can't find samples of those and would never order one without having tested it first.
I have found one that is my go to scent and I feel really comfortable with it (Cartier Essence D'Orange), although I think most people find it manly.
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They have new a one coming out which I really want to try as too.
 

Ajigglin

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This is one of the main reasons my husband and I are considering moving back to England. Especially in my field, salaries are being cut (when they were very low to begin with), and I honestly don't see anything getting better for a long time. He's also having a hard time finding anything above retail despite years of experience because his references are in England. We're just disillusioned all around right now.
It's hard for immigrants in this country. My husband used to be a physician and now he's a stay at home dad. I don't blame you for considering leaving.
 

User38

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Kaori, TF lipsticks are $ 49 not $ 75 but there are some brands that are even more expensive..Maybe you meant Serge Lutens, as being one of them, Sisley, is also very high... and now The Lipstick Queen has a higher high lippie.. $ 50. Armani is not cheap and Chanel has just raised prices.

they are all a bit insane imo.. but I still love my TF and Chanel.. lol.
 

Glitteryvegas

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Kaori, TF lipsticks are $ 49 not $ 75 but there are some brands that are even more expensive..Maybe you meant Serge Lutens, as being one of them, Sisley, is also very high... and now The Lipstick Queen has a higher high lippie.. $ 50. Armani is not cheap and Chanel has just raised prices.

they are all a bit insane imo.. but I still love my TF and Chanel.. lol.
Maybe she meant w/exchange? In GBP a 36 pound lipstick is $65 Canadian. Insane.
 

Naynadine

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Kaori, TF lipsticks are $ 49 not $ 75 but there are some brands that are even more expensive.. Serge Lutens, being one of them, Sisley, is also very high... and now The Lipstick Queen has a higher high lippie.. $ 50. Armani is not cheap and Chanel has just raised prices.

they are all a bit insane imo.. but I still love my TF and Chanel.. lol.
We were talking about the SL ones :)
 

Kaori

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Kaori, TF lipsticks are $ 49 not $ 75 but there are some brands that are even more expensive..Maybe you meant Serge Lutens, as being one of them, Sisley, is also very high... and now The Lipstick Queen has a higher high lippie.. $ 50. Armani is not cheap and Chanel has just raised prices.

they are all a bit insane imo.. but I still love my TF and Chanel.. lol.
I meant Serge Lutens beats even TF with that lipstick 75$ price XD
I just don't like that armani, chanel, dior etc keep lipstick prices around 35$ but TF goes up to 49$ for same quality~
 

Rainbunny

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I enjoyed reading you guys' thoughts on TF, and super HE products. For me, right now, I just have no business splurging like that. I've spent too much in a very short period. I'm young, and I have my whole life to buy beautiful cosmetics - what's the point of having it all right now? I won't enjoy it or feel good about it, I will feel  guilty and anxious! I may get a Burberry lipstick and/or an eyeshadow, but I need to think about it.
Good for you! If you do decide to go to HR while in Vancouver, I suggest waiting until the end of your trip. If you have had a great time seeing the sights, the desire for HE makeup may have gone away by then, and you will know how much money you have already spent on your trip. Plus, you may decide you'd rather go do something like go to the Aquarium instead on your last day, and visit the belugas instead of the Burberry counter. They are magical to see. Enjoy your trip!
 

myfavoritePA

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Interesting that you said this....I did a teaching practicum in India for approximately 2 months (and an extra 1 month of travel). It was an amazing and eye opening experience in terms of consumption and the way that other people live. I would say, in my estimation, that it impacted me deeply forever, but on the surface for only a few months after my return. What I mean is this - when you are there and surrounded with the realities that many people face every day, it does make you re-evaluate your life and your belief systems in relation to how we live in the West. You begin to notice how many things that we have in relation to others and when you return, you really are so thankful for everything (hot running water, for example). However, after a few months, you 're-climatise' to your surroundings again and the reverse culture shock wears off.....which means you go right back to the same as before. I think lasting change can't come from external exposure, no matter how shocking and (oftentimes) upsetting it is at the time (and so many things that I witnessed were shocking or upsetting). I think that in order to last, the change that we seek must be obtained in relation to the lives that we live in our every day surroundings. We adapt to our surroundings, so this isn't surprising to me. I think the gulf between intention and actualization is sometimes huge and overwhelming, and it can be complicated when commitments are made when we aren't in our regular 'habitat' so to speak. This was a struggle that my peers had as well, and we had so many conversations about it during our time together. I'm not saying seeing the ways that other people live doesn't impact a person, but I think the impact wears off after a while once we return to the comforts of home.

