Resolution "LOW-BUY" 2014! Who wants to play?

[PixieDancer]

36A here, unless pregnant, breastfeeding or overweight. When I was younger and on the pill, I could just about fill a B cup. Luckily my husband is a butt man, and I've always had things more than covered in that department. Makes it hard to find pants that fit in both the waist and the hips, but we all have our sizing challenges.

Sadly, like the boobs, things in that department don't appear to have quite stayed where they once were. I better not be on the long descent to my Nan's pancake butt of old age! Not sure quite how this happened, but my 19 year-old seems have to absconded with my ass. Looks better on her anyway.

Pixie, looking fierce! Even at my youngest and fittest I never had a belly like that and pregnancy didn't help. Did your boy come out freeze-dried? Good for you!
LMFAO!!! Thank you silly girl! I wish he had come out freeze dried... big old baby that he was! That was a challenging time in my life in many ways! It's amazing what a little "pissed off" will do for you! I had so much to prove to myself and people that thought I'd never get back to where I was. That I was somehow supposed to be ok with being a lesser version of myself after giving birth. What a load of crap! I looked better after having my son than I ever did before. That extra baby weight helped fill me out and my body impressions changed! I had a focus on being healthy, not just being skinny!

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I gave a lipstick to my mum and the mini nail polish set to my mum in law, I don't think I'll be able to sell them so I'm happy to reduce my stash a different way!!

That is the best feeling! To me, the money has already been spent. So if someone else will love it and get it the hell out of my sight... GREAT!! And it makes you feel awesome brightening someones day with a little beauty gift! My son's little girl friend was precious when I gave her some makeup goodies! Good for you!!

 

[User38]

I was thinking the same thing, but didn't say anything because I thought maybe people would think it was inappropriate, lol. Hot cover @PixieDancer! And congrats!

LOL

I think I was born Inappropriate and am proud of it.. too, I think the ladies here know it

 

[PixieDancer]

LOL

I think I was born Inappropriate and am proud of it.. too, I think the ladies here know it

HeeHee ME TOO, ME TOO!!! Life's more fun this way I think! Nothing wrong with a little LOVE!!!

 

[veronikawithak]

HeeHee ME TOO, ME TOO!!! Life's more fun this way I think! Nothing wrong with a little LOVE!!!

I'll drink to that!!! I prefer the word "uninhibited" rather than inappropriate.

 

[veronikawithak]

Ps. 32G here.. plus overflow. Already have back problems at 26 so yes I wish they were a tad smaller.

Fortunately they're in proportion and with weight loss they should be manageable, I hope..

 

[User38]

I'll drink to that!!! I prefer the word "uninhibited" rather than inappropriate.

I will drink to uninhibited too.. lol

(beer only) since I am a known wino too..

 

[PixieDancer]

Ps. 32G here.. plus overflow. Already have back problems at 26 so yes I wish they were a tad smaller.

Fortunately they're in proportion and with weight loss they should be manageable, I hope..

LOL @ manageable! Guys would kill us if they knew we were talking about our "girls" so "scientifically"! HeeHee

 

[veronikawithak]

LOL @ manageable! Guys would kill us if they knew we were talking about our "girls" so "scientifically"! HeeHee

Oh mine knows all about the struggle.. haha. He jokes about how much horsepower is needed to motorboat. And if he's being bad I threaten to suffocate him with them in his sleep.

 

[Beautybuyer]

Lol I'm a 34f and waiting for mine to deflate back to a D. To my ladies with breast augmentations do you have to go bigger? Or can I stay around the same size? I don't want a lift because of those scars it leaves

 

[texasmommy]

Yes once I'm done with school and my kids are big I want to leave my hopeful career and start ALL over to have a daughter?! No thanks I want to put my kids through college and travel not have another one lol

I have two girls and I have been told that A LOT, too! Try to have just one more, try for a boy.... But I am better than good with my two littles and probably can not have anymore kids anyway. I remind some of my aunts and they go "ohhh yeah" and look so disappointed lol

 

[Beautybuyer]

I have two girls and I have been told that A LOT, too!  Try to have just one more, try for a boy.... But I am better than good with my two littles and probably can not have anymore kids anyway.  I remind some of my aunts and they go "ohhh yeah" and look so disappointed lol 

It's like we're cursed because we got two of the same sex!! I hope my younger sister has the girls lol

 

[PixieDancer]

Lol I'm a 34f and waiting for mine to deflate back to a D. To my ladies with breast augmentations do you have to go bigger? Or can I stay around the same size? I don't want a lift because of those scars it leaves

That's tricky. Unless you do a lift or reduction, which will have extra scarring than just implants, you will almost have to go bigger. That was the issue I ran into. After having my son, my glands would not adjust to what he needed for breastfeeding. So I pumped and fed him my breast milk in a bottle for the first 6 months of his life. Basically my once 32B/C breasts stayed engorged for the entire length of that time. They ended up having enough extra skin to fill out 32DDD. So unless I wanted to have that extra skin cut off (lift) I was stuck with my only other option, which was to fill up the sagging/deflated skin with implant. Hence, the big mamas I'm carrying around now on my 5'1, 105lb frame. They have made some great advancements in the scarring department since my procedure(s) were done... so definitely check out all your options with a REPUTABLE physician. Do not go for the cheapest doctor or even the one all your friends went to. Do your research. Ask questions. And ask to see before and after photos of past patients. It's not a decision to rush into. And trust me, I made that mistake too. Note the extra SSSSSS in procedure(S)! HTH
Feel free to PM me if you have additional questions. I'm happy to help.

 

[Audrey C]

I have two girls and I have been told that A LOT, too! Try to have just one more, try for a boy.... But I am better than good with my two littles and probably can not have anymore kids anyway. I remind some of my aunts and they go "ohhh yeah" and look so disappointed lol

Try for a boy...like girls (or boys) aren't a 'whole' family on their own?! I had the opposite problem. I had a girl and a boy back to back, and a few years later we decided to have a third. Apparently, that's not allowed. You have no idea how many people not only assumed but actually felt comfortable saying things like, 'Oh, this one's an accident/mistake'. My other favourite was, "But you already have both - what do you want?"

A baby, jackass. What does it look like?

 

[PixieDancer]

Try for a boy...like girls (or boys) aren't a 'whole' family on their own?! I had the opposite problem. I had a girl and a boy back to back, and a few years later we decided to have a third. Apparently, that's not allowed. You have no idea how many people not only assumed but actually felt comfortable saying things like, 'Oh, this one's an accident/mistake'. My other favourite was, "But you already have both - what do you want?"

A baby, jackass. What does it look like?

People are SOOOOOOO STOOOOOOPID! I think you should be able to walk around with a roll of duct tape and cut off a strip and slap it right on their STOOOOOOPID mouths when they say stupid shit like that! Infuriating idiots!

PS I clearly don't like when people speak or treat children poorly. MAJOR peeve of mine!

 

[Beautybuyer]

That's tricky. Unless you do a lift or reduction, which will have extra scarring than just implants, you will almost have to go bigger. That was the issue I ran into. After having my son, my glands would not adjust to what he needed for breastfeeding. So I pumped and fed him my breast milk in a bottle for the first 6 months of his life. Basically my once 32B/C breasts stayed engorged for the entire length of that time. They ended up having enough extra skin to fill out 32DDD. So unless I wanted to have that extra skin cut off (lift) I was stuck with my only other option, which was to fill up the sagging/deflated skin with implant. Hence, the big mamas I'm carrying around now on my 5'1, 105lb frame. They have made some great advancements in the scarring department since my procedure(s) were done... so definitely check out all your options with a REPUTABLE physician. Do not go for the cheapest doctor or even the one all your friends went to. Do your research. Ask questions. And ask to see before and after photos of past patients. It's not a decision to rush into. And trust me, I made that mistake too. Note the extra SSSSSS in procedure(S)! HTH  Feel free to PM me if you have additional questions. I'm happy to help.

I was seriously worried about that! But thanks. I guess I'll seriously work out first and see what results that gets before even going in. I for sure don't want a cheap dr. That freaks me out!! I've been told to ask for lots of photos as they like to show their best work!! I'm part black so to me any scarring is a scary venture as scars don't heal and disappear in my family. I see most lifts still have those inch scars under the areola so I can have perky boobs but scarred or my sag bags LOL So I shouldn't go to the popular advertise physician? I'll have to take my mom. Lol there's no getting past her.