Interestingly (but not surprisingly!), the people with so little in India (including the kids that i worked with!) seemed happier than people I know here in Canada. That is because in the town where I worked, the feeling of community was prevalent - and as we know, good relationships are a key to happiness.
Just my two cents based on my experiences though!
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Thanks for this perspective. It does make sense that one would "re-climatize" after a while, although I'm guessing an experience like you had still stays with you in some sense, even if it is primarily subconscious. That said, I tend to agree with your statement that ultimately, "lasting change can't come from external exposure". I think that is pretty profound, actually. :)
 

lipstickaddict

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Interesting that you said this....I did a teaching practicum in India for approximately 2 months (and an extra 1 month of travel). It was an amazing and eye opening experience in terms of consumption and the way that other people live. I would say, in my estimation, that it impacted me deeply forever, but on the surface for only a few months after my return. What I mean is this - when you are there and surrounded with the realities that many people face every day, it does make you re-evaluate your life and your belief systems in relation to how we live in the West. You begin to notice how many things that we have in relation to others and when you return, you really are so thankful for everything (hot running water, for example). However, after a few months, you 're-climatise' to your surroundings again and the reverse culture shock wears off.....which means you go right back to the same as before. I think lasting change can't come from external exposure, no matter how shocking and (oftentimes) upsetting it is at the time (and so many things that I witnessed were shocking or upsetting). I think that in order to last, the change that we seek must be obtained in relation to the lives that we live in our every day surroundings. We adapt to our surroundings, so this isn't surprising to me. I think the gulf between intention and actualization is sometimes huge and overwhelming, and it can be complicated when commitments are made when we aren't in our regular 'habitat' so to speak. This was a struggle that my peers had as well, and we had so many conversations about it during our time together. I'm not saying seeing the ways that other people live doesn't impact a person, but I think the impact wears off after a while once we return to the comforts of home.

Interestingly (but not surprisingly!), the people with so little in India (including the kids that i worked with!) seemed happier than people I know here in Canada. That is because in the town where I worked, the feeling of community was prevalent - and as we know, good relationships are a key to happiness.
Just my two cents based on my experiences though!
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Yes they are! And thank goodness that there is hope---for while it may be a struggle, long term change IS possible, at least that is what I am working towards :) I can totally relate to your experiences. Thanks for sharing.
 

Glitteryvegas

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Yes they are! And thank goodness that there is hope---for while it may be a struggle, long term change IS possible, at least that is what I am working towards :) I can totally relate to your experiences. Thanks for sharing.

Thank you for sharing! :) You are so right, long term change is possible when we are mindful and reflective :) It is a wonderful and beautiful thing!

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@Glitteryvegas, I love what you said.
Thank you! Lots of great reflection happens in this space and I love that I have the freedom to express myself here!
 

Elba

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You guys, I've been doing so good! I messed up at the beginning of january and got sucked in the sales, and then I bought some pieces off ebay, just because, and I was just about ready to give up on my low buy. But ever since I've been good, and it's getting easier every day! What really helped my were my lists: I've made an inventory, and I keep a running list on purchases and money spent. And to motivate myself I keep a list of used up products, which are surprisingly many. I've used up a lipstick, several mascara samples, and my very last brow gel. My current powder and concealer show a lot of pan, and for the first time ever I've made a dent in a bronzer. I'm not even in a hurry to replace the brow gel, even though I'm allowed to according to my rules. I've purged my stash so much! It's like I'm putting all the energy I used to direct to buying make up into getting rid of it now. Lol, if that makes any sense. I've got this little box next to my vanity, where all my rejects go, and it's getting more each day. I'll never be a true minimalist with make up, and I don't really want to, but I don't wanna be a hoarder either. I'm fine with having a large stash with lots of variety. I'm fine with having a pink, beige, bronze, gold and a coral highlighter, just not three of each. I've got three red lipsticks I love wearing (MAC Après Chic, Burberry Claret and Becca Tatiana :eyelove:), and that's fine too. They're all different enough for me. But I should really get rid of all my other reds, because I just don't wear them. It's still a work in progress, but it feels so damn good! All this purging and thinking what I really want and need feels so much better than buying stuff! Because I'm taking back control and I'm working on myself. So rewarding, seriously!
 

janette9687

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just an update I'm doing good no makeup so far or temptations, haven't been able to get on as much as I am back on my gym routine of weight lifting, cross fit and Olympic lifts but sending positive low buy vibes!
 

charlotte366

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Just caught up with 156 unread posts....that was a marathon read! I love reading this thread and usually pop in daily. I think its important to remember each individual has there own reasons for the low buy, for some money is the motivator, others have other underlying issues and for some it fulls into a quantity issue. For me I a split motivator, I used to use credit to purchase my fix, but I got over this a couple of years ago, now I have a quantity issue, I was better last year but has fits and bursts of hauling, like I would pop to the drugstore and come back with 6 shades in the same formula without buying one to test first. I have spent a lot of time in Janaury and February purging and testing items, some are leaving my stash others now get more love, I am now more cautious when I walk in the drugstore and more often than not I walk out without purchasing anything at the moment. So for me right now I would rather have one well researched quality item that quantity from the drugstore. I haven't ventured into Tom Ford yet, but 1 or 2 lipsticks are on my swatch list. But if that quality item happens to be drugstore, then that is even better. Most of all I am enjoying trying to use things up, currently working on 2 foundations a primer sample and a chanel lipstick that I love. I will be sad when its finished but I want to enjoy it and then finish something else, I don't want it to go off. Maybe next year I can replace it when I have used up some other bits and pieces! Keep strong ladies, be true to your own low buy rules and remember the same approach won't work for everyone to be true to what works for you and believe that you can do this!
 
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