Try for a boy...like girls (or boys) aren't a 'whole' family on their own?! I had the opposite problem. I had a girl and a boy back to back, and a few years later we decided to have a third. Apparently, that's not allowed. You have no idea how many people not only assumed but actually felt comfortable saying things like, 'Oh, this one's an accident/mistake'. My other favourite was, "But you already have both - what do you want?" A baby, jackass. What does it look like?

People think they can say whatever they want!!! Ever since I've had kids I'm astonished how many things STRANGERS have to say to me! I mean my two year old was playing with a toy and some man came up to us and was like don't buy your kid that. You'll regret it. Like I can see how noisy it is why are you intervening in my child's toy shopping trip? They just always say so many comments to me! I guess because my kids are 18 months apart I look like the walking circus who clearly needs tips and advice....not

 

[Audrey C]

People are SOOOOOOO STOOOOOOPID! I think you should be able to walk around with a roll of duct tape and cut off a strip and slap it right on their STOOOOOOPID mouths when they say stupid shit like that! Infuriating idiots!

PS I clearly don't like when people speak or treat children poorly. MAJOR peeve of mine!

Oh, no one actually said it to my daughter. OMG - DYING here. Yeah, that would have been an Extinction Level Event. Theirs. I don't suffer fools gladly at the best of times. It was irritating when I was pregnant, but anyone who'd actually looked at my living, breathing child and uttered 'mistake or accident' in my presence would have been sorry they were ever born.

 

[CrimsonQuill157]

Try for a boy...like girls (or boys) aren't a 'whole' family on their own?! I had the opposite problem. I had a girl and a boy back to back, and a few years later we decided to have a third. Apparently, that's not allowed. You have no idea how many people not only assumed but actually felt comfortable saying things like, 'Oh, this one's an accident/mistake'. My other favourite was, "But you already have both - what do you want?"

A baby, jackass. What does it look like?

Ugh people kill me. If you don't want kids you're crazy, if you want just one you need more, if you have two of the same gender you need to try for another, if you have one of each you should stop, etc etc no matter what you do someone's gonna bitch.

 

[PixieDancer]

Oh, no one actually said it to my daughter. OMG - DYING here. Yeah, that would have been an Extinction Level Event. Theirs. I don't suffer fools gladly at the best of times. It was irritating when I was pregnant, but anyone who'd actually looked at my living, breathing child and uttered 'mistake or accident' in my presence would have been sorry they were ever born.

SERIOUSLY!!!!???? OH MAJOR "mama bear" moment! There would've been no safe place for them to hide! No excuse for that... NONE!
My baby sister was definitely not "planned" (10 years younger than my older sister!) but my mom always used to tell her she was a miracle... and that there is no such thing as a "mistake" or "accident" when it comes to a child! That she had a "special purpose" because she was an "unexpected miracle"! It always made her feel extra special, and I LOVED that!

 

[Audrey C]

SERIOUSLY!!!!???? OH MAJOR "mama bear" moment! There would've been no safe place for them to hide! No excuse for that... NONE!
My baby sister was definitely not "planned" (10 years younger than my older sister!) but my mom always used to tell her she was a miracle... and that there is no such thing as a "mistake" or "accident" when it comes to a child! That she had a "special purpose" because she was an "unexpected miracle"! It always made her feel extra special, and I LOVED that!

I couldn't agree more. My children have all been blessings in ways I could never have planned for or expected. That wouldn't have changed even if one of them had been a surprise. And if they're being a pain in the ass (17 year-old male, anyone?) then having carefully planned their conception is no comfort!

 

[LinenWhite7]

Try for a boy...like girls (or boys) aren't a 'whole' family on their own?! I had the opposite problem. I had a girl and a boy back to back, and a few years later we decided to have a third. Apparently, that's not allowed. You have no idea how many people not only assumed but actually felt comfortable saying things like, 'Oh, this one's an accident/mistake'. My other favourite was, "But you already have both - what do you want?" A baby, jackass. What does it look like?

Ugh, preach! I've got two girls (3 and 20 months), and I don't feel any need to add more kids. They are awesome and we are a whole family!